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Work? Parenting? Bill-paying? Maybe it’s anxiety, personal relationships or money stress? How Trigger Warnings Are Hurting Mental Health on Campus. Something strange is happening at America’s colleges and universities.
A movement is arising, undirected and driven largely by students, to scrub campuses clean of words, ideas, and subjects that might cause discomfort or give offense. Last December, Jeannie Suk wrote in an online article for The New Yorker about law students asking her fellow professors at Harvard not to teach rape law—or, in one case, even use the word violate (as in “that violates the law”) lest it cause students distress. In February, Laura Kipnis, a professor at Northwestern University, wrote an essay in The Chronicle of Higher Education describing a new campus politics of sexual paranoia—and was then subjected to a long investigation after students who were offended by the article and by a tweet she’d sent filed Title IX complaints against her.
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You want this, you’re frustrated about that, you’re annoyed about some other thing and the list never stops. And it makes it impossible to be happy. What would be nice is to have a perspective that helps your brain deal with all of these negative emotions. And there may be one — and you’ve probably heard the name a lot lately: Mindfulness. And research shows it works. Three big names in the field have collaborated to produce an app that can teach you how to be more mindful. These 20 Books Are Game Changers, Read Them Before You Turn 30. Books offer wisdom that we ourselves might need years to figure out.
These images show the naturalness of breastfeeding worldwide. ANYWHERE, ANYTIME — this is the “right” time for a woman to breastfeed her child or children.
Many societies and cultures these days have taken offense to displays of breastfeeding, as something that is unnecessary to do in public. Meanwhile, breastfeeding remains an ancient, beautiful, natural, and yes, necessary and life-giving act for humankind, and it takes place every minute of every day all around the world. It is universal. It should be celebrated, and not shamed. Tony Robbins on his morning routine. Tonyrobbins.com Seminars that last 12 to 14 hours require Robbins to have an athletic stamina.
"I made a deal with myself: If you don't have 10 minutes for yourself, you don't have a life," Robbins said. What I Learned From Dating Women Who Have Been Raped. What I Learned From Dating Women Who Have Been Raped I don’t know how I expected a rape victim to act, but I didn’t expect her to be so funny.
Or to be punk, in this kinda sexy bleached blonde but kind of too lazy to really care sort of way. The Shortness of Life: Seneca on Busyness and the Art of Living Wide Rather Than Living Long. “How we spend our days,” Annie Dillard memorably wrote in her soul-stretching meditation on the life of presence, “is, of course, how we spend our lives.”
And yet most of us spend our days in what Kierkegaard believed to be our greatest source of unhappiness — a refusal to recognize that “busy is a decision” and that presence is infinitely more rewarding than productivity. The Expose Project. How To Stop Being Lazy And Get More Done - 5 Expert Tips. Some days the to-do list seems bottomless.
Just looking at it is exhausting. How to debug your brain. 47.9k shares Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Our brains are the most bug ridden pieces of junk since Internet Explorer. To replicate one common bug, try telling your brain to “go to the gym”. Most brains will respond by updating their Facebook status, and watching cat videos. This is not the desired behaviour.
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It doesn’t matter that there’s no backing for them. The only thing that counts is that people believe they have backing. Then, like bad coins, they turn up again and again. One Exercise Sure to Make You Feel Better About Yourself. The Procrastination Matrix. Note: To best understand this post, you should first read Part 1 of Wait But Why’s previous post on procrastination. Back in high school, if you had asked me if I were a procrastinator, I would have said yes. High school students are given all these lectures about “pacing yourself” on longer projects, and I proudly paced myself less than almost anyone I knew. Here's The Schedule Very Successful People Follow Every Day. Say Yes To The Stress. 12 Weird Shapes You See Frequently But Probably Didn't Know Have Real Names.
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The Death Of Expertise. I am (or at least think I am) an expert. Not on everything, but in a particular area of human knowledge, specifically social science and public policy. Symbols of West Africa. Origins Of Popular Jewish Surnames. Introduction. Growing out of the wisdom of China, India, and Japan, Zen became a powerful movement to explore the lesser-known reaches of the human mind.
9 Ways To Become The Master Of Your Own Mind. Many of us spend an exorbitant amount of time and energy -- not to mention money -- taking care of our bodies, and trying to keep ourselves looking and feeling our best. But when it comes to the mind, less attention (literally) is paid. Taking care of the mind can come as an afterthought, and often we think of the mind as something outside of our own control. There’s a Word for That: 25 Expressions You Should Have in Your Vocabulary. How To Make Your Life Better By Sending Five Simple Emails. Improve Your Life: What 10 Things Should You Do Every Day To Improve Your Life?
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