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» 12 Practical Steps for Learning to Go With the Flow

» 12 Practical Steps for Learning to Go With the Flow
“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them – that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” - Lao-Tzu Post written by Leo Babauta. No matter how much structure we create in our lives, no matter how many good habits we build, there will always be things that we cannot control — and if we let them, these things can be a huge source of anger, frustration and stress. The simple solution: learn to go with the flow. “Smile, breathe and go slowly.” - Thich Nhat Hanh For example, let’s say you’ve created the perfect peaceful morning routine. You get angry. Not the best way to handle things, is it? Go with the flow. What is going with the flow? “Flow with whatever is happening and let your mind be free. A reader recently asked me to write more about going with the flow, so this is my attempt to share some of the things that work for me. Realize that you can’t control everything. “I accept chaos. Related:  lifestyleapmangat

365 Thought Provoking Questions to Ask Yourself This Year “Asking the right questions is the answer.” That’s the tagline at the top of our sister site Thought Questions. The site thrives on the philosophy that a question that makes you think is worth asking. So we’ve made a ritual of asking one new thought provoking question every day for our visitors to ponder and answer. Over the past year we have received countless requests to compile all the questions and place them on a single page that can be easily printed and reviewed. When was the last time you tried something new? Also, we’d love it if you visited Thought Questions and shared some of your answers with us. Photo by: Jacob Botter Related 25 Questions that Provoke Thought If the question makes you think, it’s worth asking. January 4, 2010 In "Hacks" 50 Questions That Will Free Your Mind These questions have no right or wrong answers. July 13, 2009 7 Questions You Are Too Scared to Ask It’s not about finding the right answers; it’s about asking the right questions.

5 Pressure Points To Relieve Body Discomforts 5 Pressure Points To Relieve Body Discomforts Acupressure is a traditional Chinese medicine (TCM) technique that involves placing physical pressure by hand, elbow on different acupuncture points on the surface of the body to relieve symptoms. Here are 5 pressure points that you and I can work on at any time and anywhere. Just use the thumbs, fingers, palms, the side of the hand, or knuckles to apply steady, stationary pressure. To relax an area or relieve pain, apply pressure gradually and hold without any movement for several minutes at a time. (A) Heavenly Pillar Relieves stress, over exhaustion, insomnia, heaviness in the head, eyestrain, stiff necks, swollen eyes, and sore throats. (B) Heavenly Rejuvenation Relieves nervous tension and stiff necks; increases resistance to colds and flu. (C) Crooked Marsh Relieves nervous stomach, anxiety, arm pain, elbow pain, and chest discomfort. (D) Inner Gate Relieves nausea, anxiety, palpitations, and wrist pain. (E) Spirit Gate

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Symptom Checker In an early Mahayana text, the Buddhist sage Vimalakirti mused that, "All sentient beings are ill" (Birnbaum, p.13). To the Tibetan, the inevitability of suffering and illness is a reflection of the fact that we are born. The Tibetans believe that we "take birth" because we are ignorant of the true nature of reality and that it is this ignorance that is the cause of all suffering and disorder. Dr. Yeshi Donden remarked that "the root [of illness] is beginningless ignorance" and that "ignorance is with us like our own shadow . . . even if we think that we are in very good health, actually we have had the basic cause of illness since beginningless time" (Donden, p. 26). Tibetans believe that our false perceptions of the world and its projections actually change the world, which is fundamentally neutral. "In sooth to every man that's born A hatchet grows within his mouth, Wherewith the fool, whene'er he speaks And speaks amiss, doth cut himself . . ."

The Top 10 Psychology Studies of 2010 The end of 2010 fast approaches, and I'm thrilled to have been asked by the editors of Psychology Today to write about the Top 10 psychology studies of the year. I've focused on studies that I personally feel stand out, not only as examples of great science, but even more importantly, as examples of how the science of psychology can improve our lives. Each study has a clear "take home" message, offering the reader an insight or a simple strategy they can use to reach their goals , strengthen their relationships, make better decisions, or become happier. 1) How to Break Bad Habits If you are trying to stop smoking , swearing, or chewing your nails, you have probably tried the strategy of distracting yourself - taking your mind off whatever it is you are trying not to do - to break the habit. That's because habit-behaviors happen automatically - often, without our awareness. J. 2) How to Make Everything Seem Easier J. 3) How To Manage Your Time Better M. 4) How to Be Happier J.

Foods for Healthy Skin 70.2K Flares70.2K Flares × How many times have you heard people say that you are what you eat? When it comes to reaching your fitness goals, this is definitely a principle to live by. If you keep on loading up on carbs, insisting on consuming fatty foods and not minding the caloric content of food at all – then there could be disastrous results as far as your weight is concerned. Now, the same principle applies when it comes to the effect of the foods that you are eating to the quality of your skin. You might be surprised at how loading up on a lot of fruits and vegetables can do wonders for your skin. The problem is that we live in a world where everybody seems to be looking for that quick fix. Rather than thinking about the natural methods that you can use to improve the quality of your skin, most people browse through the shelves of drugstores and the ‘Healthy & Beauty’ sections of department stores. The Top 10 Foods that Benefit Your Skin the Most 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10.

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dreams etc. Sarah - I very much admire the work you have done on understanding yourself and the dream - and of course your description of your own difficulties. I believe that many reactions we develop in regard to childhood treatment are not simply traumas but are habits that got deeply etched into us as survival tactics. So not only do we need to experience and heal the feelings, as you are doing in the dream, but then we have to work bloody hard to develop new habits. See Something I experienced in meeting this was when I met my first habit as a new born baby. So to meet the anxious or frightened defensive self we need to understand its real feelings and that it cannot let them go of without a real other view of what it could do - move instead of lying there where everything can get you - or whatever you can do to move the inner determination of your child self. Marilyn, a woman I worked with was in the middle of a difficult divorce. Tony

10 Decisions Happy People Make We can create health and happiness by choice. Those choices are in how we think, act and react to the things we cannot control. These 10 decisions are choices we can make to lead happier and healthier lives -- no matter what comes our way. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. For more by Lisabeth Saunders Medlock, Ph.D., click here. For more on happiness, click here.

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