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6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person

6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person
2016, motherfuckers. Yeah! LET'S DO THIS. "Do what?" you ask. I DON'T KNOW. Feel free to stop reading this if your career is going great, you're thrilled with your life, and you're happy with your relationships. Via For the rest of you, I want you to try something: Name five impressive things about yourself. Note: I originally posted this in December of 2012, and to date it has drawn more than 20 million page views and been shared on Facebook more than half a million times. #6. Getty Let's say that the person you love the most has just been shot. Getty"OK, which one is the injured one?" You ask, "Are you a doctor?" The guy says, "No." You say, "But you know what you're doing, right? At this point the guy becomes annoyed. Confused, you say, "How does any of that fucking matter when my [wife/husband/best friend/parent] is lying here bleeding! Now the man becomes agitated -- why are you being shallow and selfish? Getty"I don't get it. Getty"Here's that shit you needed. #5. #4.

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The Four Things That Kill a Relationship Stone Dead A recipe for divorce: criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. For over 40 years the psychologist Professor John Gottman has been analysing relationships, both good and bad. He’s followed couples across decades in many psychological studies to see what kinds of behaviours predict whether they would stay together in the long-term or were soon destined for the divorce courts. Amongst the factors he identified, four have stood out, time and time again. When Gottman sees a couple’s communication overrun with these, the chances are they will divorce in an average of around six years from their marriage.

21 People Share Something Someone Said That Forever Changed Their Way Of Thinking. 8. I'm the oldest of three kids. I'm older than my little brother by 2.5 years and my little sister by 9.5. Ben Mathis Put your money where your mouth is -Ben Mathis I've always liked the saying, “You can talk the talk, but can you walk the walk?”. I see so many people talking about this or that, but when it comes to putting actions behind their words, they can't be bothered. The amount of action you take to bring something about, is directly proportional to your desire for it to exist.

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University of South Carolina Dr. Malone earned his degree in Social Psychology from the University of Texas at Austin. He spent the first part of his career at Duke University, where he developed interests in statistical methods, data analysis, and methodology for prevention research. A Quick Guide to Gaining Confidence When You Socialize By Leo Babauta I’m a shy person by nature, not a natural extrovert and definitely not comfortable in large groups of people. So if you’re like me at all, then this guide is for you. The World of Hidden Emotions Machine Elf 1735 (CC) Emotions are important, but there is the massive confusion in both popular and scientific conceptions of even what they are. There is also a sizable structure of erroneous assumptions, such as venting anger “gets it off your chest.”

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