Signs That You’ve Been Abused by a Narcissist | After Narcissistic Abuse Do you recognize that you’re doubting yourself more than you ever have before? Victims of narcissistic abuse often appear uncertain of themselves, constantly seeking clarification that they haven’t made a mistake or misheard something. This reactive adaptation to narcissistic abuse is because the narcissist is ALWAYS finger pointing and shifting blame to YOU for ALL of the ups & downs both in the relationship AND in the narcissist’s personal psyche. Because this relationship has NON EXISTENT boundaries, you will find YOURSELF constantly PUT UPON and FORCED to accept responsibility for things you didn’t do or say. Just refer to the above explanation of self doubt and boundary transgression if you want to understand the CONFUSION that is part and parcel of narcissistic abuse. Daily boundary transgression and criss crossing of responsibility starts to wear on even the clearest minded of targets. It’s crazy-making and a narcissist purposefully causes this confusion. Let’s face it. Avoidance –
Trou dans un CV : ce qu'il faut dire… et ne pas dire Nombreux sont les postulants qui craignent que les "trous" dans leur CV ne fassent mauvaise impression dans leur dossier de candidature, voire les disqualifient pour une mission, un remplacement, un poste... Le problème se pose d'autant plus qu'une majorité de salariés est confrontée à cette situation au moins une fois dans sa vie. Karine Doukhan, directeur associée chez Robert Half Management Resources, donne ses conseils sur ce qu'il faut dire et ne pas dire pour justifier ces "trous" de carrière. Ne jamais mentir Certaines personnes sont tentées de mentir au sujet de leur période d’inactivité ou de truquer les dates de leurs périodes d’emploi. Ne pas entrer dans les détails Il importe de présenter honnêtement les raisons de cette période d’inactivité, mais sans entrer dans les détails. Quelques exemples que détaille Karine Doukhan de bonnes et de mauvaises explications à donner: - Pour justifier un congé parental. - Suite à un accident. Toujours rester positif
5 Reasons You're A Good Catch And Still SIngle When it comes to dating there are certain number of women who feel that because they are a good catch the relationship gods are being cruel to them. They look around at their friends and loved ones who are happily married or in relationships and think that they have been cursed because they don't have that special someone to share their life with. I can understand. For years I felt the same way. I sat by and rode the dating and relationship roller coaster for years as all of my friends and family members got married and started having families. Why was it that they found their mates easily and kept struggling year after year? Ultimately I learned that no matter how much of a good catch one was there were only 5 reasons those who wanted to be in a relationship were still single. If everyone is telling you what a great catch you are but you still haven't found that special someone to share your life with you might want to look at the following list. Dating is simply a numbers game.
CV : ce que les recruteurs regardent en premier Après avoir consulté plus de 2.100 managers européens qui ont en charge notamment le recrutement au sein de leur société, le cabinet Robert Half a établi un classement de ce que ces derniers regardent en priorité dans les CV qu’ils reçoivent. Et ce tour d’Europe montre que les entreprises françaises ont une approche différente des autres qui met à bas une idée reçue. Les Français sont en effet persuadés que le diplôme reste le sésame absolu pour être embauché, y compris quand on a acquis une longue expérience. Or selon cette enquête, le premier élément que scrute un recruteur, c’est l’expérience professionnelle (42% des répondants). Un niveau particulièrement bas si on le compare aux pratiques des autres recruteurs en Europe. L'analyse des informations émanant des réseaux sociaux est une pratique rare Autre surprise de cette étude, la recherche d’informations via les réseaux sociaux reste une pratique secondaire pour les recruteurs.
26 Signs He's Cheating On You - How to Know If Your Boyfriend Is Cheating 1. He tells you he isn't really ready for a relationship early on. Yet he continues to talk to you and lead you on in a way that seems serious. 2. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. 26. Cheaters, bottom line: Rotten E Cards Victims of cheating, bottom line: If any of these signals sound familiar or you have caught him red-handed with his pants down around his ankles, the only logical thing to do now is have your BFF ring his doorbell and do this:More related stories: Most Iconic Hookups and Breakups EVER 10 Things You Should Never Say To a Single Twentysomething 21 Problems Only Girls with Big Boobs Understand Understand 10 Things You Should Never Say to a Single Twentysomething 17 Not-So-Tiny Problems Only Short People Understand Photo Credit: FameFlynet, Rotten ecards
30 Things You Should Do For Yourself Sometimes we can find ourselves simply managing our lives, our time and our responsibilities, instead of actually living. Or, we put other people’s lives in front of our own, ensuring their needs are met before your own. Well, it’s time to start doing things for yourself; including making your happiness the priority and being kinder to yourself. It’s time to start giving your energy to the right people and the right goals, both in your career and in your personal life. Accept the things that can’t be changed and work towards changing the things that can. Here are 30 things you can start doing for yourself, that you can use to change your life and your perspective: Can you think of anymore things we can do for ourselves to make our lives better?
How To Improve Your Self-Esteem 4K Flares Facebook 349 Twitter 63 Tweet Google+ 29 Pin It Share 3.5K LinkedIn 24 StumbleUpon 10 4K Flares × I was talking with a friend this weekend who is suffering from low self-esteem. After hearing the way this lovely young woman was talking about herself, so blind to her own beauty, intelligence, and talents, I blurted out, “You must begin to love yourself. You have so much to offer.” She looked at me with defeated eyes and said, “How do I just love myself? When your self-esteem is low, the concept of loving yourself is completely foreign. Low self-esteem is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Self-esteem improves by changing both your thoughts and behaviors. 1. When you practice and become skilled at something you enjoy, your increasing competency and the discipline of practice will be a source of pride and fulfillment for you. 2. If you are living outside of your integrity, you will feel disoriented, guilty, and drained. 3. 4. 5. 6. When you look your best, you feel better. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11.
The Real Difference Between Being Happy And Just Being Comfortable In a relationship, it’s easy to fall into a pattern. And I’m not saying there’s something wrong with routine. It’s really quite lovely to be with someone who makes you feel so secure that you can go through life unfazed by the bullsh*t. But you have to be careful in love. All too often, we find ourselves in long-term relationships that don’t excite us. Our everyday routines make us complacent and satisfied, and it’s too late before we realize what’s happening. After months, years and perhaps even decades, you wake up beside your partner and don’t even know how you ended up there. Though the differences between “happy” and “comfortable” can be slight, they’re very real. Being happy means butterflies; being comfortable means complacency. When you’re happy, you’re in a state of euphoria. But when you’re comfortable, you go with things. You’re not precisely unhappy, but you’re not joyous, either. But if you “simply exist” for too long, you’ll find yourself completely suffocated.