5 Steps to Cure His Lack of Appreciation Once and for All. Six Things Happy Couples Do Differently than the Rest (Based on Research) The Awesome Benefits of Kissing. One Man’s Journey: How I Stopped Watching Porn for 1 Year and Why I’m Not Going Back. Dan Mahle is a group facilitator, program coordinator, and occasional blogger on the topic of men and masculinity.
His work reaches into many different arenas, from youth leadership and intergenerational collaboration to environmental justice advocacy and men’s work. He lives in Seattle, WA. Image from Fame Magazine. I remember when I first discovered internet porn – I was 17 years old (1). Fascinated by this world of unleashed sexual expression and fantasy, I couldn’t get enough of it. I didn’t know it then, but porn had become an addiction. I thought I had my habit under control. I didn’t realize how much watching porn manipulated my mind, warping my sexuality, numbing my feelings, and impacting my relationships with women.
According to a recent study, more than 70 percent of men ages 18 to 34 visit porn sites in a typical month. Let me also state clearly that I don’t think all porn is bad. As Dr. Impacts of Porn (2) The Vibrational Way of Attracting Relationship Bliss. Fairytale love might seem impossible, but if you follow these tips you’ll keep your vibration high and as a result your can enjoy relationship bliss for a long, long time.
Of course every couple is different and there is no one catch-all strategy that will magically transform your relationship into fairytale bliss. With that said, the relationship can only mirror what you feel (what you’re vibrating) so if the relationship is floundering, you’ve got do something to feel differently and attract better energy (feelings and behavior) from your partner. Raising Your Vibration to Keep Your Relationship Happy. Ten Techniques to Build Rapport. **Warning – the content in this post is so effective that I encourage you to think carefully how it is used.
I do not endorse or condone the use of these skills in malicious or deceptive ways** I'm not quite sure how I came across Robin Dreeke‘s It's Not All About Me: Ten Techniques for Building Quick Rapport With Anyone but I'm glad I did. Robin is the lead instructor at the FBI’s Counterintelligence Training Center in all behavioral and interpersonal skills training. And he wrote an awesome book on how to master the skills of communication. His process not only includes research into social and evolutionary psychology, but it's been honed from years of field experience. I've been trying these out over the last few days and I've already noticed an improvement.
There are not many places that teach these techniques and I couldn't have asked for a better guide than Robin. 1. When you approach someone to start a conversation most people assess the situation for threat before anything else. An FBI Agent Reveals 5 Steps To Gaining Anyone’s Trust. I had an opportunity to ask Robin Dreeke a few questions.
Robin is in charge of the Federal Bureau of Investigation’s elite Counterintelligence Behavioral Analysis Program and the author of It’s Not All About Me. Robin combines science and years of work in the field to offer practical tips to build rapport and establish trust. In this brief interview he discusses building relationships, how to approach someone you don’t know and ask for a favor, and the keys to establishing trust. A lot of people are interested in strengthening and furthering relationships. How can people do this? This is the most important aspect of everything we do in life. Trust is a foundation to most situations in life. I can only answer from my own background and experience because trust is a very difficult thing to measure and define and each individual’s definition can vary and our brain takes in much more than verbal information when determining trust.
A few thoughts on relationships - The Personal Self Development Meetup Group (Columbus, OH. The best guess I have about how to find a lasting relationship. 1) If sex was removed from the equation, you'd still be friends.
If Tananarive had been a guy, we would have hung out and chased chicks together. No doubt. 2) Your basic values should match. Basic attitudes about work, health, love, and the whole life-death thing should match, or at the very least there should be no drastic differences. 3) They need to have a system in place for "fighting fair. "