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Esther Perel. We carry the responsibility of our desire.

Esther Perel

Why? Because desire is an expression of our free will. The Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power (Audre Lorde) The Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power. Eros Energy - Psychosexual Somatics. What a sex therapist wants everyone to know. The Arousal Principle: The Complexity And Simplicity Of Female Erotic Desire. When it come to female sexuality it’s all about desire and arousal.

The Arousal Principle: The Complexity And Simplicity Of Female Erotic Desire

The issue for many women is the order in which desire and arousal flow. As a sex coach who works primarily with women, the lion’s share of my work is helping women understand that they are not broken, and helping them find their own individual portal to their unique erotic expression. Getting there may require working through their own personal myths, fears, body hatred, shame, and the assumptions they may hold about sexuality.

In large part, the biggest speed bump many women face, especially in midlife, is this myth: If you are not walking around turned on and wanting sex, then you have “low sexual libido” and you are in some way sexually broken. How To Unleash The Cauldron Of Desire From Your Pelvis. What if it was possible to use your sexual energy not just for great sex, but to fuel other parts of your life like your career, fertility or even crafty activities such as painting or cooking?

How To Unleash The Cauldron Of Desire From Your Pelvis

It’s all about harnessing the power of your pelvis, and then unleashing that energy right where you want it. And don’t worry, you can also unleash the power of your pelvis to also maintain sexual ecstasy in your life. Our pelvis is the best renewable energy source around, and totally organic. As a sex educator that specializes in the needs of women, I teach women this work on a daily basis and it changes their lives. How a Photographer Turns a Woman On - Photographers and visual artists will always find themselves surrounded by women.

How a Photographer Turns a Woman On -

While some of these women are motivated by fame and fortune, the average woman is drawn to the photographer to fulfill a very important feminine desire: The desire to be seen. Hottest Sexual Movie. You can stop searching Netflix, because your hottest sexual movie is still in the making.

Hottest Sexual Movie

Nearly everyone walks through the world with one or more sexual “movies” circulating in their imagination. These include images and ideas of how they want sex to look, what feelings they want to have, and what kind of experiences they want to live. The characters may change, but the themes generally stay the same. Discover Your Hottest Sexual Movie. You can stop searching Netflix, because your hottest sexual movie is still in the making.

Discover Your Hottest Sexual Movie

Nearly everyone walks through the world with one or more sexual “movies” circulating in their imagination. These include images and ideas of how they want sex to look, what feelings they want to have, and what kind of experiences they want to live. The characters may change, but the themes generally stay the same. Is There Something Wrong With Me? How To Have a Healthier Relationship With Your Sexuality. We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship.

Is There Something Wrong With Me? How To Have a Healthier Relationship With Your Sexuality

But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details. This week’s topic: How to have a better relationship with your own sexuality. 8 Ways To Get Turned On And Be More In The Moment During Sex — Without Forcing Anything. We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship.

8 Ways To Get Turned On And Be More In The Moment During Sex — Without Forcing Anything

But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off-limits, and all questions will remain anonymous. Sexually Enlightened R&B Song.

Eros Energy - Psychosexual Somatics. April 6, 2016 Our sexual energy is commonly also called erotic energy.

Eros Energy - Psychosexual Somatics

The word erotic derives from the Greek god Eros. Eros was the god of love but it is the love of life that he celebrates. Sex Is What We Are - Psychosexual Somatics. October 11, 2016 Words: Louise Mazanti Over the last weeks and months I have felt a truth presenting itself strongly in my body, slowly forming in my mind with greater clarity: We need to completely rethink our relationship with ‘sex’!

Sex Is What We Are - Psychosexual Somatics

Sex is not something that can be boxed and labelled as ‘an activity’ that we engage in, either with ourselves or with a partner. Sex is not something that we do.