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The Ferocious, Soul-Level, Wildly Sensual Sex we can have with an Empath. They soak up other people’s feelings like a sponge and see far beyond what the eye should see.

The Ferocious, Soul-Level, Wildly Sensual Sex we can have with an Empath.

They are the watercolor paintings that bleed outside the lines. They want you to uncover the diamonds at the base of their spine and the glittering rubies within their soul. They will never feel truly known if you do not. To Be Present with a Woman's Body. To be present with a woman’s body means silencing your ego’s inner dialogue and listening to what’s unspoken in order to hear the symphony of her desires.

To Be Present with a Woman's Body.

To be present with a woman’s body means taming anything that’s only self-serving, and to instead realize that serving her can offer you the deepest gift of self. To be present with a woman’s body means finding the balance of stillness and motion. To let go of it needing to look a certain way. To not being attached to you doing all the right things in perfect sequence in order to reach a specific conclusion, but rather to notice the moments of disconnect, and to find your way back into harmony without projected shame.

It is to be in a dance of the lost-and-found connection, moment by moment, with no agenda, expectation, or attachment. She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. Hacking Masculinity: 9 Awesome Hacks From Women. There are some things that paralyze almost all men.

Hacking Masculinity: 9 Awesome Hacks From Women

And re-patterning this ONE root level trauma serves your woman, your (future) children, and yourself simultaneously. Women, who have higher estrogen levels than men, are often emotional beings… add in some Anxious Attachment (which can display as attacking/blaming our partners)… sprinkle with some primal unconscious fear that we are “too much” and will never be “met”… And our emotions sometimes overwhelm even us. And spill onto you. Mom’s emotions overwhelmed her. (Exhale as you read this.) Maybe Dad didn’t know how to help regulate Mom’s emotional state (help her be the calm, loving adult with Little Boy) or simply wasn’t at home to do so. Without support, Little Boy actually experienced trauma. So, as an adult, guess what happens when Girlfriend gets angry? Man (who still has Little Boy inside him) relives the trauma, has a Post Traumatic Stress reaction and loses his center.

Sadly, this triggers Girlfriend more. Do Women Want To Be Ravished? Do Women Want To Be Ravished?

Do Women Want To Be Ravished?

As a psychologist and couples counselor, I’ve been asked this question by men, women and couples for the last twenty plus years. Especially since the publication of “50 Shades of Grey” and the upcoming movie version, it’s an even more pressing question for many. Now Anne Rice’s B&D “Sleeping Beauty” trilogy is rumored to become a movie or mini-series as well.

My specialty is helping couples bring back the passion in their relationship and using fantasy is one way of achieving this. The fantasy of being ravished, being lovingly, yet forcefully taken by her man is consistently in the top five female fantasies, often the number one fantasy. Of course, women don’t want to be raped, this is an act of violence and power, not one of love. So what’s the truth here, at least from a psychological perspective? However, this initial chemistry fades over time and we need to take steps to reignite it! Thank you, Great Lovers of Women Know This. Our genitals are as unique as our faces or the shake of our hips when we walk.

Great Lovers of Women Know This

Our desires, fantasies, and roadblocks are as diverse as any road map. If you want to be a great lover of women, put these skills in your tool kit. 1. More Types of Sensation Many women are distracted during erotic activity. 2. Women are not told that their genitals are beautiful or that their desires are important. 3. Since most women are shamed about their erotic feelings, we tend to close them off and literally numb out. Women are always worried about taking too long and watching the clock. No one really teaches anybody about exquisite lovemaking. If you can help her feel celebrated and beautiful in her own unique configuration of femininity, you will be a great lover of women. Earlier on Huff/Post50: 5 Ways Post50s Can Improve Their Sex Life. Does Penis Size Matter? Here's What Matters Even More! - Authentic Tantra. Does penis size matter?

Does Penis Size Matter? Here's What Matters Even More! - Authentic Tantra

This is something most people with penises will ask themselves at least once in their life. The easiest answer is- it depends on who you ask. For some people on the receiving end of lingam loving, penis size can play a significant role in arousal as well as sensation. And in some cases, bigger is not always better. But I think when most lingam owners ask the question “does penis size matter?” I think the best way to answer this question is by looking at the holistic nature of the human sexual experience, and addressing this on the level of body, heart, and spirit. #1) The Body.

5 Keys To Penetrating A Woman Properly! - Authentic Tantra. Posted at 16:14h in Uncategorized by Devi Ward There is an art and craft to the act of penetrating a female body.

5 Keys To Penetrating A Woman Properly! - Authentic Tantra

It includes accounting for the state of her heart and mind, which will in turn affect the sexual functioning of her physical body. Unfortunately this is not conveyed to us during our standard sex education classes, and most people of all gender identifications are left to educate themselves on how to have “great” sex.