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Travel and the Art of Losing Friends. After months on the road, you find yourself back home and excited to resume old friendships.

Travel and the Art of Losing Friends

You plan dinners, get-togethers, and nights out. And, as some people fail to respond or show up, you begin realize an awful truth — while you were out exploring the world, your friends crept out the back door of your life. And, unlike you, they aren’t coming back. They ghosted. After being away for over six months, I came back to New York eager to reconnect with my friends. “What are you doing two weeks from now?” I expected it but, after many weeks of missed connections and noticed absences from events, I realized that while I was away, I too had been ghosted on.

At first, I was sad. Then I was mad. But as I calmed down and thought about it more, I realized I was looking at this situation the wrong way. Most people maintain a wide social network, and when you are in touch with that network it’s easy to think relationships are deeper than they are. Media.proquest. The 7 Habits of Highly Playful People. Close Quarters.

Humanitas. Human Condition. Being Human. Philosophikos. Societal Gumbo. Pax Humanitas. SociO. I am your fellow man, but not your slave. It's a lengthy letter, but perfectly written and such a valuable read.

I am your fellow man, but not your slave

The final paragraph is also exquisite. TO MY OLD MASTER.Thomas Auld,Sir:The long and intimate, though by no means friendly, relation which unhappily subsisted between you and myself, leads me to hope that you will easily account for the great liberty which I now take in addressing you in this open and public manner. The same fact may possibly remove any disagreeable surprise which you may experience on again finding your name coupled with mine, in any other way than in an advertisement, accurately describing my person, and offering a large sum for my arrest.

In thus dragging you again before the public, I am aware that I shall subject myself to no inconsiderable amount of censure. I shall probably be charged with an unwarrantable if not a wanton and reckless disregard of the rights and proprieties of private life. New research reveals that oxytocin could make us more accepting of others. (New York, New York) September 27, 2013 - Oxytocin - often referred to as the 'love hormone' because of its ability to promote mother-infant attachment and romantic bonding in adults - could also make us more accepting of other people, as found in new research, "Oxytocin Sharpens Self-other Perceptual Boundary," by Neuropsychoanalysis Foundation research grantee Valentina Colonnello Ph.D. published online today in Psychoneuroendocrinology.

New research reveals that oxytocin could make us more accepting of others

Together with Dr. Markus Heinrichs from the Department of Psychology at the University of Freiburg in Germany, Dr. Colonnello found that oxytocin can sharpen the brain's self-other differentiation - a function that has been shown to play a crucial role in social bonding, successful social interactions and the tolerance of others. They also found that oxytocin helps to increase our positive evaluation of other people. This further supports the role of the oxytocinergic system in the empathic response and the modulation of social cognition. Happiness is understandable, obtainable, and teachable. Bar-On: Emotional intelligence: An integral part... The Journal of Happiness and Well-Being. Journal of Happiness Studies. The peer-reviewed Journal of Happiness Studies is devoted to scientific understanding of subjective well-being.

Journal of Happiness Studies

Coverage includes both cognitive evaluations of life such as life-satisfaction, and affective enjoyment of life, such as mood level. In addition to contributions on appraisal of life-as-a-whole, the journal accepts papers on such life domains as job-satisfaction, and such life-aspects as the perceived meaning of life.The Journal of Happiness Studies provides a forum for two main traditions in happiness research: 1) speculative reflection on the good life, and 2) empirical investigation of subjective well-being.

Journal of Happiness Studies. Copyright Information For Authors Submission of a manuscript implies: that the work described has not been published before (except in form of an abstract or as part of a published lecture, review or thesis); that it is not under consideration for publication elsewhere; that its publication has been approved by all co-authors, if any, as well as – tacitly or explicitly – by the responsible authorities at the institution where the work was carried out.

Journal of Happiness Studies

Author warrants (i) that he/she is the sole owner or has been authorized by any additional copyright owner to assign the right, (ii) that the article does not infringe any third party rights and no license from or payments to a third party is required to publish the article and (iii) that the article has not been previously published or licensed. The author signs for and accepts responsibility for releasing this material on behalf of any and all co-authors. Author is requested to use the appropriate DOI for the article. For Readers. Thoughts of Being Alive. Just being Ourselves. Self-improvement. An even BETTER VERSION of yourself. Singula.

Nu et Nut. Spirits Align. Wholly Being. Attunement. Μετάνοια. Praxis. Somnulus. New Healthy Energy. Genderealization. Balancing Act. Elder Care. Self Sufficiency.

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