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34 Reminders to Help You Find Your Way. Post written by: Marc Chernoff Email We’ll kick-off this list of reminders with one of our favorite poems, “The Guy in the Glass” by Dale Wimbrow.

34 Reminders to Help You Find Your Way

In Praise Of Calling It Quits: What To Do When You're Burned Out, & How To Get Your Spark Back www. Burned out.

In Praise Of Calling It Quits: What To Do When You're Burned Out, & How To Get Your Spark Back www

Exhausted. Empty. Apathetic. Drained. Hopeless. Everyone has a limit. 30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself. When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.

30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself

As Maria Robinson once said, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” Nothing could be closer to the truth. But before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding you back. Here are some ideas to get you started: Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. 100 Ways To Be A Love Letter To The Universe www.

This was originally posted in 2008, but is no less relevant today!

100 Ways To Be A Love Letter To The Universe www

Do your lips up sticky, sparkly & sweet. Then blow kisses. 50 Ways To Put The Light Back In Your Heart www. I love that phrase — “putting the light back in your heart” — which was emailed to me by a nonpareil asking me how she could do just that.

50 Ways To Put The Light Back In Your Heart www

Her boyfriend recently broke her heart & so she is looking for ways to make herself feel better. I’m sure she’s not the only one who needs it, either! Whether you have the winter blues, are hard up for cash or just feel a little out of step with yourself at the moment, we could all use some ideas to cheer us up! 100 Things To Do When You're Upset (The Sad Trombone List) www. Every day isn’t always the best day, but when that happens, we have the power to turn it all around. It’s our responsibility to shake off a bad mood, and move onto greener pastures! Here are some ideas to help kick a rotten day to kingdom come…

10 Really Easy Ways You Can Love Yourself More Today. “Love yourself more,” we’re told.

10 Really Easy Ways You Can Love Yourself More Today

But what does that mean? What, exactly, does that look like? 100 Ways You Can Start Loving Yourself Right Now www. Radical Self Love is a big topic.

100 Ways You Can Start Loving Yourself Right Now www

Kind of daunting, actually. If you want to delve into it, where do you begin? Here are some ideas. To you from me, Pinky Lee! Make lists of reasons why you love yourself… & write down (or keep mental lists) of the compliments other people give you. Reach out to others… …& do it regularly. 100 Pieces Of Advice From Movies - Entertainment. 30 action hero one-liners As well as being able to shoot on target without fail, outsmart villains intent on world domination and make any… More 40 pieces of advice from movie teachers Ah teachers.

100 Pieces Of Advice From Movies - Entertainment

Throughout most of our childhood, they were the very bane of our existence. 19 Things You Need To Stop Over-Thinking. 1.

19 Things You Need To Stop Over-Thinking

Whether or not you love someone. It should not be a mystery to unveil. At the end of the day, you either do or you don’t. Maybe It’s Not About Letting Go, But About Making Room For What We Can’t Change. When something tragic and gutting happens to someone, something that is miles beyond what we can empathize with emotionally, we tend to think to ourselves, how do they go on after this?

Maybe It’s Not About Letting Go, But About Making Room For What We Can’t Change

I am talking about the people who lose parents suddenly at a young age, who have infants die in their arms, who are diagnosed with terminal illnesses while still in the throes and wonder of adolescence. The things that seem, if they were to happen to us, to be the end-all. I’m not sure that we can grasp that kind of emotional pain until we’ve been in those shoes ourselves. But for the little bit we can understand from our own experiences, we inevitably wonder how people move on after the worst befell them. The people who have seen these depths know something. 21 Tips to Keep Your Shit Together When You're Depressed. A while ago, I penned a fairly angry response to something circulating on the internet – the 21 Habits of Happy People. It pissed me off beyond belief, that there was an inference that if you weren’t Happy, you simply weren’t doing the right things. I’ve had depression for as long as I can remember.

It’s manifested in different ways. I did therapy. I did prozac. 30 Quotes That Will Rip Apart The Way You See Your Life. “To let go means to give up coercing, resisting, or struggling, in exchange for something more powerful and wholesome which comes out of allowing things to be as they are without getting caught up in your attraction to or rejection of them, in the intrinsic stickiness of wanting, of liking and disliking.” ― Jon Kabat-Zinn “Life is, in fact, a battle. Evil is insolent and strong; beauty enchanting, but rare; goodness very apt to be weak; folly very apt to be defiant; wickedness to carry the day; imbeciles to be in great places, people of sense in small, and mankind generally unhappy. But the world as it stands is no narrow illusion, no phantasm, no evil dream of the night; we wake up to it, forever and ever; and we can neither forget it nor deny it nor dispense with it.” ― Henry James “Love opens the doors into everything, as far as I can see, including and perhaps most of all, the door into one’s own secret, and often terrible and frightening, real self.” ― May Sarton.

19 Things That Are Not Your Fault. 1. Someone not loving you back in the way you love them, even if you’ve done everything the “right” way and been the person you thought they wanted to be with. 2. You not loving someone back, even if they have been perfectly kind and giving to you, or feel that they are in some way entitled to your love and affection. 3. Having problems with mental illness that prevent you from living life in what everyone perceives as a “normal” or “positive” way. 4. 5 Ways To Reduce Your Self-Loathing. Disclaimer: As someone who has indulged in some pretty horrific displays of self-loathing in the recent past, the following advice has my name written all over it. Possibly, it has your name written all over it. What follows is not a holier-than-thou critique, but a much-needed dose of tough love. This is a safe place, self-loathing friend. Read on. 1. 2. 3. What to Do When You Don't Feel Like Doing Anything. It’s just one of those days, right? 77 ideas for self-nurturing and self-care.

The goddess Ceres teaches us the importance of self-nurturing. And so, with the help of the Monash University Counselling Service, I’m reproducing here “77 Ideas” For Nurturing the Goddess Within. Taking time to daydream, ruminate, percolate and germinate is as healthy for your body as a 30-minute physical workout.It clears cobwebs, refreshes perspective, recharges self-love and appreciation, helps you own the moment, and re-centres your view of yourself in the world.~ from The Goddess DIET, See a Goddess in the Mirror in 21 Days by Anita Revel 1.

Listen to my favourite music 2. Enjoy a long, warm, bubble bath 3. The Winchester Family Business - Supernatural. 22 Things To Do When You’re Heartbroken. 1. It’s Not Our Job To Make Others Happy. It’s impossible to please everybody. And even if it was possible, we shouldn’t try. It’s Okay To Suck At Stuff. I like to be good at things. As a kid, that was my whole persona: the girl who is good at things. 11 Things You Can Forgive Yourself For. 1. Emergency compliment : A steady supply of Emergency Compliments to be used at times of great insecurity. 5 Things You Should Be Doing If You're Unemployed. 24 Awesome Things That Have Nothing To Do With Love. 1. Your Genitals Will Dissatisfy Someone: A Rant - TheFerrett - FetLife. 25 Things You Don’t Have To Justify To Anyone. 1. Your job. Yes, even if you’re working something that other people condescendingly term “not a real job,” such as retail or service.

If you have a job of any kind in this economy, you’ve already won. 34 Reminders to Help You Find Your Way. 288. Friends: Lynn AllinghamJohn AllisonAmy AshDawn and Margie BeatonMarc BellSally BloodbathJohn CampbellScott CampbellRyan CarleyAnthony ClarkRebecca ClementsMelanie ColosimoDomitille CollardeyJillian Comeau, Kim Carson and Michelle SkeldingAaron DiazThe Doug Wright AwardsJess FinkEric FeursteinBrian FukushimaSarah GliddenMeredith GranLisa HanawaltDustin HarbinChristopher HastingsEmily Horne and Joey ComeauJimmie KilpatrickJon KlassenSteve LambkeHope LarsonJoe ListDavid MalkiPhil McAndrewCarolyn MerrimanCarly MonardoVicki NerinoAndre RichardRyan NorthRyan PequinNeil RoughJeffrey RowlandGabby SchulzSmart and BirdDeana SobelNathan StapleyHenry SvecMatthew TraffordJulia WertzBritt WilsonStephanie WeirathmuellerSteve WolfhardYou've Changed RecordsChip Zdarsky Good comic shops that have taught me a thing or two: The Beguiling, TorontoStrange Adventures, HalifaxLegends Comics and Books, VictoriaDesert Island, Brooklyn.

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