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Tantra Is The Opposite Of Porn – Learning How To Actually Be Intimate

Tantra Is The Opposite Of Porn – Learning How To Actually Be Intimate
We're creating a positive news network. We need your help. What if studying tantra could heal our addiction to Porn? What if tapping into our natural abilities to experience ecstasy changes everything? I was really nervous when I first realized that I wanted to teach Tantra. What would people think? But then a good friend said to me, “Do you realize what you’re offering people? Porn is a funny thing. Besides the obvious violence and anything involving children, there are much more insidious issues: 1) What We Look Like Is Everything Porn focuses on being stimulated through the body. 2) It’s All About Successfully Pleasuring The Other Porn focuses on pleasing the other. 3) Connection & Intimacy Aren’t Important Porn has nothing to do with connection. 4) This Is All We Are Capable Of The worst part of it is that porn makes us believe that this is all that there is. THE TRUTH IS that we as humans are using maybe 5% of our sexual abilities. 1) We Are So Much More Than Our Physical Bodies

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Porn Objectifies Both Men And Women It's easy to dismiss the porn industry as a feminist wasteland where degrading depictions of women thrive and empowering images are few and far between. But a recent study suggests that perhaps mainstream porn doesn't differ too much in its portrayal of the sexes. Researchers from the University of Amsterdam analyzed 400 of the most popular global Internet porn videos from February 2013 on Pornhub, RedTube, YouPorn, and xHamster. The Two Hottest Things You Can Say in Bed Tamara Schlesinger When you think about what makes sex good, the physical factors most likely come to mind: how you touch each other, the positions you try, and the body parts you focus on. But there's another key contributor that is often overlooked: the words you utter. "Speaking or hearing erotically charged words stimulates dopamine transmission, which plays a huge role in sexual excitement," explains Ian Kerner, PhD, author of Passionista.

Why Do Rappers Put on Fake Accents? Everyone has an accent. They shape who we are and reflect where we come from. They allow strangers to judge us within a split-second of opening our mouth. An introduction to Tantra Mark Steinmetz. Stone Mountain, GA, 1994 Mention tantra, and you’ll probably get the response that having sex for seven hours sounds really unappealing—as mythologized by an off-hand Sting quote from 1990 that still dominates the entire conversation about this ancient practice. So, what exactly is tantra? We were surprised to find that it’s not actually about sex at all—or specifically, not at all about sexual technique. It’s really about the bedrock of intimacy—and re-establishing sexual polarity, or in laymen terms, sexual tension.

Coital alignment technique The coital alignment technique (CAT) sex position, known colloquially as grinding the corn,[1] is used primarily as a variant of the missionary position and is designed to maximize clitoral stimulation during sexual intercourse (coitus). This is achieved by combining the "riding high" variation of the missionary position with pressure-counterpressure movements performed by each partner in rhythm with coitus.[2] Technique[edit] Coital alignment technique When used as a variant of the missionary position, the male lies above the female but moves upward along the woman's body, until his erection, which would otherwise point "up," is pointing "down", the dorsal side of the penis now pressing against the clitoris; and as opposed to the missionary position, the male’s body moves downward (relative to the female's) during the inward stroke, and upward for the outward stroke. She may also wrap her legs around his.

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Missionary position The missionary position or man-on-top position is a sex position usually denoting the act in which a woman lies on her back and a man lies on top of her while they face each other and engage in sexual intercourse or other sexual activity.[1][2][3] Though commonly associated with aspects of heterosexual sexual activity, the sex position is also used by gay and lesbian couples.[2] The missionary position may involve sexual penetration or non-penetrative sex (for example, intercrural sex), and its penile-vaginal aspect is an example of ventro-ventral (front-to-front) reproductive activity.[4] Variations of the position allow varying degrees of vaginal tightness, clitoral stimulation, depth of penetration, participation on the part of the woman, and the likelihood and speed of orgasm. Etymology[edit] From then on, the story of the name's "origin" may have been retold until it became largely accepted, with its connection to Kinsey and Malinowski having faded. Variations[edit]

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Porn vs Tantra – Disturbing Facts About Modern Day Sex We Should All Consider *Photo is called “Shiva and Shakti” and was done by AlicePopkorn Admittedly, this is a touchy subject for most people, with opinions ranging vastly in degree and ferocity. Not everyone is going to like the theory that porn may be psychologically detrimental, but is important to consider the notion nevertheless. For instance, some studies have found associations between watching pornography and a decrease in the volume of grey matter in certain regions of the brain.

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