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Tantra Is The Opposite Of Porn – Learning How To Actually Be Intimate – Collective Evolution

Tantra Is The Opposite Of Porn – Learning How To Actually Be Intimate – Collective Evolution
We're creating a positive news network. We need your help. What if studying tantra could heal our addiction to Porn? What if tapping into our natural abilities to experience ecstasy changes everything? I was really nervous when I first realized that I wanted to teach Tantra. What would people think? But then a good friend said to me, “Do you realize what you’re offering people? Porn is a funny thing. Besides the obvious violence and anything involving children, there are much more insidious issues: 1) What We Look Like Is Everything Porn focuses on being stimulated through the body. 2) It’s All About Successfully Pleasuring The Other Porn focuses on pleasing the other. 3) Connection & Intimacy Aren’t Important Porn has nothing to do with connection. 4) This Is All We Are Capable Of The worst part of it is that porn makes us believe that this is all that there is. THE TRUTH IS that we as humans are using maybe 5% of our sexual abilities. 1) We Are So Much More Than Our Physical Bodies

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