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New Year's Resolutions on 43 Things. 10 Life-Enhancing Things You Can Do in Ten Minutes or Less. KeepMeOut. 100 Ways to Unchain - Unchain Your Lifestyle. Savage Love by Dan Savage - Columns - Savage Love - Dan Savage. February 3, 2011 By Dan Savage I read your column every week , mostly out of abstract interest.

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My thoughts reading your advice are usually some variation on "Wow, that's a lot of work to do, just to have a sex life. " So reading you, I came to the conclusion that I was asexual. I liked this conclusion, as it was a sexual identity that made sense for me. Then I joined an asexual community. I soon realized that asexual was the wrong label for me. Here's the question: How do normally sexual persons feel about being with someone who can perform but doesn't particularly want to? Not Sexual, Not Asexual It should come as no shock to someone who reads my column every week—or any other advice column—that there are lots of people out there who want to be in relationships but don't particularly want to have sex. I'm a 22-year-old queer chick who came out only a couple years ago. Can't We Just Be Friends Apologize for not being direct when she first asked you out. Share via. 50 Things Everyone Should Know How To Do.

75 Ways To Stay Unhappy Forever. Dale Carnegie once said, “It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy.

75 Ways To Stay Unhappy Forever

It’s what you think about.” I don’t think anyone could say it any better than that. I’ve watched so many friends search tirelessly for happiness by changing jobs, moving to new cities, pursuing intimate relationships, and tweaking all sorts of other external factors in their lives. And guess what? They’re still unhappy.

So with that in mind, here are 75 ways to stay unhappy forever. And now that you know what not to do, let me tell you a secret about happiness. In fact, according to a recent scientific study, overall levels of happiness decline from one’s teens until one’s 40s and then pick up again until they peak in one’s early 70s. Photo by: Helga Weber. Marc and Angel Hack Life - Practical Tips for Productive Living. Why We Are Weird. Email Somewhere Else During my competitive cross-country running days it wasn’t uncommon for me to run five miles at 5AM and another ten miles at 10PM, six days a week.

Why We Are Weird

I was competitive. I wanted to win races. And I was smart enough to know that if I dedicated myself to extra training, while my opponents were sleeping or socializing, I would be one step ahead of them when we crossed the finish line. When I first started these early morning and late night runs, the experience was rather brutal. Can’t Relate Over time, I became quite proficient at doing this. I don’t compete in races anymore, but I still run almost every day. She Was Right Last night, I went running on the Pacific Beach boardwalk at 11PM. The woman had long blonde dreadlocks, several piercings in her ears and nose, tattoos on both arms, and a Grateful Dead t-shirt on. She stopped strumming her guitar and began to chuckle as soon as she saw me looking down at the joint. “It’s none of my business,” I quickly replied. Conclusion. Tiny Buddha. Therapy for the hosts, the guests, and the listeners.