Teach girls bravery, not perfection [ TED Talk : Reshma Saujani ]

Pernicious Perfectionism: 3 Pervasive Patterns If you are a perfectionist, you know all too well how this way of being can trap you. You set high expectations for yourself, which can lead to success, and boost your self-esteem. But with those lofty goals can come a reciprocal mountain of self-criticism and judgment, which gets in the way of the success you seek! Are you stuck in Pernicious Perfectionism? Three Typical Patterns of Perfectionism Rigid perfectionistic beliefs have been linked to everything from anxiety disorders to suicidal ideation, not to mention the paradoxical decrease in performance. Here are three typical patterns of perfectionism and the common thought, feeling, and action tendencies underlying them. Amy: The Overachiever The Pattern: Perfectionism had worked for Amy growing up in a highly critical family. Most of the time, she was successful in her pursuits and she received praise from others. Jay: The ‘Failure’ The Pattern: Jay grew up in a family of over-achievers. Donna: The Procrastinator

La matemática hermosa se enseña con el corazón. Caludi Alsina Instituto Iberoamericano de la Enseñanza de las Ciencias y la Matemática – IBERCIENCIA Claudi Alsina Esta conferencia trata de la "matemática emotiva" y va dirigida muy especialmente a "corazones pitagóricos", con la esperanza de que sea posible poder juntar, en la enseñanza y el aprendizaje de la matemática, rigor y sentimientos, verdades y emociones, recuperando así para el noble oficio de educar matemáticamente la dimensión pasional que nunca debió perderse. ¿Qué harían sin las matemáticas y sin nosotros? Pongan un poco de imaginación. Todos nosotros juntos en la lejanía pero cuidando de nuestro gran tesoro... las reacciones mundiales serían inmediatas. La moraleja de este caso es que quizás estaría bien que supiéramos transmitir a los demás la importancia de nuestra disciplina y de nuestra labor, haciendo ver lo positivo y lo negativo, para lo que sirven las matemáticas y para lo que no, la diferencia entre el autoaprendizaje y la guía docente... Matemáticas y inteligencia emocional

Anne Lamott on Writing and Why Perfectionism Kills Creativity Anne Lamott’s Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life (public library) is among my ten favorite books on writing — a treasure trove of insight both practical and profound, timelessly revisitable and yielding deeper resonance each time. Lamott adds to the collected wisdom of great writers with equal parts candor and conviction, teaching us as much about writing as she does about creativity at large and, even beyond that, about being human and living a full life — because, after all, as Lamott notes in the beginning, writing is nothing more nor less than a sensemaking mechanism for life: One of the gifts of being a writer is that it gives you an excuse to do things, to go places and explore. What makes Lamott so compelling is that all of her advice comes not from the ivory tower of the pantheon but from an honest place of exquisite vulnerability and hard-earned life-wisdom. I started writing when I was seven or eight. But, one might wonder, why?

Teilhard de Chardin unificó ciencia, filosofía y mística Teilhard de Chardin en 1947. «TeilhardP 1947» de Desconocido - Archives des jésuites de France. Disponible bajo la licencia CC BY-SA 3.0 vía Wikimedia Commons. El 10 de abril de 1955 (hace 60 años) fallecía en Nueva York Pierre Teilhard de Chardin (1881-1955). Artículos relacionados Pierre Teilhard de Chardin: su formación científica Pierre Teilhard de Chardin (1881-1955) nació en Sarcenat, cerca de Orcine, a poca distancia al oeste de Clermont-Ferrand en el seno de una familia de la aristocracia rural francesa [1]. Pierre Teilhard de Chardin en 1955. De la cosmogénesis a la Cristogénesis Para comprender el papel de Teilhard como científico, filósofo, teólogo y místico conviene presentar aquí un corto resumen sobre su pensamiento. ¿Es Cristo el punto Omega? Notas [1] La literatura sobre Teilhard de Chardin es abundantísima, sobre su vida podemos citar: Claude Cuénot, Pierre Teilhard de Chardin.

The 2 Types of Perfectionism: One Helps While The Other Sabotages You share share share share A certain type of perfectionism can lead to depression, anxiety and eating disorders. A dark type of perfectionism focusing primarily on anxieties about being perfect can hurt many areas of people’s lives, a new review reports. Perfectionism of this type involves constantly worrying about reaching impossibly high standards and making mistakes. It also involves worrying about letting others down. The psychologists found that the personality trait was most strongly linked to burnout at work. This may be because high performance in the workplace can often go unrewarded. In contrast, a related personality trait which focuses on striving for perfection is linked to more positive outcomes. People who set themselves high goals and work towards them pro-actively do better than those who focus more on their anxieties. The conclusions come from a review of 43 different studies conducted over 20 years. Dr Andrew Hill, the study’s lead author, said: Dr Hill said:

10 experimentos científicos que cambiaron la historia Cada vez se invierte más en ciencia, mucho dinero de los estados va destinado a las grandes áreas como la química, la física o la medicina. Diversas investigaciones se llevan a cabo, algunas quedan más relegadas que otras al conocimiento público, pero sin duda alguna los grandes descubrimientos que nos hacen la vida más fácil provienen de estas investigaciones. A continuación, te presentamos 10 experimentos que cambiaron la historia.1. Las flores de Darwin Charles Darwin hizo parte de sus investigaciones en las Islas Galápagos, de las cuales veinte tienen subespecies únicas que demuestran la adaptación a un entorno único. 2. 3. La viruela era un gran problema antes de la existencia de las vacunas, ya que la única forma de “curarla” era enfermándose y sobreviviendo a la misma. 4. Ernest Rutherford ganó un premio Nobel por su trabajo con la radioactividad, y ya en ese entonces había comenzado a perfilar la estructura del átomo. 5. 6. 7. En 1878, el físico A. 8. 9. 10. Tweet

Pathways to Bliss: Joseph Campbell on Why Perfectionism Kills Love and How to Save Your Relationship “Where the myth fails, human love begins,” Anaïs Nin wrote in her diary in 1941. “Then we love a human being, not our dream, but a human being with flaws.” Indeed, just like perfectionism kills creativity, it also kills love — the more we mythologize and idealize the person we love, the more disillusioned and disheartened we grow as we come to know their imperfect humanity which, if untainted by these blinding ideals, is the very wellspring of true love. That is what playwright Tom Stoppard captured in what is perhaps the greatest definition of love, in his notion of “the mask slipped from the face,” the stripping of the idealized projection, the surrender to the beautiful imperfection of a human being. His focus on marriage is especially timely and poignant today, when the institution of marriage is being reimagined to be more inclusive and more just, which also means it’s being challenged to rise to higher standards of integrity. Two people meet and fall in love.

Season 4, Episode 11: Escape Perfectionism Once and for All [Podcast] Welcome to Season 4, Episode 11 of the This Is Your Life podcast. Stu McLaren is filling in for my regular cohost Michele Cushatt. In this episode, we discuss how to escape perfectionism once and for all. Perfectionism is the enemy of productivity and success. It costs us opportunities, even freedom. But anyone can beat perfectionism and finally launch with the three simple steps we lay out in today’s podcast. Listen to the Audio Subscribe to Podcast in iTunes Watch the Video In this episode, you’ll discover: The vital importance of distinguishing between perfection and excellence. Read the Transcript You can download a complete, word-for-word transcript of this episode here, courtesy of Ginger Schell, a professional transcriptionist, who does all my transcriptions. Join the Conversation My favorite part of doing these podcasts is participating in the conversation they provoke. Binge on All 13 Episodes! Ask Me a Question Subscribe to the Podcast If you have enjoyed this podcast, please subscribe:

Five Ways to Find Perfection in Your Imperfections “This is our perfection: to find out our imperfections”– St. Augustine (as paraphrased by Sr. Joan Chittister) I was born a perfectionist. One of my earliest memories of my perfectionism was the habit of making my bed every morning as a kid. To be a kid who makes his bed is extraordinary in itself. Ensuring my bed was perfectly made was a sign of something deeper. I craved predictability because I was also a severe stutterer. No matter how hard I tried to hide my imperfect speech, it wouldn’t cooperate. I was ashamed. As I reached adolescence and early adulthood, it slowly dawned on me that the work of my life was not to stamp out all my imperfections but to let the imperfection itself become perfect. One day, I simply decided to accept my speech, just as it was. I want the same for you too. 1. Yes, this sounds like an oxymoron, but I have found it to be true in my life. Only after I exhausted myself trying to be perfect did I see the truth about the impossibility of the task. 2. 3. 4. 5.

A Highly Valued Personality Trait That Sadly Increases The Risk of Suicide This hidden cause of suicide might surprise you. Perfectionism is a bigger risk factor in suicide than is often thought, according to new research. Perfectionism involves being highly self-critical, constantly striving to meet the standards of others (typically parents or mentors) and being unsure about the efficacy of one’s own actions. While a certain amount of perfectionism is adaptive and necessary, when it becomes an obsession, it can lead to a vicious cycle. People in professions which have a strong emphasis on perfectionism — like lawyers, architects and physicians — are at a higher risk of suicide. Professor Gordon Flett of York University, who co-authored the study, said: It’s not hard to see how setting impossibly high standards for yourself would sometimes lead to negative feelings when these standards are not met. Professor Flett continued: Perfectionists like to maintain a mask of cool invulnerability to others, while inside their thoughts and emotions are anything but calm.

How To Be Your Most Productive Self: Let Go Of Being Perfect We live in an era of overachievement, and in this era flaunting those achievements (we’re looking at you, social media) is totally the norm. Because pretty much everyone’s achievements are on full display at all times, it can be easy to get caught up in the idea that “perfect is the new black,” and if you want to be successful in today’s hyper-competitive culture, you need to be perfect, too. If you subscribe to this idea that perfection is a prerequisite for success, you’re not alone: Perfectionism is on the rise in a major way, with studies finding significant jumps in the prevalence of perfectionist tendencies over the last three decades. But just because society is placing a higher value on perfection doesn’t mean you’re actually getting more done. “Perfect” and “productive” aren’t the same thing—and while you might think perfectionism is the key to racking up more achievements and getting more done, the truth is, perfectionism is actually counterproductive. Pride And Personality 1.