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Hipsters Broke My Gaydar - NYTimes.com. The Internal Clitoris, Or That Thing You Never Knew You Had. It’s surprising that, even in 2017, there’s still so little about women’s anatomy that we’re not talking about.

The Internal Clitoris, Or That Thing You Never Knew You Had

For example, most of us probably don’t know that there’s more to our clitoris than that little rosebud-shaped knob at the apex of our labia. But in reality, that little love-button is only the tip of a surprisingly complex iceberg called the internal clitoris. The internal clitoris was the hot topic at a recent Future of Sex live panel, a gathering of the sex industry’s most brilliant minds to discuss sexuality, vaginas, and women’s pleasure. Those minds included Alex Fine, co-founder of Dame Products, Polly Rodriguez, founder of Unbound, and Mal Harrison, director of the Center for Erotic Intelligence (formerly Ms. M, advice-giver over at the Museum of Sex’s website). Questions To Ask If You Have More Privilege Than Your Partner.

When I’m vastly outnumbered by straight people, white people, or people who know each other, I want my partner to leverage his privilege on my behalf.

Questions To Ask If You Have More Privilege Than Your Partner

(CW: mention of death; eating disorders; misogynist, racist, anti-queer, and anti-trans violence) I learned to be a girlfriend through ’90s American rom-coms. 90% of the time, I learned, I had to be laughing or cutely disagreeing with my white leading man. At some point, I had to pose a challenge to him, more along the lines of, “Pick me, love me, let me make you happy” and less along the lines of, “Please realize that patriarchy is hurting us and work with me to dismantle it.”

My partner learned to be a boyfriend by dating girls who could play these American characters better than I could. The Ultimate Guide to Impact Play. Takeaway: From a little tap to a burning slap, there's plenty to learn, try and enjoy in the world of impact play.

The Ultimate Guide to Impact Play

When you hear “impact play,” what comes to mind? Are you think about a kinky spanking in your schoolgirl uniform? Maybe you’re imagining a whip and a St. Andrew’s Cross. You could be like me and think about being naked in the dungeon, with your arms suspended by rope over head while your partner decides whether they’ll hit you with a paddle, a flogger, a crop, or their hand. NSFW Sunday Is Into Impact Play. Welcome to NSFW Sunday!

NSFW Sunday Is Into Impact Play

+ Kinkly has a comprehensive guide to impact play (which is where someone hits someone consensually), including safety, what you can use it for, how you can do it, what you can do it with and more. Here’s what Kayla Lords writes about how to spank: “If you’re new to spanking, start with your hand. Rub your partner’s bottom. Furious Parents Protest Sex Ed Curriculum for Actually Discussing Sex. This week, dozens of parents in California squashed the opportunity to help their middle school–aged children become better informed about sex and STIs.

Furious Parents Protest Sex Ed Curriculum for Actually Discussing Sex

According to local news outlets, more than 150 parents came out to a Cupertino Union School District board meeting earlier this week to protest a new sexual health education curriculum that would have—scandalously! —defined anal, vaginal, and oral sex. As a result, the updated curriculum failed to pass the board. "The data in it was explicit; it was extremely provocative," one parent told the school board Tuesday night.

Why I don't like strapless strap-on dildos. Feeldoe More, Realdoe Stout, ShareVibe, Tango.

Why I don't like strapless strap-on dildos

I’ve never thought strapless strap-on dildos were the second coming of Christ. Let’s start there. I have my Joque harness, I have well-loved strap-on dildos, and I am comfortable combining those things and fucking someone silly. I’ve never felt like strap-on sex wasn’t “intimate” enough, or like I needed extra genital stimulation in order to enjoy it. Duo Geisha Love Balls Large Jiggle Eggs For Pleasure & Kegal. Compliments Are Like Mini-Orgasms for Your Brain - Tonic. You'd probably never describe a compliment as "orgasmic.

Compliments Are Like Mini-Orgasms for Your Brain - Tonic

" But under the microscope, sincere flattery at least looks—if not feels—a little bit like foreplay. When most people receive a compliment, it triggers the same reward centers in the brain—the ventral striatum and the ventral medial prefrontal cortex—that light up during sex, explains Christoph Korn, a postdoctoral fellow with the University of Zurich's Computational Emotion Neuroscience lab. The best praise, in turn, also seems to leave us wanting more of the resultant mini-high. G-Vibe Vibrator Unique Split Vibe Adapts to Pleasure Individually. Useful Info for G-Vibe Vibrator Material: Silicone & ABS Plastic Phthalate Alert: None Actual Length: 178 mm / 7 inch Playable length: 152mm / 6 inch Diameter (at widest): 33mm / 1.3 inch Power: Recharger Supplied with Toy: Yes Intensity: Medium Volume: Can't be heard outside duvet Weight: 203g Ease of Use: Middling Speeds: 6 Offers: Escalating vibration and pulseWaterproof: Water resistant Lube: Water-Based Lube Only Care & Cleaning of the G-Vibe Vibrator: Spray with Sh!

G-Vibe Vibrator Unique Split Vibe Adapts to Pleasure Individually

Toy Cleaner or wash with mild soap & rinse thoroughly. No water near / inside battery area. Air dry. Store in a cool, clean, dark place. Cute Rabbit Ears Clit Vibrator Vibrating Pink Silicone Clitoral. Sh! Sex Toy & Advice Blog. We often get emails and queries from customers keen to do their bit for the environment when it comes to offloading old vibrators and dildos.

Sh! Sex Toy & Advice Blog

Contacting us is often a last resort, however, so many end up hoarding broken vibes just because they don’t know what to do with them. Taking an hour or so to clear out your toy box is a good idea in terms of freeing up space (for new sexy toys, obv!) But also for ensuring all your playthings are in good working order, made of body safe material and so on. For tips on what to look out for, check our blog post on how to best carry out an annual spring clean of sex toys.

IJoy Waterproof Vibrating Silicone Love Egg. Sh! Silicone Tickler Bullet Vibrator Small Silicone Vibe: 3 Quiet Settings. Review of The Elephant Girls at Draper Hall. Given the size and diversity of life in London, there has always been a lot of crime in the old city.

Review of The Elephant Girls at Draper Hall

In fact, in the early years of the twentieth century, you could draw a map of London showing how it was split up into different fiefdoms among the various gangs who operated there. As with pretty much all commercial activity at the time, the gangs were all made up of men. Well nearly all. Why Loud Sex Is Good for Your Health. It's nearly midnight, you're getting (consensually) fucked, and the sound of your screams are muffled by the pillow covering your mouth.

Maybe you'd like to yell something like "yes daddy," or "harder," as you paddle his muscular ass, but you're too embarrassed; instead, you just whisper "I love you," and, spinning his baseball cap backwards, deliver a quiet kiss to his lips. But as it turns out, squelching loud sex moments might come at a cost to your personal, relational, and community's health. At least, that's what Gabriel Wikstrom, the health minister of Sweden, might say. Idaho man sentenced 28 years to life for luring gay man to woods for sex, kicking him to death. Kelly Schneider targeted murder gay murder victim Steven Nelson Kelly Schneider sat in an Idaho courtroom on Monday (10 April) with his head bowed and for more than an hour listened as the family of Steven Nelson spoke about the man Schneider killed. When they were through, a judge sentenced Schneider to 28 years to life in prison. Alabama's anti-gay governor resigns over extra-marital scandal.

Photo: Alabama.gov Robert Bentley spoke out against LGBTI rights while governor of Alabama Alabama’s anti-gay Governor Robert Bentley resigned from office Monday (10 April) amid a sex scandal that could have led to his being impeached. ‘I have decided it is time for me to step down as Alabama’s governor,’ Bentley said at the State Capitol on the same day impeachment hearings began. He is succeeded in office by Lt. Gov. Alabama's anti-gay governor resigns over extra-marital scandal. PHOTOESSAY: Krave Spring Break with Amber’s Closet. The Dinah wasn’t the only party in Palm Springs this weekend — Krave Spring Break took over the Saguaro Hotel just down the road. I met up with Amber of Amber’s Closet to experience a couple days in her life as an influencer and YouTuber while raging at Krave. Basically, she’s never off the clock, even when the party is off the chain. If you hang out on YouTube, you’ve probably heard of Amber. If you haven’t, you might have seen her hosting a party, speaking on a panel, or volunteering at the LGBT Center.

She started her channel “to help others that may be struggling with their identity, to break stereotypes, as well as to showcase her unique androgynous/tomboy style,” and her channel is full of challenges, comedy skits, motivational videos, vlogs, conversations about LGBTQ issues, and more. What Do Women Consider Cheating? How to Break Up With Someone You Were Only Dating Because It Was Cold Outside. Pinknews.co. Sex and the City star Cynthia Nixon has opened up about going through the menopause with her wife. Teen Roasts Friend Who Tried To Pressure Her Into. Teen Roasts Friend Who Tried To Pressure Her Into Sending Nude Pictures. The Power Of Being A Submissive Black Woman In Bed – The Establishment.

17 Questions I Have About "Sex and the City" Now That I Am An Adult. 'Why Can't I Consent to Sex with My Brother?': On Genetic Sexual Attraction. There Are Five Kinds Of Vaginas In The World, Apparently. The Inaugural MTV Movie and TV Awards Will Include All Genderless Categories. MTV just shook up the awards show game in the best way possible. The network recently announced that this year's MTV Movie Awards will actually be a celebration of both film and TV—and aptly re-titled the MTV Movie and TV Awards. There are 16 categories in the inaugural show: Some are film-specific. Some are TV-specific. Being Kinky Doesn’t Make You Queer. All Your Exes Have This In Common. NSFW Sunday Is Having A Threesome. What to Do When the Sex with Your Partner Is Bad. Why We Need to Challenge the Culture of Monogamy - Vice.

As someone who identifies as poly, I've often experienced negativity from those who don't think outside of how their relationships function. Former Model Gave up Eating 500 Calories a Day, Learned to Be Comfortable With Weight Gain. Time. My Mum and I Make Porn Together - Vice. Smut Slam LONDON: "Feeling the Fool" Mexico City installs a penis seat on the subway to fight sexual harassment – VICE News. This Little Girl Shut Down A Cashier Who Questione. Time. Time.

The Internal Clitoris, Or That Thing You Never Knew You Had. We Asked People What's in Their Mental Masturbation Folder - Vice. This Little Girl Shut Down A Cashier Who Questione. The Internal Clitoris, Or That Thing You Never Knew You Had. We Asked People What's in Their Mental Masturbation Folder - Vice. This Little Girl Shut Down A Cashier Who Questione. White Concrete House Under Clear Sky during Day Time · Free Stock Photo. Whoops, Sex Toy User Manuals Are Really Ableist.

Time. Ian McKellen reveals why he never played Dumbledore in the Harry Potter films. Whoops, Sex Toy User Manuals Are Really Ableist. Paris Jackson Body-Shaming Response - Motto. Here's How to Know If the Birth Control Pill You're on Isn't Working for You. Pinknews.co. People are extremely angry about this Nivea ad, for obvious reasons □ No, March 7 Isn’t Really Asian American Equal Pay Day — Here’s Why. Mexico City installs a penis seat on the subway to fight sexual harassment – VICE News.

8 HAND SIGNS YOGA MASTERS USE TO GET RID OF MIGRAINES, ANXIETY, AND DEPRESSION - DayByDay Magazine. This Student Took Chilling Photos To Show What Anxiety Feels Like. Beauty Vlogger Gina Shkeda Had a Powerful Response to a Teen Who Wished She Looked Like Her. Develop CR2/NEF/DNG online. The Feminist Movement Has A Capitalism Problem – The Establishment. Male Survivors Of Sexual Assault Speak Out – The Establishment. The Feminist Movement Has A Capitalism Problem – The Establishment. Male Survivors Of Sexual Assault Speak Out – The Establishment.

20 Early Warning Signs Of Lung Cancer That Women Should Never Ignore. 15 Fantastic Feminist Comic Books For Your Kids. 52 Memes You Should Send To Your S.O. Right Now. Hackers Can Easily Hijack This Dildo Camera and Livestream the Inside of Your Vagina (Or Butt) - Motherboard. Hackers Can Easily Hijack This Dildo Camera and Livestream the Inside of Your Vagina (Or Butt) - Motherboard. Zac Efron on doing drag: 'I can't wait to do it again' How Your Sex Life Affects Your Butt Size. Time. When Her Daughter Got In Trouble For Hitting a Student, This Mom Had an EPIC Response. Why Don’t We Think Fat People Are Worth Fighting For? This Is What It Is Actually Like To Have An IUD Inserted And Removed. Everyone You're Going to Meet On a Dating App - Vice. What It Means To Be Highly Empathetic, And Autistic. 10 of the Sexiest Things You Can Do in London - Places - Fuck.com. A Therapist, a Lawyer and a Sex Worker Explain What Actually Counts as Cheating - Vice.

Smut Slam LONDON: "Feeling the Fool" This Company Is Giving Away Free Sex Toys to Help Close the Orgasm Gap. People are living for this footballer kissing her wife after winning the MVP. Something Old, Something New Meaning? Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue ideas. Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue... - Confetti.co.uk. 11 Women Who Did Groundbreaking Things That Men Got The Credit For. WATCH: Gay couple’s yoga video offering relationship advice goes viral. Chrissy Teigen Just Said the Thing Every Mom Needs to Know About Losing Weight. 11 Sexual References in Movies That Definitely Flew Over Your Head Growing Up. Craft’s Long History In Radical Protest Movements – The Establishment. Watch: Fight between two male volleyball stars ends with a kiss. Nobody’s Death Is A Blessing – The Establishment.

I Dated My Best Friend and It Only Lasted Two Days. I Dated My Best Friend and It Only Lasted Two Days. People Are Sending So Much Love To This 8-Year-Old Who Went On A Run After Her Crush Called Her Fat. Time. Why More Women Are Paying for Sex Services - Vice.