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Is watching porn bad for you? | High Existence. What happens when you drop a male rat into a cage with a receptive female rat? First, you see a frenzy of copulation. Then, progressively, the male tires of that particular female. Even if she wants more, he has had enough. However, replace the original female with a fresh one, and the male immediately revives and gallantly struggles to fertilise her. You can repeat this process with fresh females until he is completely wiped out.Tweet This This is called the Coolidge effect—the automatic response to novel mates. It’s what might have started you down the road to getting hooked on Internet porn. In the last couple of years studies have been showing an increase in sexual problems among young males. The specific numbers are unknown since it has been difficult to do proper research. Researches could not find any college aged males who were not using internet porn. This article will deconstruct porn addiction in males. Why we get addicted to porn So what happens?

What about women? So what? Sexting - why it’s a bad idea. Sexting has been in the news a lot lately. Australia's first ''sexting'' case is before the Law Courts at the moment. Damien Eades has been charged with possession of child pornography because a 13 year-old girl sent naked photos of herself to his phone. And there is a new government ad campaign warning young people about the dangers of sexting ( While there are no reliable statistics on the prevalence of sexting in Australia, a 2008 US study showed that around 39 per cent of teens had seen sexually suggestive text messages or emails that were originally meant for someone else.

The story is probably very similar in Australia. So why is sexting so popular; especially when there is a very substantial social risk that the 'sexted' image becomes viral and spreads far beyond the original recipient with no means of stopping it? Two Thoughts; 1. 2. Sexting is just another example of the “pornified” culture we live in.

Seek Godliness over sexiness. Sexting in a Christian World. Posted by Cecil Maranville on June 29, 2011 I was not surprised by another Congressman sending lewd pictures of himself. But I was horrified by the growing public acceptance of sexting. I was disappointed but not surprised by the immoral actions of yet another national politician recently. But I was horrified by what his evolving scandal revealed about the behavior—and most importantly—the attitudes of Americans about “sexting.” First, let’s establish a relevant point: The vast majority of Americans consider themselves to be Christians. Next, for the sake of those who might not know, let’s define “sexting.” “Consensual” does not define “moral” What shocked me the most in the recent congressional disgrace was how accepted sexting is by the adult population.

Have so many lost their bearings? Fact: Sexting between an adult who is married and another married adult or an unmarried adult is a proven pathway to infidelity—that is, adultery. What God says Is anything considered coarse anymore? Is sexting a sin? Question: "Is sexting a sin? " Answer: “Sexting” is obscene texting. It is the act of sending sexually explicit messages and/or photographs, usually between mobile phones. Sexting has become so prevalent that, in August 2012, the word sexting was listed for the first time in Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary. Some people view sexting as harmless. Matthew 5:28 says, “I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Galatians 5:19–21 reveals the severe consequences of disobedience in this matter: “The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity . . . and the like. But what about sexting between a married couple? Given recent revelations concerning government surveillance of cellular telephone and internet traffic, as well as the ability of hackers to intercept personal communications, we should be careful in our use of phones and web-enabled devices.

Related Topics: What does the Bible say about pornography? Unplugging Pornography. Dear Jeffrey, Thanks for coming to Ichthus Festival again. Man, I love hearing you speak. I want to thank you for letting me come clean with you about my past. I still feel guilty a lot about all the stuff I’ve done. Like I said then, I’m the last person anyone would have guessed would be so deep into that junk [porn]. And you’re right. I get notes like this all the time.

Pornography is everywhere. Based on the widespread availability of pornography today, one might conclude that we as a society are increasingly accepting its presence as normal. I’d say these people are not facing the fact that porn is dangerous to the core. Porn leaves people feeling hopeless, guilty, and ashamed. Who is hurt by pornography? No teen today is immune to the possibility of falling into the trap of porn. I often meet adults who can’t fathom how someone could get caught up in such filth as pornography. Sin affects us all (see Romans 3:23). Certainly we cannot be passive about the problem of pornography. 1. Addiction Alters Your Brain. Candeo Co-Founder, Bernell Christensen As I was looking over some of my files on the “science of addiction,” I came across an old Time Magazine article titled, ADDICTED: WHY DO PEOPLE GET HOOKED? (See here for article) Written more than 10 years ago, the article cited some of the “cutting-edge” research in the area of the “brain science” behind addiction.

What amazed me is how far we have come since then. Not that what the article discussed has been proven wrong–quite the opposite. In essence, the article traces aspects of all addictions to the dopamine system in the brain. “Imagine you are taking a slug of whiskey. a puff of a cigarette. “Given the complexity of these events–and the inner workings of the mind in general–it’s not surprising that scientists have struggled mightily to make sense of the mechanisms of addiction.

“The answer, many scientists are convinced, may be simpler than anyone has dared imagine. “Now, a team of researchers led by psychiatrist Dr. What's the big deal about sexting? From the team: Most of our posts on are carefully worded so as to protect the innocent. Most of the time we’re thinking G. This is a PG-13 post. You might want to ask your mom before you keep going if you should read this.

Let your mom be your friend and screen your post. Good practice to do anyway! Monday, I told you Aly’s story. Aly wants to share her story with other young women so that they can avoid the traps that ensnared her. Sexting is a growing trend among teenagers. That simply isn’t true. One of the primary consequences of sexting is public humiliation. Many teens mistakenly think that sexting is perfectly legal. In 2007, two 13-year-old girls were threatened with charges of child pornography and open lewdness after pictures they took on their cell phone were widely distributed without their permission.

Over the last few years many teens have been prosecuted as sex offenders for sending and receiving sexual images on their phones. Apple Takes a Bite Out of Sexting. Facing the Dangers of Sexting in the World Today. ShareThis Where are you right now? Sitting at your computer at home? In a coffee shop with Wi-Fi, on your laptop or tablet? Using your smartphone to access the Internet from wherever? Technology is a part of our daily lives. Technology has benefits, even ministry opportunities, but we must be aware of the dangers posed by technology. What is sexting? Accurate statistics of sexting among Christians are not available, but a recent survey indicated that 50% of Christian men and 20% of Christian women are addicted to porn.

Why do teens engage in sexting? Sexting among adults Among adults, sexting is taking on more epidemic proportions. How can we increase awareness of the dangers of sexting? Mandy Crow, editor of LifeWay’s EC magazine, and Pam Gibbs, girls ministry director, offer suggestions for starting a conversation on sexting, found in the Winter 2012 issue of Facts and Trends.

Suzanne Krein is a freelance writer from Stafford, Virginia. The Science of Overcoming Pornography Addiction. Church Teens Not Immune to Sexting. December 29, 2011|5:55 pm As sexting becomes more and more popular among teens today, ministry leaders are faced with new challenges to help their youth groups not fall prey to the rising trend. Pastor Neal Benson, who serves as the pastor of discipleship at South Hills Church Community in Henderson, Nev., and has been leading students for over nine years, told The Christian Post that students often regretted their actions. “I recall speaking with a high school sophomore (with a female leader in our presence) to discuss the pain she has felt from sexting,” Benson shared. “There is embarrassment afterward when the entire school (maybe not the whole school) has seen you naked.” He felt that teens who were involved in sexting were usually not deeply connected with their family; otherwise they would not partake in the act.

“Sexting will continue as long as parents stay disengaged from their children,” he explained to CP. Follow us Get CP eNewsletter ›› Dirty Girls Ministries | Help, Hope & Healing. What’s the problem with pornography? Pornography - a big issue When it comes to thinking about how to live as a Christian, pornography is one of the most talked about topics that comes up. And you can guarantee that when you hear pornography being talked about in Christian circles, we're told that it's bad because: It's lust It's not living the Bible's way The answer is accountability - signing up for Covenant Eyes, meeting regularly with an accountability buddy (someone you will talk about your struggles with and pray with). Without undermining the value of Covenant Eyes and accountability, it's always seemed to me like a helpful step in the right direction, but ultimately not enough of a real answer to effectively deal with the temptation of porn.

The issue is bigger than lust and disobeying the rules of the Bible - faith is richer and deeper than simply obedience. So we need to think deeper. A problem for men and momen But pornography has a stronger message still; about what it means to be male and female. A Christian Woman's Journey Out of Porn. May 12, 2011|5:05 pm It all began with a magazine at the tender age of 10. Since then Crystal Renaud found herself addicted to masturbation, phone sex and cybersex, she confessed in her new book. The 26-year-old shared her intimate journey from addiction in her book Dirty Girls Come Clean. She wrote, “Pornography became my friend like none I had ever had before.

Renaud’s escape from the addiction did not come from a church sermon or a pastor’s advice, given that the subject was never addressed for women in church. In her book, she recounted the day she had hit bottom with her addiction when she solicited an anonymous sexual encounter as a teenager. She told ABC, “I went there and met this person but I was in this room that day and I was waiting for this person to arrive and God met me there in a very dark place. She asked herself then, “God how did I get here? Follow us Get CP eNewsletter ›› It was in that moment when she realized how dark her actions had become.

Counted Righteous: An unspoken struggle. Monday, 18 April 2011 An unspoken struggle - Christian Women addicted to Pornography Jesus says in Mathew 5:28, “But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you loose one of your members than for your whole body to be thrown into hell”. Rob Weiss, the founder of the Sexual Recovery Institute in Los Angeles, says that porn addiction is becoming an epidemic and Oprah also states that “it has been reported that 1 in 3 consumers of online porn in America are now woman”. Posted by Ken Oni at 22:57 Email ThisBlogThis!

Labels: Sex and relationships No comments: Post a Comment Newer PostOlder PostHome. The Secret Women's Porn Problem. Thank You - Thank You Am I addicted? Thank you! Your Name: Your Email: To complete the test, answer each question by placing a check in the appropriate yes/no column. Also, we are going to send you a FREE ebook after you take the short test. Help With Answers Recent Posts Featured Posts About Join Us Resources Connect With Us. How to Stop Porn Addiction - Help Overcoming Pornography. Time-Tested Tactics for Fighting Temptation. He was a Cambridge educated pastor of a Congregationalist church near Boston for more than fifty years. But he is remembered primarily for his cross-cultural missions. John Eliot (1604–1690) ventured “outside the camp” (Hebrews 13:13) to minister among the Algonquin and other tribes of the colonial eastern seaboard and helped produce the first complete Bible in an American language. Besides the publication of catechisms and language learning tools in the Algonquin tongue, Eliot also translated three Puritan devotional classics for use by Native Christians.

His longest extant original composition in English is titled, The Harmony of the Gospels, in the Holy History of the Humiliation and Sufferings of Jesus Christ, from His Incarnation to His Death and Burial (1678). It was Eliot’s contribution to the growing body of Lord’s Supper preparation literature that was a popular genre of the day in New England. Fetch Grace at the Table, Among the Body Temptation Is an Opportunity. Ammunition for the Fight Against Porn. Pornography is a multi-billion dollar industry, the largest online. Some statistics suggest that nearly 70% of all men ages 18–24 view porn at least once a week, which is not to mention the struggle among Gen Xers, and increasingly among women.

This is not a light matter. Porn is an outrageous sin against God and his image-bearers, including your own body. But we are not without guidance. Through God’s word, specifically 1 Corinthians 5–7, he shows us how to deal with porn and other sexual sins. The church of Corinth was tainted by diverse sexual perversions. A man went to bed with his father’s wife, an act that is severely condemned in the Old Testament (Leviticus 18:18; Deuteronomy 22:30; 27:20). Paul addresses this problem by giving the church theological truths that, if embraced, will dethrone all forms of sexual immorality from our hearts. The Needed Ammunition This is your ammunition — truths accomplished by God, knowledge given you by his grace.

Ammunition in Action. Is pornography a drug? Porn Harms. Sincerely Freedom (Porn Kills, Jesus Saves) I'm a Christian Girl Dealing With a Porn Addiction.