How to Kiss Want to see her again? Leave her with a kiss she'll remember. According to a recent study of kissing, good kissing technique can pave the way to a long-term relationship—and the sex that comes with it—or leave you spending the night alone. And when you're in a committed relationship, your girlfriend or wife still judges you by your kisses. Whether it's your first kiss or your fiftieth, "women, more so than men, use kissing as an assessment device," says Susan M. If she's kissing you slowly, she wants more of a sensual experience. Hughes led the study at the University of Albany, which found that men and women not only kiss for different reasons, they also prefer different types of kissing. And a good kiss can lead to many more. "The first kiss is a deal-breaker in terms of determining how the relationship will play out. Jen, a 27-year-old from New York City, says she'd start a relationship with a guy based on his kissing. The First Kiss What's your best kissing strategy? Lips are important too.
Online Psychology Resources Your Body Language Art by LaetitziaAs we all know, communication is essential in society. Advancements in technology have transformed the way that we correspond with others in the modern world. Because of the constant buzz in our technological world, it's easy to forget how important communicating face-to-face is. When conversing old-school style, it's not only speech we verbalize that matters, but what our nonverbal gestures articulate as well. Body language is truly a language of its own. 10% from what the person actually says40% from the tone and speed of voice50% is from their body language. Lowering one's head can signal a lack of confidence. Pushing back one's shoulders can demonstrate power and courageOpen arms means one is comfortable with being approached and willing to talk/communicate
Young Woman Dies from Fall, Boyfriend Gives Her One Last Kiss From iFeng: Yesterday [June 25th] morning at 9 o’clock, in a Fujian Quanzhou downtown alleyway between Quanxiu Street and Dengfu Street, a 22-year old woman accidentally slipped and fell from the fifth floor roof of a building, and died instantly. The boyfriend arrived upon hearing the news, and in great pain and sorrow he held the body in his arms, calling his girlfriend’s name again and again. Over half an hour passed and under the persuasions of the police, he gently cleaned the bloodstains on his girlfriend’s face, tidied up her cloths, her hair, and gave her one last kiss… The police very soon found out that the deceased woman was called Xiao Jing (pseudonym), and was 22 years old. Her hometown was Sanming. On the roof where Xiao Jing fell. The family members of the deceased question that the landlord’s building as not having enough safety precautions. From LongHoo: The police’s preliminary determined that the girl had slipped and fell off the building by accident Recall of the Past
Casanova's Principles of Sex and Seduction Despite an unremarkable mug, no man is more renowned for his power over women than Giacomo Casanova. In fact, his name has become synonymous with seduction. During his 73 years, he made love to noblewomen, actresses, dancers, chambermaids, Greek slave girls, a priest's niece, a farmer's daughter, five sisters (plus their mother), a transvestite, a hunchback (with "an excitingly misplaced vulva"), a nymphomaniac, and two unrepentant nuns -- 132 ladies in all. And we're here to tell you it's possible. That's all there is to it. "Unlike the fictional Don Juan or the Marquis de Sade, Casanova wasn't a sexual predator," says Ted Emery, Ph.D., an assistant professor of Italian at Dickinson College and a noted Casanovist. To gain a better understanding of this man's genius (without reading all 12 volumes of his autobiography), we attended a Casanova dinner at Sotheby's Institute of Art in New York City. So what did Casanova do that night? Casanova Commandment #1 Transform Your Body!
10 Ways Our Minds Warp Time How time perception is warped by life-threatening situations, eye movements, tiredness, hypnosis, age, the emotions and more… The mind does funny things to our experience of time. Just ask French cave expert Michel Siffre. In 1962 Siffre went to live in a cave that was completely isolated from mechanical clocks and natural light. When he tried to measure out two minutes by counting up to 120 at one-second intervals, it took him 5 minutes. But you don’t have to hide out in a cave for a couple of months to warp time, it happens to us all the time. 1. People often report that time seems to slow down in life-threatening situations, like skydiving. But are we really processing more information in these seconds when time seems to stretch? To test this, Stetson et al. (2007) had people staring at a special chronometer while free-falling 50 metres into a net. 2. We’ve all experienced the fact that time seems to fly when we’re having fun. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. Time is relative
Relationship Rules | Psychology Today - StumbleUpon Human beings crave intimacy, need to love and be loved. Yet people have much trouble doing so. It's clear from the many letters I get that lots of folks have no idea what a healthy relationship even looks like. Because I care about these things, and care about the environments children grow in, I'm using this space as an attempt to remedy the problem—again. From many sources and many experts, I have culled some basic rules of relationships. This is by no means an exhaustive list. Choose a partner wisely and well. Woman Remarries Ex-Husband with Cancer to Donate Liver to Him From NetEase: Woman Remarries To Donate Liver to Husband with Cancer, Says Because I Love Him October 31st, at the Beijing General Staff Headquarters Head Hospital (The 309th Hospital of the Chinese People’s Liberation Army), Su Dan donated 590 plus grams of her liver to her just remarried husband Tian Xinbing. [Picture above] October 31st, before surgery, the husband gazed upon his wife profoundly. In June, the two had just divorced. October 31st, Sun Dan being rolled into the operating room. October 31st, Su Dan receiving surgery. October 31st, before surgery, the husband gazed upon his wife profoundly. From QQ: Su Dan is an Inner Mongolian, while Tian Xinbing is from Henan. After the divorce, they still temporarily lived under the same roof, in order to continue working together for the company they both opened. “In fact, the divorce was very rash, and we probably would have gotten remarried after we had both calmed down. But Su Dan was very serious about it. But Tian Xinbing refused.
Sexual Attraction: Reading Body Language During my freshman year of college, I attended a traffic-light party at the student-union bar. Attendees were to wear red, yellow, or green to indicate their degree of sexual availability. As it turned out, I was the only partyer wearing an all-green outfit. Since then, however, I've always held out hope that there might be a way to reckon the workings of the female mind and, like some libidinous supervillain, that I could harness that power. So imagine my surprise when I learned that there does, in fact, exist a way to discern women's wants and needs, likes and dislikes with nary a word being uttered. The "secret" is nonverbal communication. Nonverbal communication predates spoken language in humans by hundreds of thousands of years, is used by just about every species on the planet, and is almost certainly a more reliable gauge of someone's thinking than the torrent of garbage that spills from our mouths. What does that mean to you? Transform Your Body!