« Le refoulement par l’homme de ses tendances et de... Season 4, Episode 11: Escape Perfectionism Once and for All [Podcast] Welcome to Season 4, Episode 11 of the This Is Your Life podcast. Stu McLaren is filling in for my regular cohost Michele Cushatt. In this episode, we discuss how to escape perfectionism once and for all. Perfectionism is the enemy of productivity and success. Listen to the Audio Subscribe to Podcast in iTunes Watch the Video In this episode, you’ll discover: The vital importance of distinguishing between perfection and excellence. Read the Transcript You can download a complete, word-for-word transcript of this episode here, courtesy of Ginger Schell, a professional transcriptionist, who does all my transcriptions. Join the Conversation My favorite part of doing these podcasts is participating in the conversation they provoke. Binge on All 13 Episodes! If you want to listen to more episodes, you will find all thirteen audio episodes of Season 4 here. Ask Me a Question If you have a question, comment, thought or concern, you can do so by clicking here. Subscribe to the Podcast Share the Love
« La castration de la spontanéité est l’une des caractéristiques... Five Ways to Find Perfection in Your Imperfections “This is our perfection: to find out our imperfections”– St. Augustine (as paraphrased by Sr. Joan Chittister) I was born a perfectionist. One of my earliest memories of my perfectionism was the habit of making my bed every morning as a kid. To be a kid who makes his bed is extraordinary in itself. Ensuring my bed was perfectly made was a sign of something deeper. I craved predictability because I was also a severe stutterer. No matter how hard I tried to hide my imperfect speech, it wouldn’t cooperate. I was ashamed. As I reached adolescence and early adulthood, it slowly dawned on me that the work of my life was not to stamp out all my imperfections but to let the imperfection itself become perfect. One day, I simply decided to accept my speech, just as it was. I want the same for you too. 1. Yes, this sounds like an oxymoron, but I have found it to be true in my life. Only after I exhausted myself trying to be perfect did I see the truth about the impossibility of the task. 2. 3. 4. 5.
Anima Cet archétype se manifeste tout au long de la vie, projeté inconsciemment, d'abord sur le parent du sexe opposé, puis sur les personnes rencontrées auxquelles sont alors prêtées les caractéristiques de cette image. Origine de la notion[modifier | modifier le code] Des rencontres avec Toni Wolff naissent les concepts d'« anima », d'« animus » et de « persona ». Définition en psychologie analytique[modifier | modifier le code] Animus et anima[modifier | modifier le code] Ces deux éléments fondamentaux de la psyché ne sont pas symétriques ; en effet, l'Anima est l'archétype de la vie en soi, qui procure expérience et connaissance chez l'homme. Archétype de la fonction inconsciente[modifier | modifier le code] Influence sur la personnalité[modifier | modifier le code] Contrairement à l'anima, l'animus féminin n'est pas un homme unique mais une pluralité virile[E 2]. Figures de l'anima[modifier | modifier le code] Chaque niveau correspond à un niveau de maturité psycho-affective. Ouvrages de C.
The 2 Types of Perfectionism: One Helps While The Other Sabotages You share share share share A certain type of perfectionism can lead to depression, anxiety and eating disorders. A dark type of perfectionism focusing primarily on anxieties about being perfect can hurt many areas of people’s lives, a new review reports. Perfectionism of this type involves constantly worrying about reaching impossibly high standards and making mistakes. It also involves worrying about letting others down. The psychologists found that the personality trait was most strongly linked to burnout at work. This may be because high performance in the workplace can often go unrewarded. In contrast, a related personality trait which focuses on striving for perfection is linked to more positive outcomes. People who set themselves high goals and work towards them pro-actively do better than those who focus more on their anxieties. The conclusions come from a review of 43 different studies conducted over 20 years. Dr Andrew Hill, the study’s lead author, said: Dr Hill said:
Animus Définition en psychologie analytique[modifier | modifier le code] « Chez la femme, à l'inverse, l'élément de compensation revêt un caractère masculin, et c'est pourquoi je l'ai appelé l'animus. Si, déjà, décrire ce qu'il faut entendre par anima ne constitue pas précisément une tâche aisée, il est certain que les difficultés augmentent quand il s'agit de décrire la psychologie de l'animus. (...) Le fait qu'un homme attribue naïvement à son Moi les réactions de son anima sans même être effleuré par l'idée qu'il est impossible pour quiconque de s'identifier valablement à un complexe autonome, ce fait qui est un malentendu se retrouve dans la psychologie féminine dans une mesure, si faire se peut, plus grande encore. (...) Les figures masculines de la catégorie de l’animus jouent le même rôle chez la femme que celle de l'anima chez l'homme. C’est pourquoi on la nomme la part masculine de la femme. Animus : L'intérêt du dialogue avec son masculin pour la femme[modifier | modifier le code]
Anne Lamott on Writing and Why Perfectionism Kills Creativity Anne Lamott’s Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life (public library) is among my ten favorite books on writing — a treasure trove of insight both practical and profound, timelessly revisitable and yielding deeper resonance each time. Lamott adds to the collected wisdom of great writers with equal parts candor and conviction, teaching us as much about writing as she does about creativity at large and, even beyond that, about being human and living a full life — because, after all, as Lamott notes in the beginning, writing is nothing more nor less than a sensemaking mechanism for life: One of the gifts of being a writer is that it gives you an excuse to do things, to go places and explore. Another is that writing motivates you to look closely at life, at life as it lurches by and tramps around. I started writing when I was seven or eight. I still encourage anyone who feels at all compelled to write to do so. But, one might wonder, why? In a sentiment reminiscent of E.
Pernicious Perfectionism: 3 Pervasive Patterns If you are a perfectionist, you know all too well how this way of being can trap you. You set high expectations for yourself, which can lead to success, and boost your self-esteem. But with those lofty goals can come a reciprocal mountain of self-criticism and judgment, which gets in the way of the success you seek! Are you stuck in Pernicious Perfectionism? Three Typical Patterns of Perfectionism Rigid perfectionistic beliefs have been linked to everything from anxiety disorders to suicidal ideation, not to mention the paradoxical decrease in performance. Here are three typical patterns of perfectionism and the common thought, feeling, and action tendencies underlying them. Amy: The Overachiever The Pattern: Perfectionism had worked for Amy growing up in a highly critical family. Most of the time, she was successful in her pursuits and she received praise from others. Jay: The ‘Failure’ The Pattern: Jay grew up in a family of over-achievers. Donna: The Procrastinator
A Highly Valued Personality Trait That Sadly Increases The Risk of Suicide This hidden cause of suicide might surprise you. Perfectionism is a bigger risk factor in suicide than is often thought, according to new research. Perfectionism involves being highly self-critical, constantly striving to meet the standards of others (typically parents or mentors) and being unsure about the efficacy of one’s own actions. While a certain amount of perfectionism is adaptive and necessary, when it becomes an obsession, it can lead to a vicious cycle. People in professions which have a strong emphasis on perfectionism — like lawyers, architects and physicians — are at a higher risk of suicide. Professor Gordon Flett of York University, who co-authored the study, said: It’s not hard to see how setting impossibly high standards for yourself would sometimes lead to negative feelings when these standards are not met. Professor Flett continued: Perfectionists like to maintain a mask of cool invulnerability to others, while inside their thoughts and emotions are anything but calm.
How To Be Your Most Productive Self: Let Go Of Being Perfect We live in an era of overachievement, and in this era flaunting those achievements (we’re looking at you, social media) is totally the norm. Because pretty much everyone’s achievements are on full display at all times, it can be easy to get caught up in the idea that “perfect is the new black,” and if you want to be successful in today’s hyper-competitive culture, you need to be perfect, too. If you subscribe to this idea that perfection is a prerequisite for success, you’re not alone: Perfectionism is on the rise in a major way, with studies finding significant jumps in the prevalence of perfectionist tendencies over the last three decades. But just because society is placing a higher value on perfection doesn’t mean you’re actually getting more done. We asked two psychologists, Dr. Understanding Perfectionism Before we jump into how perfectionism hinders productivity, let’s take a second to understand what, exactly, perfectionism is. How People Fall Down The Perfectionism Rabbit Hole 1.