Positive Singles Success Stories. Dating Success Stories. To say that I was in a chaotic marriage for 20 years is an understatement. I got married young and fast. I loved him and never saw anything weird past his love and affection at the time. After all, we were young and free souls ready to conquer the world, or so I thought. Well, years later, I realized that my man had hidden claws. He changed slowly and became a different person, but to his friends, who I came to socialize with later, he changed into the person they knew. The big shocker was when I came to realize that the person I thought I knew was actually bisexual. This was the first step towards my stressful marriage. A friend of mine told me about online dating sites that are specifically created for people living with lifelong STDs.