How to tell in 15 minutes whether someone likes you - by Bridget Webber. Bridget Webber's image for: "Body Language that Shows when someone of the Opposite Sex Fancies you" Caption: Location: Image by: Wouldn't it be great to be able to tell within fifteen minutes whether someone likes you or not? The Eyebrow Raise The eyebrow raise is generally reserved for members of the opposite sex who like what they see, and it happens straight away.
The Smile Although smiling can be faked, a genuine smile can easily be separated from a false one. A smile that is more of a grimace, or is delivered with lips firmly shut tight and downward turning corners of the lips, is a concerted effort rather than an indication that someone likes you. The Lean. If you are sat with a person who likes you, he or she is likely to lean in toward you as you converse. If you are standing, a person will stand close to you if he or she likes you, and give you full attention. Feet. Eye Contact Touching. When you like someone, you are drawn to touch him or her, even when you try not to! Mirroring.
Those Who Read Fiction Better at Reading People. Those Who Read Fiction Better at Reading Peopleby www.SixWise.com "Books say: she did this because. Life says: she did this. Books are where things are explained to you; life is where things aren't. " -- Author Julian Barnes If you've ever longed for the solace of the novel on your nightstand or found yourself thinking about its characters long after the book was closed, you will likely relate to a new study that lends credence to the, previously unstated, feelings that reading fiction evokes. A study published in the Journal of Research in Personality and led by Raymond Mar, a doctoral candidate in psychology at the University of Toronto, found that people who read narrative fiction often have improved social abilities, while for those who read non-fiction, the opposite holds true. "All stories are about people and their interactions -- romance, tragedy, conflict," says Mar.
Fiction Readers Score Higher on Tests of Empathy A follow-up study found similar results. More Reasons to Read Sources. How to Read People: Beyond the Words. In this post, the second in a 3-part series, I reveal the techniques and mindset that you will need to effectively read people. I tried to be as succinct as possible without losing any important details, but because of its length feel free to bookmark this page and read it in sections. How to Read People – Series 1. Preparing to Read People 2. Reading people is as much a science as it is an art. The science deals with an understanding of the mechanics and principles involved in people reading; For example, you study all the cold, hard facts about what a specific mannerism could mean, what a certain tone of voice might suggest, or how the context of a persons environment may influence their behavior.
Once the principles are understood, open up the right brain – that part of yourself that does not think in terms of linear thought, words, or mathematics, but instead with patterns, colors and abstracts. Those who are successful at combining the two become amazing people readers. . Appearance. Parts-of-the-body language. Techniques > Using Body Language > Parts-of-the-body language You can send signals with individual parts of the body as well as in concert. Here's details of the contributions of each part of the body. Head We look a lot at the other person's head, which is used to send many signals to us. Many are subconscious, which can be very useful.
Arms We often talk with our arms, windmilling as we describe with arms and hands what we are saying. Torso The torso, though often ignored, contains the main mass of the body and can give important signals. Legs The legs often betray body language when the person is trying to control their body (and often forget the lower half). See also Using Body Language. Clenched Muscles Assist Self-Control: Scientific American Podcast. You’re trying to exercise willpower—to avoid eating that second piece of cake or buying an electronic toy you don’t really need.
Try firming up your muscles. Any muscles. Now you can walk away—as long as walking away is truly in line with your overall goals. Researchers created various tests of discipline. In one test, participants got a so-called health tonic of diluted, but unpleasant tasting vinegar. Those committed to their long term health who also tensed their calf muscles were more likely to drink more of the vinegar.
In another test, subjects had to choose whether to look at disturbing images of post-earthquake Haiti as part of an effort to solicit donations. Another test involved snack choices. So the next time you’re faced with a choice that takes self-control, clench your fist or firm that bicep. —Cynthia Graber [The above text is an exact transcript of this podcast.] Intro to Body Language / Reading Mike.
What Does Your Body Language Say About You? How To Read Signs and Recognize Gestures - Jinxi Boo - Jinxi Boo. Art by LaetitziaAs we all know, communication is essential in society. Advancements in technology have transformed the way that we correspond with others in the modern world. Because of the constant buzz in our technological world, it's easy to forget how important communicating face-to-face is.
When conversing old-school style, it's not only speech we verbalize that matters, but what our nonverbal gestures articulate as well. Body language is truly a language of its own. We all have quirks and habits that are uniquely our own. 10% from what the person actually says40% from the tone and speed of voice50% is from their body language. Lowering one's head can signal a lack of confidence. Pushing back one's shoulders can demonstrate power and courageOpen arms means one is comfortable with being approached and willing to talk/communicate.