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15 Things Highly Confident People Don't Do

15 Things Highly Confident People Don't Do
Highly confident people believe in their ability to achieve. If you don’t believe in yourself, why should anyone else put their faith in you? To walk with swagger and improve your self-confidence, watch out for these fifteen things highly confident people don’t do. 1. They don’t make excuses. Highly confident people take ownership of their thoughts and actions. 2. Highly confident people don’t let fear dominate their lives. 3. Highly confident people avoid the comfort zone, because they know this is a place where dreams die. 4. Highly confident people know that a good plan executed today is better than a great plan executed someday. 5. Highly confident people don’t get caught up in negative feedback. 6. Highly confident people have no tolerance for unnecessary, self-inflicted drama. 7. Highly confident people can make use of whatever resources they have, no matter how big or small. 8. Highly confident people know that they are not competing with any other person. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14.

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