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10 Life Lessons to Excel In Your 30s

10 Life Lessons to Excel In Your 30s
A couple weeks ago I turned 30. Leading up to my birthday I wrote a post on what I learned in my 20s. But I did something else. I sent an email out to my subscribers (subscribe here) and asked readers age 37 and older what advice they would give their 30-year-old selves. The idea was that I would crowdsource the life experience from my older readership and create another article based on their collective wisdom. The result was spectacular. So first of all, a hearty thank you to all who contributed and helped create this article. While going through the emails what surprised me the most was just how consistent some of the advice was. Below are 10 of the most common themes appearing throughout all of the 600 emails. 1. “I spent my 20s recklessly, but your 30s should be when you make a big financial push. There were a few categories this advice fell into: One reader said, “If you are in debt more than 10% of your gross annual salary this is a huge red flag. Gee whiz! 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9.

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