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The Apple Game: How Good a Person Are You?

The Apple Game: How Good a Person Are You?
I’d like to introduce you to a game I’ve been playing with friends for years.It’s not a game really—more of an exercise. The purpose is to add a bit more depth to the question, “Are you a good person?” Here’s how it’s played:Treat a person like an apple, with three layers of depth— The idea is to label a person simply as either “good” or “bad” on each of these layers to create an “apple profile”—a quick sizing up of their goodness through and through. Layer 1) The Apple Skin Definition: How you come off at first Who Knows Your Skin: Everyone who comes into contact with you, from a cashier you buy something from (that’s the outermost surface) to a coworker you’ve never really gotten to know (further inwards but still considered the skin). Questions to Ask to Know Whether Your Skin Is Good or Bad: – Do people tend to like you and feel comfortable around you when they first meet you? If most of these answers are YES, your skin is Good. Layer 2) The Apple Flesh Layer 3) The Apple Core Related:  Person Self SocialINSPIRATION

7 Types of Girls in SIM which Average SIM Guys Can’t Get and Ways To Get Her Hello Singaporean Companion. I am so sorry to be missing for last 2 months. I just started my University life in SIM and just ended my Exams. From the period of 2 months studying and joining a club in SIM I found out these 7 types of girls and wish to share with my Singaporean Reader The Music Video is to compliment the mood for Each Type of SIM Girls. 1. Most of the time. The reason why the lecture girl would be their eye candy. Reason for not able to get “her” : You are still unsure if she is the girl you would want to spend the rest of your life with. How to get her: Go to lecture and ask if you can sit next to her in lecture. 2. You probably would join a CCA / Club in SIM for interest. Reason for not able to get “her” : You are a newbie in the CCA / Club or you are not in the Committee Role How to get her: Be the best in the CCA / Club. 3. There will be this 1 girl. Reason for not able to get “her” : Duh… She is attached 4: That Girl you met at SIM Food Clique or SIM Blk C Starbucks 6.

Color Psychology by David Johnson Like death and taxes, there is no escaping color. It is ubiquitous. Yet what does it all mean? Why are people more relaxed in green rooms? Colors often have different meanings in various cultures. Black Black is the color of authority and power. White Brides wear white to symbolize innocence and purity. Red The most emotionally intense color, red stimulates a faster heartbeat and breathing. The most romantic color, pink, is more tranquilizing. Blue The color of the sky and the ocean, blue is one of the most popular colors. Green Currently the most popular decorating color, green symbolizes nature. Yellow Cheerful sunny yellow is an attention getter. Purple The color of royalty, purple connotes luxury, wealth, and sophistication. Brown Solid, reliable brown is the color of earth and is abundant in nature. Colors of the Flag In the U.S. flag, white stands for purity and innocence. Food for Thought While blue is one of the most popular colors it is one of the least appetizing.

The 20 Things You Need To Stop Doing To Yourself We are our own greatest enemy. We doubt ourselves, complicate our lives, cloud our minds with unimportant thoughts and negativity, we punish ourselves, hate ourselves and then feel sorry for ourselves because “outside forces” are making our lives a living hell. Life is beautiful — you’re making yours a living hell all on your own. Surely some of us have it difficult because those are the cards that we’re dealt, but most of us — especially those who are better off financially and don’t live on the streets — make our very own lives more difficult for ourselves. 1. Problems don’t go away on their own. 2. People will lie to you left and right throughout your life; don’t add to the pile of lies. If you know something to be false, then stop convincing yourself that it is or could possibly be true. 3. Yesterday was yesterday — it’s gone and will never again be. It can be a dangerous thing to dwell on the past. 4. I’ve tried; it doesn’t work. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. Life is tough for everyone. 10. 11.

The Fermi Paradox | Wait But Why Everyone feels something when they're in a really good starry place on a really good starry night and they look up and see this: Some people stick with the traditional, feeling struck by the epic beauty or blown away by the insane scale of the universe. Personally, I go for the old "existential meltdown followed by acting weird for the next half hour." Physicist Enrico Fermi felt something too -- "Where is everybody?" A really starry sky seems vast -- but all we're looking at is our very local neighborhood. When confronted with the topic of stars and galaxies, a question that tantalizes most humans is, "Is there other intelligent life out there?" As many stars as there are in our galaxy (100 - 400 billion), there are roughly an equal number of galaxies in the observable universe -- so for every star in the colossal Milky Way, there's a whole galaxy out there. So there are 100 Earth-like planets for every grain of sand in the world. But it hasn't. Where is everybody? It gets stranger. 1.

25 Signs That You’re A Mentally Strong Person I am not ashamed to admit that I am a fan of Star Trek: The Next Generation. The episode that always comes to mind is when Wesley Crusher had just missed getting into Star Fleet Academy. Captain Picard consoles him by telling him the real measure of a man is what he learns from his mistakes. If you look at real-life historical figures, there are many examples of those that exhibit mental toughness. Teddy Roosevelt. 1. Even in the harshest stress factors, you choose to stay calm and you try to handle situations smoothly. 2. You are not afraid to voice your opinion; neither are you afraid to take other’s opinions or feedback, whether they’re negative or positive. 3. You know well when you’ve made a mistake and you apologize, not worrying about losing face. 4. Being a mentally strong person, you’re adaptable to change. 5. You don’t just see things as they are. 6. You don’t expect anything in return when you go the extra mile for someone. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19.

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Quarter-life crisis: What you should know about life and money by the time you’re 25 | The Advertiser Be happy. Source: Getty Images A COUPLE of months after I turned 25, I had a slight quarter-life crisis. Twenty-five is a funny age. Optimistically, if I am to live to be 100 years old, I have already lived one quarter of my life. This isn’t a bad thing, it’s just a sobering realisation. Life sure is interesting. Although I’ve learned hundreds and possibly thousands of lessons over the last quarter century, I’ve narrowed it down to the 25 most important ones here: I went through the majority of my early twenties feeling unhappy because I wasn’t exactly where I wanted to be in life. If you want to be successful at what you do, you must be passionate about it. Your dreams are some of your greatest possessions. When I came to the realisation that it’s impossible to please everyone, my life became much easier. Out of all the assets that I possess, my health is by far the most valuable. Travel often. Socrates said, “No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training.

The Great Perils of Social Interaction If an alien ever immigrated to Earth, he’d be a social disaster. He’d try his hardest to learn by observing how humans behave, but it wouldn’t be easy—he’d see someone ask a stranger for a cigarette and he’d go ask for a sip of someone’s latte. He’d see a couple kissing on the street and he’d go try to kiss the policeman on the corner. Our alien immigrant wouldn’t last a day before being arrested. That’s the way things are—there is an intricate set of thousands of social rules, and we’re all sharply attuned to them. But the hardest part of trying to abide by the Social Rulebook is that it’s far from a perfect book. It takes you to a certain point but then leaves much up to interpretationThere are parts that are outdated or badly thought-out and terribly in need of an AmendmentAnd to further complicate things, every nation, ethnicity, culture, and subculture has its own unique version of the Rulebook It’s the wild fucking west out there. Perils of Interacting With Friends and Family

9 Common Traits Of Happy People (That They Don’t Talk About) Happiness. It’s the term thrown around more often than any other when people are asked what they aspire to most in life. A loving partner, a fun high-paying job, and endless world travel are also among some of the most common answers, however, all of these are preference-based means to the one ultimate end, which is happiness. Being so sought-after, I thought I’d put together a list of traits that seem to be common to happy people – and I’m talking about the genuinely happy people, not just those who appear to be so on the surface. In compiling this list I’m not suggesting that these are the only keys to happiness, I simply hope to shed light on some common characteristics I’ve noticed. For those that prefer to watch a video than read the list, here it is for you to check out and share: 1. On the surface this may sound incredibly egotistical, but by it I simply mean that they are truly comfortable in their own shoes. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. Free Happiness Training!

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Why Are Gen Y Singaporeans Saving So Little Despite Not Having to Pay Rent? |... Sure, a house costs a ton of money in Singapore—but so does a Ferrari. Neither affects you at this point if you’re still living with mum and dad. And that’s what most unmarried Singaporeans continue to do. Unmarried people in the 18-30 age group are overwhelmingly likely to still be living at home, and that means the enormous financial burden of having to pay rent is lifted from their shoulders. But still, many surveys have revealed that Gen Y-ers in Singapore have dismally low levels of savings. 1. If you don’t have to pay rent, other than groceries, utilities and your cellphone bill, most of your other spending is discretionary spending—you spend on things you don’t really need, but which you can afford, so why not? And based on the high levels of discretionary spending many Gen Y Singaporeans engage in, they’d better be having a whole lot of fun. People are going to protest and say that the money is never enough in Singapore, blah blah. What do you get? What to do? 2. What to do? 3.

Your Family: Past, Present, and Future This post was originally published about a year ago. Back with new posts soon. I have one living grandparent—my father’s mother, who’s 89. Nana. I visited Nana recently and went through the usual activities—talking about myself in a loud voice, fixing her “broken machine” by unminimizing the internet browser window, being told to slow down Timothy and get in the left lane, even though the turn is still a half mile ahead. I don’t know you, but I can almost guarantee that you don’t ask your grandparents (or older parents) enough questions about their lives and the lives of their parents. During my visit, Nana referred to herself as “the last of the Mohicans,” meaning basically everyone she spent her life with is dead—her husband, siblings, cousins, and friends are all gone. So on this visit, I started asking questions. She was annoyed. But it only took a couple minutes for her to become absorbed in storytelling, and I spent the next three hours riveted. I knew none of this. Who were they all?