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Healthy Vs. Unhealthy Love

Healthy Vs. Unhealthy Love
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23 Psychological Life Hacks to get an Advantage Have you always wondered about the subtle things you can do to totally improve the outcome of a situation? It is something that I have constantly been thinking about. After spending some time searching up on the subject I came across some incredible bits of advice from a reddit discussion. 23 psychological Life Hacks to get a Situational advantage. When you first meet people try to notice their eye color while also smiling at them. 3 Books to Pick up more Psychological Life Hacks Check out these articles! Share these great tips with your friends! Pervers narcissiques : "Les personnes les plus intelligentes sont les plus exposées"- 30 mars 2012 Dans votre manuscrit, vous analysez longuement la relation d’emprise, véritable "main basse sur l’esprit" selon le psychanalyste Saverio Tomasella, qui permet de pendre le pouvoir sur quelqu’un. En quoi consiste-t-elle ? Nous pourrions le définir en un seul mot : "décervelage". Le processus en œuvre dans le décervelage consiste en une perte progressive des capacités psychiques d’une personne soumise à des manipulations quotidiennes qui agissent comme des micros agressions. Le poison est instillé à dose homéopathique. Comme le fait de penser que les personnes manipulées sont "faibles" ? Tout à fait. Mais nous commençons aujourd’hui à mieux connaître ces processus grâce aux travaux de certains neuropsychiatres, comme le docteur Muriel Salmona, présidente de l'association Mémoire traumatique et victimologie, qui décrivent comment le mécanisme de disjonction opère chez une personne traumatisée. Comme souvent, la pluridisciplinarité favoriserait une meilleure compréhension des choses... Oui.

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50 Very Simple Ways to Be Romantic Ok, so maybe Valentine’s Day isn’t for another month, but that doesn’t mean you can’t show your partner some special attention now. In fact, I invite you to join me in this experiment. The plan is to show your love for your partner in a small and different way each day for a whole month and see what magic happens.Here are a list of 50 things you can do to express your love. If things aren’t good between you and your partner right now, this might be just the thing to slowly melt the ice between you both. If things are already good, this will strengthen your relationship further. By the way, there is nothing expensive on this list so there is no excuse not to give this a shot.Write “I love you” in the steam on the bathroom mirror after he takes a shower.Offer a back massage with some good smelling lotion.Write a poem. Don’t stop now because there are more tips for being romantic ahead.Place an ad in the classifieds declaring your love. Print this out and do one each day.

Love the Grows: Questions You Should Ask Before Marriage In my marriage class in my first semester of college, our teacher gave us a handout (or should I say packet) with these questions. At first I was like "Holy shnikeys! This is way too many questions! But we did. At first it started with asking the interesting questions, but then we asked them all, wondering if maybe the answer would be different than we expected. From answering these questions we talked about how we plan on raising and disciplining our kids, who will manage the bills, what our parents should and shouldn't know about, what we believe our flaws are. Here's some of the questions I think are really important to have an understanding on in your marriage. I don't necessarily believe the answers to these questions will make or break your marriage, but I do believe that opening up the lines of communication and honestly talking about the important things these questions bring up IS important. CLICK HERE FOR A PRINTABLE VERSION OF THESE QUESTIONS Sex/Romance/Love The Past Trust

Le cerveau émotionnel ou la neuroanatomie des émotions Au contraire de la cognition, objet d’investigations multiples, l’émotion fut singulièrement négligée par la neurobiologie. Depuis peu, encouragés par la découverte des fondements neuronaux de certaines fonctions cognitives, les neurobiologistes ont abordé de façon plus audacieuse le domaine des émotions. Pourquoi un intérêt si tardif ? How to Deal With People Who Frustrate You | Deep down I knew better, but I couldn’t stop myself. An opinionated Twitter acquaintance of mine had tweeted a snarky comment that dismissed all forms of self-improvement as new age feel-good fluff. It was such a sweeping, cynical remark that I felt I had to set him straight. So I hammered out a sharp rebuttal, and felt a little better, but there was still uneasiness. He would surely come up with a counter-attack on what I said, and it would go back and forth until one of us let the other have the last word. After a few minutes, I got the lesson he was trying to teach me: to let go of my need to be right all the time. A few years ago I learned an ingenious method for dealing with other people when they’re doing things you wish they wouldn’t do. You go about your day as normal, but you imagine one difference: Everyone is enlightened but you. That includes: A true master won’t simply tell you what he thinks you should know. If you knew you were being tested on purpose, what would you do?

Psych2go 18 schémas cognitifs inadaptés qui contribuent aux troubles de la personnalité Mise à jour 2017 - Voici les modèles cognitifs du développement des traits de personnalité inadaptés des psychologues américains Aaron T. Beck et Jeffrey E. Young qui constituent de grands classiques de la psychologie cognitive. Pour Aaron T. Beck, les troubles de la personnalité résultent d'une sur-utilisation de stratégies ou de comportements adaptatifs pour la survie de l'espèce tels que la compétition, la dépendance, l'évitement, la résistance, la méfiance, la dramatisation, le contrôle, l'agression, l'isolement et la grandiosité. Alors que la personne qui n'a pas de trouble de la personnalité utilise certaines de ces stratégies dans des circonstances spécifiques, celle présentant un trouble de la personnalité les sur-utilise de façon rigide même lorsqu'elles sont clairement désavantageuses. Les schémas (croyances) Le concept de schéma cognitif À un moment particulier, selon le contexte et les événements, un schéma (ou un ensemble de schémas) peut être activé ou "dormant". Méfiance/abus

Amazing Women Rock - 28 Relationship Tips For Women Who Love Men 1) If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. 2) If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.... 3) Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. 4) Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. 5) Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. 6) Slower is better. 7) Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. 8) If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't 'be friends.' 9) Don't settle. 10) Don't stay because you think 'it will get better.' 11) The only person you can control in a relationship is you. 12) Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. 13) Always have your own set of friends separate from his. 14) Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you; if something bothers you, speak up. 15) Be aware that healthy relationships are built on trust, and that trust takes time to develop. 22) All men are NOT dogs. Good luck!

Lateral Thinking Puzzles - Preconceptions Lateral thinking puzzles that challenge your preconceptions. 1. You are driving down the road in your car on a wild, stormy night, when you pass by a bus stop and you see three people waiting for the bus: 1. An old lady who looks as if she is about to die. 2. An old friend who once saved your life. 3. Knowing that there can only be one passenger in your car, whom would you choose? Hint: You can make everyone happy. Solution: The old lady of course! 2. Hint: The police only know two things, that the criminal's name is John and that he is in a particular house. Solution: The fireman is the only man in the room. 3. Hint: He is very proud, so refuses to ever ask for help. Solution: The man is a dwarf. 4. Hint: It does not matter what the baby lands on, and it has nothing to do with luck. Solution: The baby fell out of a ground floor window. 5. Hint: His mother was an odd woman. Solution: When Bad Boy Bubby opened the cellar door he saw the living room and, through its windows, the garden. 6. 7.

Emotions ?... vous avez dit : émotions ?... En parcourant le web, je suis il y a peu tombée sur cette « fleur » des émotions (présentée en anglais sur Wikipédia). Elle m’a immédiatement fait penser et réfléchir aux spécificités des surdoués… A l’origine de cette fleur : Robert Plutchik , psychologue de l’université de Floride. La théorie de Plutchik concernant les émotions est la suivante : Plutchik a d’abord présenté les différentes émotions sous forme de diagramme, puis sous forme de cône : … avant de le présenter dans sa forme « circomplexe » (la fleur) qui est la version développée du cône, mais qui fait apparaître des sentiments qui correspondent à des mélanges d’émotions : ainsi par exemple joie et acceptation sont les ingrédients de l’amour, répugnance et chagrin celui du remords… Autant de combinaisons que connaissent bien les spécialistes du marketing et de la communication pour faire passer leurs messages… Ici, en anglais, un article Wilkipedia qui entre dans le détail des émotions primaires et mixtes. Pearl Buck (1892 – 1973)

10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon Reading Time: 6 minutes You know how you can hear something a hundred times in a hundred different ways before it finally gets through to you? The ten truths listed below fall firmly into that category – life lessons that many of us likely learned years ago, and have been reminded of ever since, but for whatever reason, haven’t fully grasped. This, my friends, is my attempt at helping all of us, myself included, “get it” and “remember it” once and for all… We know deep down that life is short, and that death will happen to all of us eventually, and yet we are infinitely surprised when it happens to someone we know. It’s like walking up a flight of stairs with a distracted mind, and misjudging the final step. LIVE your life TODAY! Your life is yours alone. Remember, it’s always better to be at the bottom of the ladder you want to climb than the top of the one you don’t. And if life only teaches you one thing, let it be that taking a passionate leap is always worth it.

10 distorsions cognitives qui entretiennent des émotions négatives Le terme distorsion cognitive a été introduit en 1967 par le psychiatre américain Aaron T. Beck, pionnier de la psychothérapie cognitivo-comportementale. Selon son modèle, les distorsions cognitives sont des façons de traiter l'information qui résultent en erreurs de pensée prévisibles ayant souvent pour conséquence d'entretenir des pensées et des émotions négatives. Elles contribuent ainsi aux troubles émotionnels tels que la dépression et l'anxiété ainsi qu'aux troubles de la personnalité. Dans son travail avec des personnes atteintes de dépression, Beck a identifié six erreurs systématiques de pensée : La pensée « tout ou rien » ou « noir ou blanc » Penser de façon dichotomique (polarisée) sans nuance : tout ou rien, noir ou blanc, jamais ou toujours, bon ou mauvais…. Par la suite (1980), le psychologue David Burns a identifié quatre autres distorsions : Le raisonnement émotionnel Prendre pour acquis que des états émotifs correspondent à la réalité. Psychomédia Tous droits réservés.