The 11 Differences Between Dating a Boy vs a Man When I was in my early twenties, if a guy acted aloof, called back only sometimes and showed minimal interest, I would get hooked. You could say I was addicted to the bad boy/ unavailable boy/ player. I was drawn to what psychotherapist, Ken Page terms as “attractions of deprivation” – when we are drawn to people who embody the worst emotional characteristics of our parents. “The child in us believes that if the original perpetrators — or their current replacements — finally change their minds, apologize, or make up for that terrible rupture of trust, we can escape from our prison of unworthiness. So games used to work on me because 1) I had unresolved daddy issues and 2) At the tender age of 20, I was trying to figure out who I was and to top it off, I was ridden with insecurity and a low sense of self-worth. But somewhere in between the passing of a decade, something changed. I learned to love myself. A girl is attracted to boys. A man knows what he wants, and goes for it. 11.
Similsr to TED How It Works: Clinton’s “Reality Distortion Field” Charisma One piece of the puzzle: getting eye contact right. Not evasive, not creepy — just right. (Photo: Mr. Theklan) This is a guest post from Michael Ellsberg, a good friend who’s spent the last several years studying interpersonal persuasion and language (spoken and unspoken). He has performed hundreds of tests in the field as the creator of Eye Gazing Parties, which resembles speed-dating with no speaking. In this post, he deconstructs Bill Clinton’s so-called “reality distortion field” into elements you can practice for business or pleasure. Enter Michael Ellsberg I’ve figured out the secret—or at least, a big secret—of Bill Clinton’s legendary charm and face-to-face persuasion. “I have a friend who has always despised Bill Clinton,” a person at a cocktail party told me during the time I was writing my book about eye contact. “In that moment, face-to-face, all of my friend’s personal animosity towards Clinton disappeared, in one instant,” my new acquaintance at the party continued.
13 Great First Date Questions Awkward silence is the killer of romance. The only thing worse is bad small talk. I want to help you banish both from your dates. According to the research, a flexible communication style—engaging questions, open-mindedness and easy back and forth is most effective. Below I have outlined my favorite first date (or second, third or fourth) date questions and conversation starters. Help you to more quickly gauge if you have a connection or not.Get to know their personality, history and areas of compatibility more quickly.Encourage great conversation. Special Note: These are not meant to be pelted at your date in an interrogational manner. For some of these questions I have included “Don’t Ask” questions. Best First Date Conversation Starters: 1. This is my go-to question and comes up very naturally if someone talks about a) being busy b) what they do for a living c) any hobbies. 2. If it is around the holidays or one of your birthdays you can talk about presents. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11.
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Guts annonce Philantropiques, un nouvel album dans la lignée de sa série Beach Diggin' Comme pour ses 4 albums précédents, Philantropiques sortira sur le label Heavenly Sweetness, le 29 mars prochain. Guts s’est d’abord imposé comme beatmaker pillier de la scène hip-hop française en taillant la bande-son d’Alliance Ethnik, de Big Red ou des Svinkels, avant de se lancer en solo sous le nom de Guts avec son premier album « Le Bienheureux » sorti en 2007. Porté par une volonté constante de se renouveler, il s’entoure aujourd’hui d’un nouveau live band. Irrémédiablement attiré par les vibrations du monde, c’est principalement sur celles de l’Afrique et des Caraïbes qu’il s’attarde dans son dernier effort. Expérimental, ensoleillé, ce nouvel album s’inscrit dans le prolongement de sa série de compilations intitulée Beach Diggin’ qu’il concocte avec son complice Mambo depuis 2013. Philantropiques est un album résolument afro-tropical où se rencontrent le jazz et le carimbó. Une rencontre avec Guts et une écoute de Philantropiques auront lieu le 14 mars prochain avec Sonarium.