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How to Gain Respect of Others —

How to Gain Respect of Others —
It is interesting to consider why we instinctively respect some people, but others can be very hard to appreciate. Respect doesn’t necessarily mean we have to agree with everything they say; respect comes from people’s inner life, and the values and beliefs they hold. If someone is sincere, honest and self effacing it is easy to respect them, even if they believe in a different life philosophy. If we can understand why some people instinctively gain respect, we can learn to implement these characteristics in our own life. Talk Less We do not command respect by excessively talking. True words aren’t eloquent; eloquent words aren’t true. - Lao Tzu.Tao Te Ching Verse 81 Listen More Everyone likes to have their own say. Sincere Appreciation There is a big difference between sincere appreciation, and flattery which hopes for similar words to be repaid in kind. Non Judgemental It is easy to build up lists of people we like and people we dislike. Honesty Leave Praise To Other People Self Respect

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