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12 Rules for Being a Human Being

12 Rules for Being a Human Being
post written by: Marc Chernoff Email Don’t try to be perfect. Just be an excellent example of being human. Here are a few things to keep in mind: Growth requires pain. – Be patient and tough, someday this pain will be useful to you. Photo by: Colton Mitt If you enjoyed this article, check out our new best-selling book. And get inspiring life tips and quotes in your inbox (it's free)...

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