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How Our Brains Stop Us From Achieving Our Goals (and How to Fight Back)

How Our Brains Stop Us From Achieving Our Goals (and How to Fight Back)
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Mapping Your Patterns of Delay If you have an automatic procrastination habit (APH), you are likely to languish. To change the pattern, take an essential step. Create a procrastination log to find out what is going on. Here’s where to start. Procrastination has predictable features, such as distractions to avoid tensions, and excuses to justify delays. Your procrastination log is an obvious place to begin combatting procrastination. You have many ways to do a log. As an alternative, you can rely on recall and log information as needed. 1. 2. 3. 4. There is no perfect way to do a log. After about six weeks of recording your procrastination episodes—sometimes sooner—you can often see patterns and trends that can help you define the general process you follow when you procrastinate, and to see opportunities to change course quicker. Next, I’ll give an example of how to convert procrastination information into a self-help format. In unusual circumstances, a procrastination log can be extensive and distracting. 3. 1. 2.

Inspire Me Now » Letting Go of Attachment, from A to Zen “Most of our troubles are due to our passionate desire for and attachment to things that we misapprehend as enduring entities.” ~Dalai Lama Editor’s note: This is a guest post from Lori Deschene of Tiny Buddha. If there’s one thing we all have in common it’s that we want to feel happy; and on the other side of that coin, we want to avoid hurting. Yet we consistently put ourselves in situations that set us up for pain. We pin our happiness to people, circumstances, and things and hold onto them for dear life. We attach to feelings as if they define us, and ironically, not just positive ones. In trying to hold on to what’s familiar, we limit our ability to experience joy in the present. When you stop trying to grasp, own, and control the world around you, you give it the freedom to fulfill you without the power to destroy you. It’s no simple undertaking to let go of attachment—not a one-time decision, like pulling off a band-aid. Experiencing Without Attachment Believe now is enough.

It Never Gets Better La publicité peut avoir des effets nocifs sur la société Le jugement des "Déboulonneurs" de pub, accusés d'"atteinte à la liberté d'expression", est rendu mardi. Des chercheurs défendent "la liberté de (non) réception des citoyens". Le | • Mis à jour le | Par Guillaume Dumas, Mehdi Khamassi, Karim Ndiaye, Yves Jouffe, Luc Foubert et Camille Roth, chercheurs en sciences cognitives et sociales "Il serait inique que des barbouilleurs animés par un esprit civique de dépollution des images soient poursuivis et condamnés, alors que tant d'ignominies dues à la recherche du profit maximum sont tolérées." Edgar Morin. Le 3 avril, huit personnes du collectif "les Déboulonneurs" comparaissaient à la chambre d'appel correctionnelle de Paris pour avoir barbouillé des panneaux publicitaires. Les sciences cognitives et sociales (neurosciences, psychologie et sociologie notamment), disciplines dont nous relevons, tendent à montrer que la publicité biaise nos comportements les plus automatiques, y compris de façon inconsciente.

37 Things You Need to Know Before Publishing a Newsletter If you’re passionate about your work, you want to share it with others. You want to engage your followers, excite your fans, and move them to action. While tweets and blog posts can be highly effective parts of a good content strategy, some of your audience will appreciate getting a good chunk of information delivered at once. Done well, a newsletter can be a great content marketing technique for reaching out to that audience. Here are a few things you’ll want to think about before you start publishing your newsletter. The Big Picture & the Audience Voice: Who’s talking in this thing? Goals: A newsletter that attempts to make a hard drive at generating sales will appear radically different from one that tries to inform an audience about company news. Timeline: Be realistic about how often you can publish. Recommended for YouWebcast: The Key Social Media Trends for 2015 Style: Just as your writing has a voice, the appearance of your newsletter should have a unified visual style. The Meat

Peter Pronovost The damage that the human body can survive these days is as awesome as it is horrible: crushing, burning, bombing, a burst blood vessel in the brain, a ruptured colon, a massive heart attack, rampaging infection. These conditions had once been uniformly fatal. Now survival is commonplace, and a large part of the credit goes to the irreplaceable component of medicine known as intensive care. It’s an opaque term. Specialists in the field prefer to call what they do “critical care,” but that doesn’t exactly clarify matters. The difficulties of life support are considerable. But the emergency technicians continued CPR anyway. After six hours, her core temperature reached 98.6 degrees. First, her pupils started to react to light. What makes her recovery astounding isn’t just the idea that someone could come back from two hours in a state that would once have been considered death. On any given day in the United States, some ninety thousand people are in intensive care. “I need to get out!”

Push, push, push. Expanding your comfort zone. I’m 40 meters underwater. It’s getting cold and dark. It’s only the third dive in my life, but I’m taking the advanced training course, and the Caribbean teacher was a little reckless, dashing ahead, leaving me alone. The next day I’m in a government office, answering an interview, raising my right hand, becoming a citizen of Dominica. I’m in a Muslim Indian family’s house in Staten Island, washing my feet, with the Imam waiting for my conversion ceremony. I’m backstage at the TED Conference, about to go on, but I can’t remember my lines. I’m alone on a bicycle in a forest in Sweden. We’re in a filthy dorm-room apartment in Guilin, China, studying at the local university. The India Embassy official hands me a pseudo-passport that says I am now officially a “Person of Indian Origin” - a pseudo-citizen of India. I’m in the back of a truck in Cambodia, soaking wet, hitching a ride back to Phnom Penh after an all day bike ride. We’re in a hospital in Singapore, having a baby.

Kim Scheinberg's answer to Apple Inc.: How does Apple keep secrets so well? - Quora - Aurora Thinking like a genius: overview Thinking and recall series Problem solving: creative solutions "Even if you're not a genius, you can use the same strategies as Aristotle and Einstein to harness the power of your creative mind and better manage your future." The following strategies encourage you to think productively, rather than reproductively, in order to arrive at solutions to problems. "These strategies are common to the thinking styles of creative geniuses in science, art, and industry throughout history." Nine approaches to creative problem solving: Rethink! Exercise #2 illustrates how famous thinkers used these approaches. Exercise #1: illustrates applications of the nine approaches. Text of exercise:Nine approaches to creative problem solving: Rethink! Thinking and recall series

The Power of Questions "Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves... Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer." -- Rainer Maria Rilke Management experts like Peter Senge and others suggest that dialogue involves balancing inquiry and advocacy. In the inquiry dimension of dialogue, we seek to understand what is true for others or real for the group. In the advocacy dimension, we offer our own perspective as a contribution to the "group soup." Some therapists and social change activists take inquiry further. Active inquiry involves shared exploration towards shared understanding, and so exemplifies co-intelligent dialogue. In active inquiry, questions play a different role than they usually do. Below are some excellent resources on powerful and generative questions: Questions for reflection about the 911 attacks - written the day after the attacks happened See also

Cool Dude Stuff The science behind what motivates us to get up for work every day 2.6K Flares 2.6K Flares × The following post is a guestpost by Walter Chen, founder of a unique new project management tool IDoneThis. More about Walter at the bottom of the post. So, here is the thing right at the start: I’ve always been uncomfortable with the traditional ideal of the professional — cool, collected, and capable, checking off tasks left and right, all numbers and results and making it happen, please, with not a hair out of place. An effective employee, no fuss, no muss, a manager’s dream. I admit that I’ve never been able to work that way. Feelings provide important feedback during our workday. What does emotion have to do with our work? It turns out, quite a lot. Psychologists Teresa Amabile and Steven Kramer interviewed over 600 managers and found a shocking result. 95 percent of managers misunderstood what motivates employees. “The larger the monetary reward, the poorer the performance. – money doesn’t motivate us, at all, instead emotions do.”