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10 Things To Stop Caring About Today

10 Things To Stop Caring About Today
Every day is a new beginning. But in life, sometimes you have to stop before you can truly begin. So starting today… Stop caring about everyone’s opinion of you. For the most part, what other people think and say about you doesn’t matter. When I was younger I let the opinions of my high school and early college peers influence my decisions. Unless you’re trying to make a great first impression (job interview, first date, etc.), don’t let the opinions of others stand in your way. Stop caring about being politically correct. I had a discussion with a friend yesterday about censorship and how speaking a certain way simply to please others contributes to the loss of one’s true inner voice. Everyone has this little watchdog inside their head. Remember, the watchdog is just a watchdog, he just watches. No, you should not start randomly cussing and acting like a fool. Don’t censor yourself. Stop caring about looking a certain way. There is no right way to dress or right way to wear your hair. .

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