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How To Give A Good Compliment

How To Give A Good Compliment
If you see a lot of posts about communication at Life Coaches Blog, it’s not because I’m good at it, but because I was a real social nerd (some of my friends will say I’m still one :P). More than a few people who’ve seen me speak have been surprised, but I’m an introvert by nature and an extrovert by training. I’ve had to pick up these skills to overcome my awkward social skills and that’s why I like to share what I’ve found to work, and what I want to learn more about. Here’s something I’ve found to help me open up conversations, give people a lift, and raise my self-esteem at the same time. How To Give A Good Compliment There’s nothing like a warm, sincere compliment to make your day. 1) Make your compliment specific. “That necklace looks really good on you” makes a bigger impact compared to “you look really good today”. 2) Back up your compliment. Don’t just stop at “that necklace looks really good on you”. 3) Ask a question with your compliment. Featured

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