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The dark side of the moon - Life with a Porn Addict We've just had yet another argument over his use of porn, and I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm going insane with so many conflicting thoughts and emotions inside my head: anger, betrayal, love, compassion, self-loathing, fear, misery… will I lose my mind first, or my relationship? Why am I not good enough for him? I've tried to tell him so many times how I feel about it, hoping he might do something to change. I thought he had really got rid of it last time. I never thought I was that ugly, that I was undesirable, but I guess I must be – all he wants to look at is women who don't look anything like me. I found out this time because I had to use his computer: ignorance may have been bliss. When I confronted him it all got turned around and it seemed like I was the one with the problem. It's not FAIR! He said he went back to it the last time because he was angry at me.He was angry at me. Well, I have done I guess, by taking it. Who can I turn to? I love him.

YouBeauty - The Science of a Beautiful You imgfave - amazing and inspiring images Style News - Home & Garden - Dining & Wine - T Style Magazine - Weddings and Celebrations What is Tantric sex? Dr Gabrielle Morrissey fields an interesting question from a reader on the practise of Tantric sex. (Q) I'm in a new relationship that's only a few months old. We waited a month before we became sexually intimate and, while I think the sex is great, I think my boyfriend must be bored already because he suggested to me that we try Tantric sex. (A) First of all, it's not a bad sign that your boyfriend wants to be creative, varied and imaginative in bed with you. Couples who can share themselves sexually should be able to talk about sex, at least to some degree, within their values and comfort level. Tantric sex is all about connection and intimacy. Tantra and its origin are somewhat debated because it is so ancient, but many experts agree that it is an eastern science of spiritual enlightenment that has been around since the seventh century. From the beginning the emphasis has always been on the spiritual element of sex, rather than the physical.

(1) Tumblr Fashion News, Celebrity Style and Fashion Trends - HuffPost Style Top 5 Sexual Fantasies (Infographic) 0 Shares Facebook 0 Twitter 0 Google+ 0 Pin It Share 0 0 Shares × Are things getting a little dull in the bedroom lately? Ever wondered what your partner is secretly lusting after as both of you get ready for that passionate date… on the bed? Let’s get romping! comments the TUTORIAL: THE KNOT-SO BRAIDED BUN 24K+ We love love buns! They are easy and super fun when you can get it right. I personally love a messier bun but it always starts falling apart at the wrong time. With this bun you can rest assured it won't be going anywhere but you can still achieve a messier not-so-put together bun. Read on to see how we did it! First, put your hair in a ponytail in the place where you want your bun to be. Braid your ponytail and secure with a clear elastic. Pull your braid forward. Pin down the top of the braid to your head right above the elastic holding your ponytail. Roll the end of the braid inward. Pin down the braid underneath the elastic holding your ponytail. You will need to pin your hair down to your head around the ponytail. This picture shows all the places we put bobby pins. And then you are done!

Remodelista: Sourcebook for Considered Living The Art of The Deal: Becoming a Skilled Negotiator in Your Key Relationships - Dr. Joy Davidson Even the best of relationships cries out for fine-tuning now and then. Whether you’re hankering for changes in a friendship, business partnership or marriage, developing top-notch negotiating skills will help keep your relationship fresh and on track. Let’s say that an issue has been bugging you for a while and you want to approach your partner about making some changes. This series of steps, divided into four phases, will enable you to address the problem smoothly, and engage your partner’s cooperation as you seek solutions. WIN-WIN NEGOTIATINGPhase 1: DO YOUR HOMEWORK 1) Evaluate Yourself: This is a private process in which you write down feelings that have brought you to the point of wanting to make changes in your relationship. 2) Define the Problem: What do you want to do to solve it? 3) Consider your partner’s point of view: What objections might your partner have to each of the items you wrote down in step 2? Phase 2: INVITE PARTICIPATION Phase 3: TAKING STOCK

Sexuality And Relationship Advice Resources • Cyndi Darnell. Sex Therapy, Counselling & Relationship Coach. Melbourne & Sydney Australia Pleasure Forum Australia A bit like book club, but we talk about sex. Monthly adult to adult sex and sexuality forum in a carefree, sleaze-free environment. Institute of Somatic Sexology Our teaching involves a variety of instructive modalities, including breathwork, touch, erotic massage, pelvic release bodywork, scar tissue remediation, and Orgasmic Yoga coaching. Queer Hearted Adventures in queer sexuality, love and joy. Barbara Carrellas One of my first sex teachers and greatest mentors. Bliss for Women Australia’s first erotica store for women owned by The Age’s resident sex columnist Maureen Matthews. Minus 18 Excellent sexuality resource for queer youngsters just starting on their sexual journey. Scarleteen One of the best online sex education sites in the world for young people. Sex Etc US based teen sex info website. Catherine Deveny Author, columnist, speaker, renegade, comedian, and all round great lady. Tristan Taormino Feminist sex author, educator and film maker Website Credits

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