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0_CARTES Un article de Wikipédia, l'encyclopédie libre. La gestuelle des doigts et des mains constitue un véritable langage. Si la signification de certains gestes est universelle, beaucoup de gestes conscients et délibérés ne peuvent , en revanche être compris que si on sait dans quel pays on les trouve. Lorsque la gestuelle est associée à un objet, on parle d'un « geste manipulateur ». Main d'une sculpture de bouddha Gestes conscients[modifier | modifier le code] Applaudir[modifier | modifier le code] Des gens applaudissent. L'applaudissement (battre des mains) marque la joie et l'enthousiasme. Wagner avait interdit les applaudissements à la fin de Parsifal. Dans les civilisations orientales, la personne applaudie se joint aux applaudissements du public.Cet usage se répand en Occident, et peut être compris comme une marque de prudente modestie dans le cas de grands artistes, ou comme de la flagornerie (dans une émission de télévision, à une heure de grande écoute). Pour l'obtenir, il faut :

How to Detect Lies - body language, reactions, speech patterns Interesting Info -> Lying Index -> How to Detect Lies Become a Human Lie Detector (Part 1) Warning: sometimes ignorance is bliss. After gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you. The following deception detection techniques are used by police, forensic psychologists, security experts and other investigators. Introduction to Detecting Lies: This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions. This is just a basic run down of physical (body language) gestures and verbal cues that may indicate someone is being untruthful. If you got here from somewhere else, be sure to check out our Lie Detection index page for more info including new research in the field of forensic psychology. Signs of Deception: Body Language of Lies: • A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact. Bored?

How To Create A Morning Routine That Changes Your Life Through high school and the first years of college I always had problems sticking to habits and getting things done. I can still remember sleeping in and postponing or canceling all the stuff I knew in my heart I needed to do to accomplish my goals. During one year at university I procrastinated so badly on my reading, instead prioritizing sitting inside and playing Football Manager most of the days. When exams came around I knew I had no chance of passing them and therefore had no point showing up. I was ashamed of my lack of willpower and for my lack of purpose in life. I knew that I could do better and I was getting increasingly more worried that I was going to continue down this path of self destruction. No purpose, no will power, and a constant fear of giving up on my dreams and instead getting a job I did not want to have. One of the main culprits for those years with failures and not accomplishing a damn thing was how I started each day. Examples of this can be:

Non-Verbal Communication Tools: Video Series Presented by Tracy Goodwin Share There is only one chance to make a first impression. Learn the many facets of non-verbal communication and how it affects everyday life from a communications and public speaking expert in this free relationship building video series. Series Summary Romance may not be an old concept in Western civilization. Listing 1-9 of 9 videos Non-Verbal Communication: Eye Contact Avoidance Avoiding eye contact in non-verbal communication makes building a relationship difficult. Non-Verbal Communication: Eye Contact In non-verbal communication, a person making more than 60 percent eye contact shows more interest in a conversation. Non-Verbal Communication: Illustrators Illustrators are body movements that go with words in non-verbal communication. Non-Verbal Communication: Paralanguage In non-verbal communication, paralanguage is the tone of language being used. Non-Verbal Communication: Positive Touch Non-Verbal Communication: Emblems Non-Verbal Communication: Playful Touch

Body Language Table Of Contents Introduction 1. Understanding Body Language Basics In the Beginning ... 2. How to Detect Openness Intentional Use of the Palms to Deceive The Law of Cause and Effect Palm Power Our Audience Experiment An Analysis of Handshake Styles Who Should Reach First? 3. Smiling Is a Submission Signal Why Smiling Is Contagious How a Smile Tricks the Brain Practicing the Fake Smile Smugglers Smile Less Five Common Types of Smiles Why Laughter Is the Best Medicine Why You Should Take Laughter Seriously Why We Laugh and Talk, But Chimps Don't How Humor Heals Laughing Till You Cry How Jokes Work The Laughter Room Smiles and Laughter Are a Way of Bonding Humor Sells The Permanent Down-Mouth Smiling Advice For Women Laughter In Love Summary 4. 5. 6. How the Hands Talk On the One Hand... 7. 8. 9. Personal Space Zone Distances Practical Applications of Zone Distances Who Is Moving In on Whom? 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. How Well Can You Read Between the Lines?

These 15 Small Lifestyle Changes Will Improve Your Life Today We’ve all been there at one point in our life. We are stuck in a rut or been living a life that we know we can make more of. Problem is going about the right changes to make those improvements. It is not an easy road but with these 15 small lifestyle changes, you can get out of your rut and improve your life today. 1. The Twenty Minute Rule In today’s world, we want news fast and information now. Most of us think that these are great ways to unwind until they occupy not minutes but hours of our time. Instead of gluing yourself in front of the TV, take twenty minutes to try one of the following: Read a bookWrite an article or blogLearn a foreign languageMeditate If these don’t suit you, find something that will encourage your personal and professional growth. 2. Life is full of numerous situations involving gray areas. 3. Running is not only good for you, its free. 4. You know who you are. As much as you like the taste of Diet Coke to get you through the 2 p.m. wall, soda is terrible for you.

A Gadget For Teaching People To Master Body Language Who is really confident about their posture and mannerisms? Beauty queens and the intoxicated. The rest of us trudge through life hoping we aren’t standing like we were in that one picture. Ugh, don’t be nice about it. You know the one. RISR is a concept designed by Ludwig Zeller and Kjen Wilkens as part of a government-funded project at the University of Applied Sciences and Arts Northwestern Switzerland. “While having spoken to colleagues and friends it became clear, that almost everybody seems to want to improve their appearance and that hardly anybody seems to be really confident about themselves in front of other people,” Zeller tells Co.Design. But where RISR ups the ante from a simple posture suit is in its front-facing 3-D IR camera, a sort of Kinect that you wear, aimed at the world around you to analyze the body language of others in real time. Of course, there are other possibilities here, too. I’m going with a big “yes” on that one. Read more here. [Hat tip: Technabob]

How to Better Yourself There are so many things in your life that you want to get better at, but for some reason you keep falling short of your own (an other’s) expectations. Why is that? The problem is that we tend to try to better ourselves all at once, rather than concentrate on one important thing at a time, allowing ourselves to build up momentum over months and years. One day at a time turns into a lifetime of change and getting better. We can eventually become a better overall person if we have a day to day plan and stick to it. Here is how to better yourself, one day at a time. Identify your strengths and weaknesses First, to better yourself on a consistent basis, you have to identify your strengths and weaknesses. Make a list of your strengths and weaknesses. SEE ALSO: 42 Practical Ways to Improve Yourself Pick a topic to work on Now that you have a list of things that you are strong and weak at, go through the list and choose one simple thing you want to get better at. Wake up early Be accountable

Are You Making a Good First Impression? Yahoo editors have selected this article as a favorite of 2013. It first ran on Yahoo Shine on Feb. 6 and was one of the most popular stories of the year. The story breaks down how to make a good first impression in five easy steps - from body-language tips to wardrobe suggestions. Five surprising ways people judge you when they first meet youWhen you meet someone for the first time or simply pass a stranger on the street, it's human nature to make assumptions about them: He's conceited and lazy, she's rich and friendly, that little girl is a huge brat. And you may have wondered what people think of you the first time they lay eyes on you. "When it comes to appearance, how you put yourself together matters more than being conventionally pretty," says Brandy Mychals, author of How to Read a Client from Across the Room (McGraw-Hill, 2012). Some of the ways others come to those opinions aren't what you may expect. 1. RELATED: Hello Gorgeous! 2. 3. 5. by Jené Luciani

How to motivate yourself Do you know what most motivational “experts” hope you’ll never find out? The stuff they teach is total BS. When was the last time a motivational poster changed your life? (“You know what, yes, I WILL dream a little bigger today!”) Does seeing this on your newsfeed help you reach your goals? Never. How motivation actually works Motivation comes in waves. But then, tomorrow comes. We sit down in the same place we sat yesterday — where we were on fire and ready to go and… nothing. That is how motivation works. What can we do instead? One of my mentors, BJ Fogg, who runs the Persuasive Technology Lab at Stanford, says we should assume that our “future self” is going to be lazy with no motivation. In other words: Motivation DOESN’T work. Here’s how to use systems to keep yourself going even when motivation slumps. Step 1: Plan for failure Successful people aren’t luckier than most people. Almost anyone who’s been successful has a similar story of failure before triumph. Step 2: Put it on your calendar

25 Acts of Body Language to Avoid Our body language exhibits far more information about how we feel than it is possible to articulate verbally. All of the physical gestures we make are subconsciously interpreted by others. This can work for or against us depending on the kind of body language we use. Some gestures project a very positive message, while others do nothing but set a negative tone. Most people are totally oblivious to their own body language, so the discipline of controlling these gestures can be quite challenging. Most of them are reflexive in nature, automatically matching up to what our minds are thinking at any given moment. Nevertheless, with the right information and a little practice, we can train ourselves to overcome most of our negative body language habits. Practice avoiding these 25 negative gestures: “ I speak two languages, Body and English. ” — Mae West Holding Objects in Front of Your Body – a coffee cup, notebook, hand bag, etc. Want to know powerful, dominant, confident body language postures?

Overcoming Procrastination : 3 Unconventional Tips That Work “Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt” — William Shakespeare1 There’s this Dutch survey that says 95% of people are chronic procrastinators. I think the other 5% are liars. EVERYONE procrastinates sometimes. "How do I get over my bad habit of procrastination?" That question - or some variation of it - is one of the most common queries about the topic of productivity ... We’ve all got our own little reasons for procrastinating… I've got this make-it-or-break-it project to work on right now... And it goes on and on ... Some of us can jump off the procrastination train and get to work immediately ... The vast majority however, end up flying into a shiny but non-essential task like a moth in a bright room... Any of the above sound familiar? If yes, then stay with me ... because you, my friend, are about to learn some very unconventional (and super powerful) methods for getting over procrastination. But we'll talk more about that in tip #2. #1.