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Guest Blogger Starling: Schrödinger’s Rapist: or a guy’s guide to approaching strange women without being maced

Phaedra Starling is the pen name of a romance novelist and licensed private investigator living in small New York City apartment with two large dogs. She practices Brazilian jiu-jitsu and makes world-class apricot muffins. Gentlemen. Thank you for reading. Let me start out by assuring you that I understand you are a good sort of person. So far, so good. Now, you want to become acquainted with a woman you see in public. “But wait! Well, no. So when you, a stranger, approach me, I have to ask myself: Will this man rape me? Do you think I’m overreacting? I don’t. When you approach me in public, you are Schrödinger’s Rapist. Fortunately, you’re a good guy. To begin with, you must accept that I set my own risk tolerance. The second important point: you must be aware of what signals you are sending by your appearance and the environment. This means that some men should never approach strange women in public. Are you wearing a tee-shirt making a rape joke? Pay attention to the environment. Yeah.

Every Street Should Be a Safe Space Whether it's getting catcalled or being told to smile, almost every woman deals with street harassment. But it took until this summer to stage the first-ever international conference on street harassment, which took place over the weekend of July 25th at New York University. Grassroots anti-street-harassment group Hollaback organized the event, welcoming community organizers, nonprofit members, and just plain angry folks to share histories and to air out grievances about everyday sexual harassment. It's clear that at the end of the event that street harassment is all about ownership of space. To deal with street harassment, many of the speakers discussed creative ways to redefine public spaces to work for them, from speaking up calmly to taking up breakdancing. That example comes from Rokafella, a Puerto Rican b-girl goddess, who said she started breakdancing to discourage dudes from bothering her while out. Want the best of Bitch in your inbox?

Measuring the Evolution of Contemporary Western Popular Music : Scientific Reports To identify structural patterns of musical discourse we first need to build a ‘vocabulary’ of musical elements (Fig. 1). To do so, we encode the dataset descriptions by a discretization of their values, yielding what we call music codewords20 (see Supplementary Information, SI). In the case of pitch, the descriptions of each song are additionally transposed to an equivalent main tonality, such that all of them are automatically considered within the same tonal context or key. The dataset contains the beat-based music descriptions of the audio rendition of a musical piece or score (G, Em, and D7 on the top of the staff denote chords). Full size image (297 KB) We first count the frequency of usage of pitch codewords (i.e. the number of times each codeword type appears in a sample). (a) Examples of the rank-frequency distribution (relative frequencies z′ such that ). Full size image (374 KB) Codeword frequency distributions provide a generic picture of vocabulary usage.

Aaron Karo presents Ruminations.com Rehtaeh Parsons, Amanda Todd et la culture du viol Hier, deux hommes de 18 ans ont été arrêtés dans la région d’Halifax, en lien avec les événements entourant le suicide de la jeune Rehtaeh Parsons, survenu en avril dernier. Pour ceux qui auraient loupé l’affaire Rehtaeh Parsons, un bref rappel. En novembre 2011, la jeune Rehtaeh, alors âgée de 15 ans, aurait été agressée sexuellement par quatre garçons, lors d’une soirée « entre amis ». Des photos de l’agression ont ensuite été publiées sur Internet. Dans les mois qui ont suivi la publication des photos, la jeune fille a subi intimidation et harcèlement, jusqu’à ce qu’elle n’en puisse plus et se pende. Elle aura été, à proprement dit, humiliée et bullyée à mort. Or, les deux hommes interpellés hier n’ont pas été inculpés pour agression sexuelle. La mort de Parsons a suscité une véritable onde de choc, partout au Canada. Dans le cas d’Amanda Todd, il n’était pas question d’agression sexuelle, mais bien de harcèlement pur et dur, à caractère sexuel. Mission accomplie.

VG Emulation for Newbies > Kega Fusion Tutorial About Kega Fusion This tutorial is to help you with Kega Fusion. It was written by the famous Steve Snake. He created the famed emulator KGen in 1997. It wasn't long before his emulator developed a great game compatibility rate, becoming one of the great emulators that popularized video game emulation. *If you would like to download Kega Fusion, I have it in my emulators page. Extracting & Placement I suggest you make a new folder called "Genesis" within a folder called "Emulation". Back to top First time tip Upon opening Kega Fusion for the first time, you'll be greeted by the "Kega Fusion First Time Tip". 1. 2. 3. Setting up the keyboard or gamepad 1. 2. 3. 4. Loading a game Click on the File menu and click on the type of game you want to load (as shown to the right). Remember, it's important to click on the correct Load. *Loading a Sega CD game is a different ball park and has some strings attached. Full screen mode To blow up the game to full screen, go to Video then Full screen. 1. 2. 1.

I was raped at 55. Here is how I responded. Photo by Terry Vine/Stone/Getty Images Angie Epifano , the woman who was raped last fall at an Amherst fraternity party, reported that she could hear her friends having fun in the next room as she endured the ordeal. I mentioned this to a friend of mine recently, and she wondered why Angie hadn’t banged on the wall or yelled for help. I didn’t scream or fight, either, when I was raped in my own bed at the age of 55. Even if the man who raped me had not held a knife and I’d heard nothing of his other attacks, I’m 99.9 percent sure I wouldn’t have fought. “You talk too much,” he barked at me, then imitated a whining baby, “Na, na, na, na.” This taunting did not make me angry. We are all different; still, every woman I know, from the moment she’s learned such a thing can happen, dreads being raped. Before the trial, the judge mandated that I talk to a court-appointed psychologist to assess whether I’d been damaged by the attack. As a society, we subliminally hold ancient prejudices.

How to copy text from any Window or Program Software? There is no way you can copy text from places like this You can copy text easily in Windows using the Crtl+C or Ctrl+Insert key combination’s, but the above commands only work in certain text areas, but what if you want to copy text appearing in ‘Getting started’ Tab of Microsoft Word ? certainly you won’t be able to select the text , you can’t highlight it. the above mentioned commands won’t work here. But hey wait, actually you can copy text from this place, or any place for that matter, let me tell you how 1) Install a OCR reorganization software , the one I used is ‘capture text’, It can be downloaded from capturetext.com , you get a free 21 days trial, so no worries 2) After installation its blue icon will appear in you windows task-bar, click on icon to start copying text, after clicking your mouse cursor will change to a cross hair 3) Move the cursor to the place/Window from where you want to copy text and select the area from which the text has be to copied Related posts:

Every Street Should Be a Safe Space Whether it's getting catcalled or being told to smile, almost every woman deals with street harassment. But it took until this summer to stage the first-ever international conference on street harassment, which took place over the weekend of July 25th at New York University. Grassroots anti-street-harassment group Hollaback organized the event, welcoming community organizers, nonprofit members, and just plain angry folks to share histories and to air out grievances about everyday sexual harassment. It's clear that at the end of the event that street harassment is all about ownership of space. To deal with street harassment, many of the speakers discussed creative ways to redefine public spaces to work for them, from speaking up calmly to taking up breakdancing. That example comes from Rokafella, a Puerto Rican b-girl goddess, who said she started breakdancing to discourage dudes from bothering her while out. Want the best of Bitch in your inbox?

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