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Men Can Stop Rape - Mobilizing male youth to prevent men s violence against women

Men Can Stop Rape - Mobilizing male youth to prevent men s violence against women

7 Terrible Abuses Suffered By Women Around The World Crime NOTE: Some readers may find the text and images on this list disturbing. For most of our readers, the biggest troubles in their lives are petrol prices, long working hours, and increasing food costs. For many women in the world, these are the least of their concerns. Terrible atrocities are committed against untold numbers of women around the world every day and for most of these women, justice will never be served. This is a list of the worst of the atrocities. Bride kidnapping is a common practice in Kyrgyzstan and Turkmenistan. Honor Killing is a punitive murder, committed by members of a family against a female member of their family whom the family and/or wider community believes to have brought dishonor upon the family. Bride Burning is a form of domestic violence practiced in parts of India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and other countries located on or around the Indian subcontinent. Acid Attacks are a violent phenomena that primarily occur in Afghanistan. Contributor: rushfan

Rape Myths and Facts | Roger Williams University Myth: Rape is caused by lust or uncontrollable sexual urges and the need for sexual gratification. Fact: Rape is an act of physical violence and domination that is not motivated by sexual gratification. Myth: Once a man gets sexually aroused, he can't just stop. Fact: Men do not physically need to have sex after becoming sexually excited. Moreover, they are still able to control themselves after becoming aroused. Myth: Women often lie about rape or falsely accuse someone of rape. Fact: Statistical studies indicate false reports make up two percent or less of the reported cases of sexual assault. Myth: Women provoke sexual assault by their appearance. Fact: Rapists do not select their victims by their appearance. Myth: Sexual assault is a topic that only concerns women, and men do not have to be concerned about sexual assault. Myth: If a woman really did not want to be raped, she could fight off her attacker. Facts About Date Rape * Koss, M.P. (1988). ** Malamuth, N.M. (1986).

Rape Analogy: The “Walking in a Bad Neighborhood” Theory Last week, several commenters on this blog suggested that wearing a short skirt is like walking alone in a bad neighborhood—it's an unsafe behavior that makes women more vulnerable to sexual assault. I live in a neighborhood that has been dismissed by some as a "bad neighborhood." So when I see comparisons to sexual assault that go like this . . . If I’m walking late at night in a bad neighborhood with few people around and someone sticks a gun in my ribs and robs me, I wasn’t asking to be robbed and I wasn’t consenting to being robbed. I was not taking appropriate precautions against getting robbed. I was robbed and as I wish to avoid being robbed, I will endeavor to not put myself in circumstances where a criminal will take advantage and rob me. . . . it is obvious to me that the person floating this little analogy has not considered the reality of the person who cannot avoid these "circumstances." When it comes to sexual assault, every neighborhood is a bad neighborhood for a woman.

USDOJ: Office on Violence Against Women Male Rape Victims And the Penetration Problem In today's Sexist Beatdown, we discussed the reluctance to accept men as victims of sexual assault. Men, according to the Gender Police, are seen as unrapeable—they are constantly expected to pursue sex, and are therefore impossible to violate. Commenter Drew noted another cultural barrier to male victims of sexual assault—our tendency to conflate sexual violation with penetration. He writes: to get into even more touchy territory, maybe the word “sex” isn’t specific enough. Because I’d bet those same (straight) men who have a hard time seeing/admitting a big problem with them being drunkenly led into having obligation/consequence-free sex would probably immediately see the situation very differently if the “sex” turned out to have involved them being on the penetrated end of a sex act (whether with a woman or a man). The idea that rape is classified based on body parts isn't just a cultural thing; it's a criminal thing, too.

RAINN | Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network | RAINN: The nation's largest anti-sexual assault organization.One of “America’s 100 Best Charities" —Worth magazine The International Center for Research on Women (ICRW) | Where Insight and Action Connect

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