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Men Just Don't Trust Women

Men Just Don't Trust Women
It took five months of marriage, eight months of being engaged, and another year of whatever the hell we were doing before we got engaged for me to learn something about my wife. Actually, that’s misleading. I’ve learned many things about my wife in that time period. I learned that she owns both a snuggie and a onesie. And I learned that she’s prone to wearing both of them at the same time. But, there’s one thing in particular that didn’t quite dawn on me until recently. Panama and I were talking about the Rolling Stone story controversy. Trust. This conversation is how, after five months of marriage, eight months of being engaged, and another year of whatever the hell we were doing before we got engaged, I realized I don’t trust my wife. When the concept of trust is brought up, it’s usually framed in the context of actions; of what we think a person is capable of doing. But you know what I don’t really trust? My typical second reaction? My typical third reaction?

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