Overcoming Insecurity in Relationships "I'm driving him away, I just know I am," she sniffed. "It's just that I love him so much and I can't bear the thought of losing him!" Emma had been badly hurt before by her former cheating fiancé. Once bitten, twice shy. Part of her knew that her new man was decent, caring, and honest, but the emotional bit of Emma felt that it was "just a matter of time" before things went wrong. "If he's quiet I actually start panicking! Insecurity spoils relationships. Feeling insecure in a relationship is natural up to a point, at least until the relationship "settles". Relationships: A security issue When we enter an intimate relationship we can feel very emotionally vulnerable; especially if we have felt let down or hurt in previous relationships. Will they reject me? These are the typical thoughts and feelings of the chronically insecure partner. Seeing problems where none exist We perform constant monitoring: "Do they look fed up? 1) Stop confusing imagination with reality 4) Stop 'mind reading'
20 Ways to Say I Love You | Tivate.com First time visiting Tivate? Then make sure you subscribe to the RSS feed before you leave. Thanks for visiting! [article] There’s more ways to say I love you without actually saying it. Sometimes these three words are meaningless unless you couple your words with action. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. NOTE: If you enjoyed this post check out the follow-up 20 “Real Life” ways to say I Love You and 20 ways to Propose. [SU::darrylheron] [sources] “Those three words,” – ashleyRosex on Flickr [Online Images] “sweetheart” – youngdoo on Flickr [Online Images] “Love on Pier 14″ – Red Giraffe on Flickr [Online Images] “a hearty sandwich” – Rakka on Flickr [Online Images] “the healing touch” – drumtoo on Flickr [Online Images] “Lucy wins monopoly” – all the good names have gone on Flickr [Online Images] “Above Pacific” – a3rO on Flickr [Online Images] “19:00″ – Fanny Lafontaine on Flickr [Online Images] “190108″ – vaquerito on Flickr [Online Images] [/sources] [/article]
LOVE. Quotations about love. "Your memory is a monster; you forget - it doesnt. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you - and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!" Be yourself. "But who can distinguish between falling in love and imagining falling in love? Love is when lovers are not together. "For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. "One of love's greatest drawbacks is that, for a while at least, it is in danger of making us happy." "Three words... When the heart dares to speak, it needs no preparation." "She thought about him every now and then, when she was doing anything other than thinking about him. "He circled along in his warm skin, happy again because he was free and because he belonged. "Yes I love him. "Sometimes someone small has a big heart, and has a soul that completes yours, then, you fall in love." more >>> you can get more love quotes on my Nuggets of wisdom/Love page>>>
Flying Quotes - Inspirational Quotes about Flying May you find great value in these inspirational Flying Quotes from my large datebase of inspiring quotes and sayings. When we contemplate the whole globe as one great dewdrop,striped and dotted with continents and islands,flying through space with other starsall singing and shining together as one,the whole universe appears as an infinite storm of beauty.- John Muir Related topics: Inspirational Nature Best-Quotes Old age is like a plane flying through a storm.Once you're aboard, there's nothing you can do.- Golda Meir Aerodynamically, the bumble bee shouldn't be able to fly,but the bumble bee doesn't know it so it goes on flying anyway.- Mary Kay Ash Flying back from New York, the flight attendant said 'God,I wished you were here yesterday, we had a stroke on the plane.I said, if I have a stroke on a plane,I hope the pretend doctor isn't the one on the plane.I want a real doctor.- Anthony Edwards Please sign-up for my Free Inspirational Daily Email on the form below.
Mark Twain Gives Nine Tips for Living an Extraordinary Life - Global One TV by Henrik Edberg Is truth stranger than fiction? Perhaps. In this great article written by Henrik Edberg, we find that Mark Twain had expressed in his writings over the years an entire philosophy for living. If he were around today, it seems he would be on the lecture circuit with the likes of Eckhart Tolle or Wayne Dyer. “Let us live so that when we come to die even the undertaker will be sorry.” “When your friends begin to flatter you on how young you look, it’s a sure sign you’re getting old.” You may know Mark Twain for some of his very popular books like Adventures of Huckleberry Finn and The Adventures of Tom Sawyer. Twain is known for his many – and often funny – quotes. 1. “A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.” If you don’t approve of yourself, of your behaviour and actions then you’ll probably walk around most of the day with a sort of uncomfortable feeling. This can, in a related way, be a big obstacle in personal growth. 2. “Age is an issue of mind over matter.
Quotes about being hurt/giving up. All the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me... You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you. - Walt Disney Don't find fault, find a remedy. - Henry Ford Drag your thoughts away from your troubles... by the ears, by the heels, or any other way you can manage it Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently Have a vision. I just told him, 'Hey, you've got to let it go. Infinite striving to be the best is man's duty; it is its own reward. Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Let him that would move the world first move himself Most people spend more time and energy going around problems than in trying to solve them Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing
Sex Tips - Relationship Advice at WomansDay.com You’ve heard all about the benefits of having sex—it can improve your health, help you sleep and, obviously, strengthen your relationship. And the best way to have more sex is to ask for it. But for some women, that’s easier said than done. It may be because you can’t figure out a way to get the message across, or you’re exhausted, shy or just plain out of practice, says Aline Zoldbrod, Ph.D., sex therapist and author of Sex Talk. No matter what the reason, if you’re not sure how to give your man the hint, read on for nine tips to initiate romance. 1. Sometimes, saying, “I want you, now” out loud can feel intimidating or embarrassing, especially if that kind of talk doesn’t come naturally to you, says Tammy Nelson, Ph.D., a couples and sex therapist and author of Getting the Sex You Want. 2. Between the two of you, come up with a word or phrase that is a secret call for sex. 3. When it comes to summoning sex, getting yourself in the mood is half the battle. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9.
Inspirational Quotes to Live By – Page 4 – Life'd 61. “Cause change and lead; accept change and survive; resist change and die.” – Ray Norda 62. “Defeat is not bitter unless you swallow it.” – Joe Clark 63. “Don’t let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was.” – Richard L. 64. 65. 66. 67. 68. 69. 70. 71. 72. 73. 74. 75. 76. 77. 78. 79. 80. A Better Life In 100 Ways You don’t like your life? Change it! Change your life for the better! Don’t have any clue on how to do it? Here’s a list of 100 ways in which you can improve your life. Feel free to add yours in the comments. [ Update: There is now an ebook based on this! Without further ado, let’s go. 1. You’re human. 2. Maybe you got hurt by somebody. 3. We’re doing a lot of stuff on autopilot. 4. Don’t wait for other people to impose discipline on you. 5. Reach out. 6. Shaking your comfort zone will often create a lot of value in your life. 7. You are, in a vast proportion, what you eat. 8. Write down you feelings, your ideas, your goals, your activity. 9. Whatever you say to yourself in the morning, it will most likely come true during the day. 10. Traveling long distance is incredibly rewarding. 11. Your life may be so boring and fade because… err, you made it like this? 12. Be your own boss. 13. Clean up your desk. 14. Challenge your mind. 15. Rather than disagree. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23.
101 Broken Heart Quotes | LexiYoga Home | Yoga Poses | Yoga Videos | Quotes | Toronto Don't cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won't let you see the stars. Violeta Parra If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it. Anonymous Lips that taste of tears, they say are the best for kissing. Unknown I don't know why they call it heartbreak. If all hearts were open and all desires known - as they would be if people showed their souls - how many gapings, sighings, clenched fists, knotted brows, broad grins, and red eyes should we see in the market-place! Thomas Hardy There are many persons ready to do what is right because in their hearts they know it is right. Marian Anderson Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty - they merely move it from their faces into their hearts. Martin Buxbaum The men who have had the most to give to their fellow men are those who have enriched their minds and hearts in solitude. Joel Hildebrand Love lasts about seven years. Francoise Sagan J. Javan
10 Ways to Make Your Relationship Magically Romantic Creating magical moments in your relationship is something everyone thinks about, but few people do. Perhaps it's because they actually can't think of exactly what to do. Here are ten "acts of love" that you can do with and for your partner to bring a little more romance into your relationship. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. Don't try to do everything on this list in the same weekend, one a month is plenty. Taking the time to create romance in your relationship is paramount to creating a fulfilling love life. Dr. 37 Inspirational Quotes That Will Change Your Life Today we have decided to feature some of the world’s top inspirational life quotes for you to love, share and remember. Quotes are those little reminders that we all need now and then and some are powerful enough to inspire us for the whole week. So here is the beautiful collection of Inspirational life quotes that are loved and highly shared throughout our Twitter & Facebook pages. “Just know, when you truly want success, you’ll never give up on it. “Accept responsibility for your life. “I don’t regret the things I’ve done, I regret the things I didn’t do when I had the chance.” – Unknown “Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” – Joshua J. “Its hard to wait around for something you know might never happen; but its harder to give up when you know its everything you want.” – Unknown “One of the most important keys to Success is having the discipline to do what you know you should do, even when you dont feel like doing it.” – Unknown
Life: 100 Ways To Screw It Up A couple of months ago I wrote a blog post about 100 Ways To Live A Better Life. The post got featured almost instantly on Delicious, Reddit and StumbleUpon. Since then, it gets a few hundreds hits every day and a new comment every once in while (although it’s more than 2 months old now). But re-reading it the other day I spotted a slight imbalance. Couldn’t tell at first what it was, but it was an imbalance. Then it hit me: life is not pink. So, I realized I know at least 100 ways to screw up your life too. [Update: There is an ebook based on this. Without further ado, let’s start: 1. Feel sorry about what happened to you. 2. Even if you know you’re lied. 3. Wrong partnerships may be both personal or professional. 4. Make them “bigger” than you. 5. Daydreaming is good. 6. Because you’re too tired of doing the same stupid things again while you’re awake. 7. 8. If you lost something, act like you’ve lost everything. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. Talk bad about other people. 14. 15. 16. Stay alone.
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