Christian Domestic Discipline - loving wife spanking in a Christian marriage - Home. Hello & Welcome to the Christian Domestic Discipline Network! This website is intended to be a haven for those practicing Consensual Christian Domestic Discipline, and for those who ernestly wish to learn about Christian Domestic Discipline. What is Christian Domestic Discipline? In order to describe to you what is Christian Domestic Discipline, I'd first like to start with what it is not. Christian Domestic Discipline is not domestic violence.
Neither is it abuse. It is an arrangement between two adults who share the belief that the husband is the head of the household and with that position comes the right to enforce his authority. Christian Domestic Discipline is not BDSM. A Christian Domestic Discipline marriage is set up according to the guidelines set forth in the Holy Bible, meaning the husband has authority over his wife within the bounds of God's Word and enforces that authority, if need be, through discipline including but not limited to spanking. Unicorns Are Ace! | A blog about great unicorns. Love from the Asexual Underground. Shades of Gray. Untitled. Asexual curiosities | For the asexually curious and the curiously asexual. Writing From Factor X | Rantings From an Angry Asexual. Asexy beast. HYPOMNEMATA. Big List of BDSM Links. BDSM tutorial - My collar collection. Bondage Tutorial. Bondage is a dangerous activity.
It's one of the few BDSM activities that can actually kill and disable. Recent years have seen a rise in more complicated bondage both in Japanese and western styles, including a lot more partial and full suspensions. While “shibari” used to equal a sloppily tied cotton fishnet harness when I started, nowadays more and more people are doing complex and powerful rope work. This makes it more difficult for DMs to do their job, especially for DMs who are not into rope themselves. As a DM you may now encounter a rope scene way beyond your own skill level, that you will have to monitor and, if something really bad happens, even might need to untie yourself. Also, you may have to deal with that scene from an authority position against someone who knows much more about bondage than you. I've noticed that many DMs struggle with this, often resulting in unnecessary DM actions, erring on the safe side. There´s not much medical advice in it. Lesson1. This is an Educational Tutorial about Sexual Psychology, Fetishes, Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism, as it specifically relates to You and Me in a Sexual Relationship together.
This Tutorial is designed to Teach YOU a good Introduction to BDSM or Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism. The Pics used in this Tutorial are used for Educational Purposes only, I am making no Profit off of this Site, and therefore I used these Pics on the understanding that the Web was first founded as a Medium of exchange for information and Ideas to benefit EVERYONE. If you hold the Rights to any of these pics and you do not want them posted here, Please Contact me and I will remove them immediately. Many of these Dominas shown in these pics are REAL Dominas, not Models, and I know them, I have communicated with them several times. So if you are going to claim you hold the Rights to these Photos you had better be able to Prove it, by having these Dominas call me Directly.
WHY DO WE NEED THIS? BDSM Tutorial. 50 Shades of "Meh." Here's Some Erotica to Read Instead! There's been plenty of discussion recently about the phenomenon that is 50 Shades of Grey. However, since none of us here at Bitch had any desire to read it, we haven't really commented on it yet. Since we've received a few requests from readers for some recommendations on feminist-friendly erotic fiction, though, we thought we'd finally look into 50 Shades, see where it may have fallen short, and recommend some books that do "erotic, amusing, and deeply moving" right. Bitch Media Development Intern Tallina Long jumped on a grenade for us and volunteered to read 50 Shades of Grey.
Her short review? "It was horrible! But there were some pros along with the cons: Pro: "Consent and the importance of seeking consent from your partner. And there were more cons: "Anastasia Steele, the main female character, is the most annoying caricature of a woman since Bella Swan. Christian Grey apparently is only 27 but he read like a much older man. Not pictured: Shades of Grey. This is where you come in. Tutorials – DIY BDSM. Oh, To Be A Woman… | *NOTE* This is a follow up to an earlier post I wrote about being a Black Feminist Sub. Check that out for more thoughts. “I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. -Anais Nin What I am drawn to in this quotation, and why I come back to it, critically, at least once a year, is the strong sense of self-awareness Nin exhibits, as well as the conviction and commitment to this idea of being a woman.
I want to unpack this a bit, because many may wonder “How can this way of thinking be embraced by a feminist?” It is important to me that I live in what I refer to as My Truth. It takes courage, born out of the facing of and overcoming of fear. That’s when trouble arises. It took me a very long time to accept that a woman as strong, intelligent, focused and determined, courageous, ambitious, and outspoken as I know myself to be, could relate to what Nin spoke of in the above quotation. Don’t I want women to have equal rights? BDSM Correlated With Better Mental Health, Says Study. People who are into kinky sex may be psychologically healthier than those who are not, says a new study.
Researchers found that people who were involved in BDSM -- bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism -- scored better on certain indicators of mental health than those who did not bring kink into the bedroom, reported LiveScience. The study, which was published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in May, surveyed 902 people who practice BDSM and 434 people who prefer so-called "vanilla" (non-kinky) sex. Each person filled out questionnaires regarding their personalities, general well-being, sensitivity to rejection and style of attachment in relationships. The participants were not aware of the purpose of the study.
This research isn't necessarily representative of the general population since participants were selected on a volunteer basis, but it does support the argument for removing BDSM from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). Kinky clients, kinky counselling? The challenges and potentials of BDSM. 4AD665D2.pdf. BDSM. The BDSM initialism Fundamentals[edit] A woman is chained to the wall in bondage. A man handcuffed to a bed and blindfolded. BDSM actions can often take place during a specific period of time agreed to by both parties, referred to as "play", "a scene" or "a session". Participants usually derive pleasure from this, even though many of the practices—such as inflicting pain or humiliation or being restrained—would be unpleasant under other circumstances. Explicit sexual activity, such as sexual penetration, may occur within a session, but is not essential.[3] Such explicit sexual interaction is seen only rarely in public play spaces, and it is sometimes specifically banned by the rules of a party or playspace.
The fundamental principles for the exercise of BDSM require that it should be performed with the informed consent of all involved parties. Safety[edit] Safewords are, by definition, not commonly used words during any kind of play. Aspects[edit] Two women tapegagged and cuffed to iron bars. Pacific Center for Sex and Society - Pornography, Rape and Sex Crimes in Japan. The question of how or even if pornography is linked to rape or other sex crimes has been with different societies for many years. In the United States, it was shown that, as far as could be determined by a Commission appointed by U. S. President Lyndon B. Johnson (Pornography, 1970), no such relationship of pornography leading to rape or sexual assault could be demonstrated as applicable for adults or juveniles. Following the idea of the 1970 President's Commission, in 1986 the findings of the United States' Attorney General's Commission were released (Meese, 1986).
Appointed in 1984 by President Ronald Reagan, this commission found, in contrast with the previous Presidential Commission, that: "substantial exposure to sexually violent materials . . . bears a causal relationship to antisocial acts of sexual violence. " In distinction to the Presidential Commission, however, this Attorney General's Commission was politically, not scientifically, constituted. Methods Definitions. Torture and tolerance. Gloria Brame Online | Therapy. BDSM And Feminism: "Stop Telling Me What I'm Supposed To Like, D*mn It." Girl Talk: I Wanted To Be Dominated. I texted him as soon as I woke up. “What do you want me to wear today?”
I brushed my teeth and washed my face while I waited for him to text me back. “White button-down shirt. Tuck it in. Your jeans. Flats. Put your hair in a ponytail. I dressed as instructed, then stood before the wall-length mirror in my apartment’s hallway. Thirty seconds later, a text message: “Very nice.” Ben was not abusive. Ben cheated on his girlfriend with me, I can now clearly see, because he has strong, natural impulses to dominate a woman in bed and his girlfriend, Rachel, wouldn’t let him. So, you can see why I saw an “in” here. I should be clear, though: Ben wasn’t the first guy I’d come across who professed a liking for domination play.
Then I dated Jason* after college and, through my relationship with him, I learned that it wasn’t just spanking that turned me on, it was dominance . It didn’t work out with Jason for other reasons, but he left me with 100 questions: I’m a feminist. BDSM and Feminism: An Insider's View. The debate in feminist circles about BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, or sadomasochistic consensual activity) has raged now for over a decade.
I've read articles and books and seen interviews on both sides of the issue. Last year a collection of essays, Some Women, by women in the BDSM community was published. While my essay dealt with the issue of abuse, most essays reflected the concerns among women in the BDSM community about feminism and other feminists. Likewise, there have been numerous articles and books, such as Against Sadomasochism, written by feminists attacking what they call SM, especially in the lesbian community. Since I have been questioned by both sides and have concerns about miscommunication between them, I will address a few of each group's issues. I believe that the concept of "two sides" is an oversimplification in itself. In general, feminism is often portrayed as a single entity only concerned with limiting women's sexual freedom.
Deconstructing Myths by Andrea Beckmann - JCJPC, Volume 8, Issue 2. By Andrea Beckmann University of Lincolnshire & Humberside The following paper is based on a critical criminological, methodologically mainly qualitative, social research project that I conducted during 1996 and 1997 in London's "Scene" of consensual "SM. " During this time I conducted unstructured, focused interviews as well as participant observations within Scene-clubs that aimed at exploring the "lived realities" of consensual "SM" and its "subjugated knowledges.
" The paper contrasts the major elements of the social construction of "Sadomasochism" that medicalize and pathologize practitioners of this consensual "bodily practice" with some of the findings of my empirical research within the "Scene" that developed around consensual "SM" in London. Dominant discourses and ideologies of "sexuality" as well as of "perversion" established "conditions of domination" (Foucault, 1990) that directly or indirectly produced individual and social harm.
(Califia & Sweeney, 1996: xv) YES! Woman can’t consent to sex while unconscious, Supreme Court rules. OTTAWA—The Supreme Court has ruled that an unconscious woman can't give consent to sex. In a 6-3 decision Friday, the court restored the sexual-assault conviction of a man who performed an unwanted sex act on his female partner in 2007. The case involves a woman — who can only be identified as K.D. because of a publication ban — who was choked unconscious by her common-law spouse.
When she awoke, she found herself bound and being penetrated with a sex toy. The woman told police that she consented to the asphyxiation, but not the subsequent sexual activity. She later recanted. The man was originally convicted at trial of sexual assault but that was overturned by the Ontario Court of Appeal in a 2-1 split decision. Chief Justice Beverley McLachlin, writing for the majority, said a person must be conscious during sexual activity to give consent.
“It is undisputed that K.D.' “Put differently, they aim to safeguard and enhance the sexual autonomy of women and not make choices for them.” Man freed in landmark S&M case. Published: 28 Sep 2010 14:34 GMT+02:00Updated: 28 Sep 2010 14:34 GMT+02:00 A 32-year-old man was on Tuesday acquitted of assault after having violent sex with a teenager in a landmark case testing how much sexual violence is legally permitted in Sweden between consenting partners. The Malmö district court acquitted the man on charges of aggravated assault over a weekend of slave-like sex with the then 16-year-old girl. The ruling is taken as a primary legal indication over whether a girl prone to self-harm is able to consent and submit herself to violent sex. The issue of how much sexual violence is allowed between consensual sex partners had never been heard in the Swedish court system and experts in sadomasochism were called to testify in the hearing in Malmö district court.
The district court noted in its ruling that valid consent can not apply to aggravated assault, which in general can neither afford freedom from responsibility for the perpetrator. First Time For Everything: Getting Spanked. My first spanking was at my 16th birthday party. My guy friends tackled me on the kitchen floor and took turns giving me 16 spanks. And maybe one for good luck. I don’t remember. Once freed, I was livid. And I was totally turned on. By day, I was a women’s studies minor, wrote a weekly feminist column for the student newspaper, and was president of the National Organization of Women on campus. In the years to come, I got some playful spankings, during which I was always twisting, giggling, and trying to get out of it. You could say I was in denial about my spanking fetish.
But my sex drive proved mightier than my hang-ups and spanking became a main course of my sex life—albeit a shameful one—in college. And I was, by a few different guys who, to varying degrees, were down with giving me spankings. When I was 21, right after I graduated from college, I began dating Brandon, a brilliant, charismatic, confident 22-year-old. Not that that stopped us. So You Want to Perform in Porn. If you read that and thought, Why yes, I do want to perform in porn, this is for you. If not, please feel free to read along for potential entertainment value. Or, put the computer down, and go do whatever it is that people do on Fridays. For those of you still interested, the first step to performing is deciding what kind of porn you want to do. See, porn isn't just people with big boobs and giant schlongs in silly setups involving offices and pizza deliverymen. It also isn't just people who are accepting of all body types/sexual orientations and strive to be as ethical as possible.
Nor is it all high-gloss features, intense BDSM scenes, or content made by supposed amateurs. Before I started working in hardcore porn, I thought it was all like John Stagliano’s The Fashionistas. Once you’ve narrowed down what kind of scenes you want to do and what kind of performer you want to be, I recommend taking a minute to rethink the decision of actually doing it.
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