Slave Positions (Techniques 12) Am I Submissive? By lunaKM on November 4, 2009 photo by doug88888 So, you want me to tell you how you can tell if you are submissive or not? Asking someone else if you are submissive is like asking a blind man what color your dress is. Is there some magical online quiz that can say whether you are submissive or slave? No, not the same kind of calling that religion speaks about; but similar. Hearing your inner voice tends to be the hardest thing. It will take soul searching, no doubt about that. Let’s take a look at the following four spaces to help you figure out if you are submissive. Knowing you are submissive will have a mental aspect to it. You may also have a spiritual connection to submission. Connecting to submissive can have an emotional response as well. Lastly when you are submissive you will develop a physical response to Dominance exerted at or near you. Feeling all of these things at one time or another usually means you have a submissive mindset.
Tips on Being a Good Submissive. Deciding to enter a relationship with a dominant is a decision that should not be taken lightly. You may have no doubt that you are a submissive personality, but that does not mean that you will automatically be a good submissive. Being a good submissive involves a certain mindset as well as the ability to discipline yourself. Here are some tips for being the kind of submissive that any dominant would be proud to call his own. 1) Pick a good dominant.
This will be your 1st and possibly the most important decision you will make upon deciding to embark upon a submissive lifestyle. This decision is ultimately yours. Nobody can force you into submission. 2) Know your limits. 3) Submitting means you truly give your all. 4) You do not have to be perfect. 5) Be open with your dominant. 6) Say goodbye to jealousy. 7) Obey your dominant. 8) Realize that a dominant/submissive relationship is not about sex. 9) Respect your dominant.
Are You Cut Out to Be Submissive? From Submissive Guide Newsletter sent 12/7/09 Not everyone is capable of being submissive. It is even possible that you are not really cut out for it. We all have different thresholds for what we can and can’t do, but realizing we can’t be submissive isn’t the end of the world. Great, so how do you know if you can be submissive or not?
First, let me say that the type of submissive I’m talking about here is a relationship submissive; someone who is subordinate in everyday things. A bedroom submissive or a kinky bottom is something entirely different. Anyone, and I mean this, anyone can be a bottom for a short period of time. What I am going to cover is submission on a personality or character level. People develop specific personality traits, that then define if they can be submissive or not. The personality traits I’m talking about are: selfishness and self-importancedomineering behaviormanipulativebratty(!) Selfishness is a very damaging trait to have when you are trying to be submissive.
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