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How to be an INFJ in a world that isn't made for you. Wednesday, December 9, 2015 How to be an INFJ in a world that isn't made for you.

How to be an INFJ in a world that isn't made for you.

Oh, my dear little INFJs. How complex you are! How difficult to explain. Luckily, this advice is for you, which is way easier than trying to define you to someone else. Posted by amy miller at 12:42 PM Email ThisBlogThis! 34 comments: WayfarerDecember 10, 2015 at 7:14 PMI love this! Load more... Newer PostOlder PostHome. 16Personalities. INFJs are likely to find that most corporate career paths are not designed for them, but for those focused on status and material gain.


This doesn’t mean that people with the INFJ personality type struggle to see viable options though. In fact, they are likely to face the opposite problem – many INFJs struggle to begin a career early on because they see ten wildly different paths forward, each with its own intrinsic rewards, alluring but also heartbreaking, because each means abandoning so much else. Portrait of an INFJ. As an INFJ, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you take things in primarily via intuition.

Portrait of an INFJ

Your secondary mode is external, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit with your personal value system. INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types. INFJs place great importance on havings things orderly and systematic in their outer world. INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. The dark side of the INFJ personality type. No one likes to talk about the dark side of the INFJ personality type.

The dark side of the INFJ personality type

INFJs, ENFPs, and the Myers-Briggs Personality Test. 30 Great Small Colleges for INFJ Personality Types. 5 Signs You Are in a Relationship with an INFJ - Yak Max. [INFJ] The Mystic Order Of INFJs. INFJ Masters and LeadershipIt’s been some time since I’ve visited this subject about INFJ Masters and personal development.

[INFJ] The Mystic Order Of INFJs

It’s not an easy topic to share on since life mastery covers many many areas.But if INFJ Masters do have any characteristic, it is the ability to lead through their vision, inspiration and dedication to the cause.INFJs and Forecasting The FutureFrom my experience, INFJs tend to have the ability to forecast the future. By saying this, I don’t mean that INFJs can see what WILL happen in the future, but more towards the ability to see the probabilities of certain events taking place.How Introverted Intuition (Ni) Works for INFJsSomeone has ever asked me to describe how Ni works (Ni being Introverted Intuition).

The best way I can describe how this dominant function in INFJs work is through the following:The INFJ Introverted Intuition (Ni) works to forecast or anticipate the future by taking as many factors into account as possible. Confessions of an INFJ. “To be nobody but yourself – in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else – means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.”

Confessions of an INFJ

(e.e. cummings) While attending DePaul, I worked at the university’s Career Center as a marketing/communications intern. It was there that I first learned of and took the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) assessment. The Struggles of Being An Outgoing Introvert. The Struggles of Being An Outgoing Introvert Being an introvert who is outgoing and social, often comes with a great deal of struggles.

The Struggles of Being An Outgoing Introvert

When you enjoy being social but also require time alone, you often get yourself into awkward situations. 24 Struggles All INFJs can Understand. The introverted intuitive feeler judger is one of the rarest personalities of all.

24 Struggles All INFJs can Understand

Myers Briggs raises this personality up like a humanitarian with prophetic powers. Many Myers Brigg studies ask the question, why are there not more of them when we need them? The shoes are big to fill for the INFJ. Sometimes it can be the most beautiful delicate flower in a dryer than dry desert. INFJ Personality Type: Lover of Beauty & Wisdom. By Dr.

INFJ Personality Type: Lover of Beauty & Wisdom

A.J. Drenth. INFJ Strategies for Dealing with Emotions: Part I. By Cheryl Florus, INFJ As feeling types who are naturally attuned to picking up on other people’s emotions, it may come as a surprise that INFJ’s aren’t always as in tune with their own.

INFJ Strategies for Dealing with Emotions: Part I

That is not to say that they don’t experience their emotions, on the contrary. They just don’t have a system in place to process them efficiently and thus experience them in a controlled fashion. What makes their emotions so difficult to handle at times is the relative lack of an introverted judging function in the INFJ’s functional stack which is able to actively organize their emotions and thus provide a clear overview. INFJ Dating Bible or: How to Date an INFJ. Note: I recently discovered the original website this list went to has been deleted; fortunately, I cached the list.

Here it is. INFJs are, by definition, rare, reserved, and unlikely to initiate anything, which means that many of them can end up alone and misunderstood. To help with things, I’ve compiled a list of points which I think would be of great use to anyone considering dating someone who identifies as an INFJ. For most INFJs, omitting or distorting information is equivalent to lying, and at the very least will rouse their suspicion. The Mysterious INFJ. A critical step in the reliable use of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is verification of type through a dialogue between the individual completing the inventory and the practitioner interpreting the results.

The Top 7 INFJ Problems - Introvert Spring. If you think being introverted in our extrovert-obsessed society is tough, try being introverted AND the rarest personality type in the world. That is exactly what INFJ personality types are up against. INFJs make up just one percent of the population. Because of their rarity, INFJs inevitably face many unique challenges.

Let’s take a look at them, shall we? Overwhelm. Cultural Disasters. They’ve been called a lot of things: The Unicorn, The Special Snowflake, The Oracle, The Protector, The Physic, The Counselor. But whatever you want to call the rarest 1% of the population, it’s hard to deny that they’re the most elusive type among us. In fact, it’s a fairly safe bet to assume that no one is actually an INFJ but in their own deluded, self-aggrandizing minds. MBTI buffs, particularly of the NF variety, love to self-efface from the vague descriptions online and wave the INFJ flag. That’s precisely why, whenever someone who is unfamiliar with the MBTI tool and cognitive functions takes the test in front of me and gets the INFJ result, I take astute interest in them. Would you like a cookie? INFJ User Guide. Congratulations on the procurement your new INFJ! * INFJs are highly sought after in the personality type collecting world given their extremely rare nature.

INFJ spotting is a very difficult hobby, requiring forays into the deepest recesses of bookstores, yoga studios, and the internet. Keeping an INFJ in your life once you’ve found one can be even more of a challenge. INFJ User Guide. Congratulations on the procurement your new INFJ! * INFJs are highly sought after in the personality type collecting world given their extremely rare nature. Top 10 Things Every INFJ Wants You to Know. INFJ User Guide. Things You Should Know About INFJs. It might be terribly self-centered to devote an entire post to my Myers-Briggs personality type, but I’m going to do it anyway (think of it as a birthday present to myself).

As the rarest personality type, we INFJs often feel misunderstood and alone. Most estimates say that less than 1-2% of the population have this type. That’s one reason discovering our label is so important to us (as I’ve written about before). It lets us know that we are not abnormal, flawed humans. We’re perfectly normal INFJs. INFJ: Levels of Friendship. Not long ago, someone commented on my blog and asked, “Is there any way to get just a casual INFJ friendship?”

We INFJs have a reputation for approaching relationships with an all-or-nothing sort of attitude. Either we pour ourselves whole-heartedly into a relationship, or we keep the other person at a distance that might qualify them as acquaintances, but not friends. It’s a stereotype, but like many stereotypes, there’s a kernel of truth at its core. INFJs crave deep connection. INFJ User Guide.