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Consent Accidents and Consent Violations - Charlie Glickman PhD. I was at a discussion group recently and someone shared a term that I hadn’t heard before: consent accidents.

Consent Accidents and Consent Violations - Charlie Glickman PhD

This is a really valuable nuance in the ongoing conversations about consent and nurturance culture because it recognizes that there’s a difference between a consent violation and a consent accident. A consent violation happens when someone chooses to ignore or cross someone’s boundaries. People do that for a lot of reasons, including selfishness, arrogance, not caring about their partner, getting off on harming someone (which is distinct from the consensual experience of BDSM), or being somewhere else on the douchebag-rapist spectrum.

Consent accidents, however, are different because they happen because of error, miscommunication, misunderstanding, or not having all the information. That doesn’t make it less painful. There are some really big challenges for navigating this. A Beginner's Guide to BDSM Munches - A Submissive's Initiative. (Version 1.4, written 8/14/03)Copyright 2003 by Jay Wiseman Author of “SM 101: A Realistic Introduction” Hello and welcome to the munch!

A Beginner's Guide to BDSM Munches - A Submissive's Initiative

Perhaps this is your first munch. Perhaps this is your first BDSM event of any kind. Congratulations for contacting what many of us call the BDSM community (or, more simply, “the scene”). You are on the threshold of meeting many new people, having many new experiences, and both learning and growing a great deal. 1.

Bonding and Spirituality in M/s Relationships – Eric Pride. Service is an essential part of many M/s relationships and provides a natural way to bond between Master and slave.

Bonding and Spirituality in M/s Relationships – Eric Pride

However, most service is task and goal oriented. In other words, the slave receives orders to complete a set of assignments. It is straightforward to measure the success of this type of service, simply by answering the question “was the task accomplished and the goal reached?” Needless to say, the bonding between Master and slave goes beyond the completion of orders and task/goal orientated service. For example, part of the service slaves may provide is service of which the Master is unaware. Master/slave Development Center. Resources and References As part of our commitment to education, we offer a selective list of books, movies, and other resources that we have found to be of value as we created and maintained our own structured relationships.

Master/slave Development Center

We are working towards setting up links that will allow you to make purchases directly from this site. But, for the moment, the best we can do is suppy you with the following list: "Vanilla" Books about Leadership: Developing the Leader within You by John C. The Servant: A Simple Story about the True Essence of Leadership by James C. Obedience to Authority by Stanley Milgram This is a classic psychological study that examines a lot of the factors that create environments in which people will follow those in Authority. Meditation: A Possible Path To Present Submission » Fearless Press. I decided to meditate before a play session earlier this month.

Meditation: A Possible Path To Present Submission » Fearless Press

I had a busy morning. I had some spiritual meetings to attend before I came back to being present for a play session, and since I was hyper-focused on everything going on, short of what I really should have been focusing on, I decided to become present with myself. It’s really not the first time that I have used meditation in my submission. I have used it before, in the past, as a form of pain processing and how I get ready for a session. For anyone who has been told to breathe through the pain, that is a level of meditation, of being present with your partner and what the activity is. For about ten minutes my body went into this calming space. Meditation introduces the concept as “being human”. Category:Primer - BDSM Wiki. Leather Collars by Rapture Leather. CEPE - Printable BDSM Checklist. KinkWorksheet.pdf. Cuffs & Shackles : BDSM Wholesale & Adult Sex Toys Wholesale Online.

Service Notebook - Black by Joshua Tenpenny. The MJOLNIR PULSE VIOLET WAND - Violet Wand Advanced Systems. Advanced violet wand electrosex systems are not for everyone.

The MJOLNIR PULSE VIOLET WAND - Violet Wand Advanced Systems

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You do not need to register when you purchase, but please do, so that we can provide you with full support. Put your violetwand down. We recommend that you start here. When you pick your voilet wand up again after you're done here, it will be transformed. Interested in earning a commission? We take our time because you're worth the time we take. First-Aid and Safety Information. Safety is this responsibility of each person in the scene. Communication, physical and/or verbal, is a must during a scene to assure that the scene is not being taken to a dangerous level. It is your responsiblity to know your play-partner as well as to disclose any medical problems and physical/emotional limitations you have that could lead to complications during a scene. O&P (Ownership & Possession), Master/slave, D/s. Ownership Flag and Ownership Icons.

BDSM Rights, BDSM Symbol, BDSM Rights Flag. The BDSM Rights Flag is intended to represent the belief that people whose sexuality or relationship preferences include Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, or Sadism and Masochism ("BDSM") deserve the same human rights as everyone else, and should not be discriminated against for pursuing BDSM with consenting adults.

BDSM Rights, BDSM Symbol, BDSM Rights Flag

The flag is inspired by the Leather Pride Flag and Quagmyr's BDSM Emblem, but is specifically intended to represent the concept of BDSM Rights and to be without the other symbols' restrictions against commercial use.