Slave & Dom training. Slave Training information, BDSM lifestyle , submission. This is intended to be relationship based on trust between consenting adult. Anything else is abuse and not what this website is about. Torture to obtain submission has no place in the lifestyle and is a violation of law. BDSM play is intended to fall within the scope of the new DSM-5 guidelines by the American Psychiatric Association (APA). The APA ruffly defines what sadomasochism play is not considered mentally dysfunctional. slave training guide & bdsm lifestyle resource focuses on a master using body, mind and soul training to mold his slave. This slave training guide contains many articles that act as a manual related to the training of a slave. This slave training guide is intended to provide information to both a new Master or slave in the BDSM lifestyle or offer food for thought for the experience ones as well.
It should be said, up front, that this slave training guide covers actual slave training, not submissive training. Trust and communication are KEY to training. Training Every Sub/Slave Needs: Michael Krause. Every Master has different needs, wants and or desires. Here is where your focus needs to be. If you want to be the perfect pet, paying attention is your first step.
Sometimes in life its the little touches that tell someone you care. If you stop for a moment and consider why you got into this life, it was probably to feel that complete connection to another human being. For most of us the kinky sex is just a bonus!!! Seriously, you can't be a slave unless you WANT to serve. Each Master shares their desires and need in different ways. A good slave has to think about her shape and appearance. Support his dreams. Surprise him. What Makes A Good Sub? I've been asked this question numerous times. The truth- you ask 100 people, you will get 100 different answers. A lot of it depends on your individual relationship and personality. If you would have asked me this question 6 months ago I would not feel comfortable answering that question. But now that I am more comfortable in my relationship and how our dynamic works, I have confidence in my answer. I know what makes a good sub, at least in my relationship.
See, I happened to be used to what Sir calls micromanaging. Sir and I have been together for a little over a year now. I feel both parties have responsibilities to keep things going when it comes to D/s. For me I have three needs for a D/s relationship. The second thing I need in a D/s relationship is to serve. When we go to events in the community, since we don't have much time to be openly kinky- I take those times to really let my submissive desires out. I really could go on and on but I think I'll stop here. Protocol. Hi there! We'd love for you to enter KinkAcademy.com, but we need to let you know that there might be some nudity and explicit sexuality. Are you 18 or over? And you agree to our Terms and Conditions?
Awesome! Click our logo in the upper left to get your education started. Not yet 18? The information in this website is presented by individuals who speak from their own experiences to provide insight into various techniques that consenting adults can use to explore, expand, or enrich their sexual experience. The information contained in this website is broadly categorized in three parts: Basic Sexuality Skills and Role Play; Intermediate Sexuality Skills and Role Play; Advanced Sexuality Skills, BDSM and Role Play.
The information provided in all the parts is intended for consenting adults interested in exploring and expanding their sexuality by using different techniques and through role plays. Strict adherence to the safety precautions is necessary for safe and appropriate use of each item. Punishment - Submission, BDSM, Dominance, D/s, Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism. For me, believe it or not - punishment is not a major factor of the BDSM lifestyle. Lets take a look at "why" it is not. For starters, punishment comes about from what - disobeying or nor following rules; by not following the expectations of the Dominant; willful disrespect.
As some of you know I live by the philosophy of building a submissive up - not tearing them down. I totally disagree with 101 rules for your submissive, until such a time she can feasibly FOLLOW 101 rules. I tend to state only a couple of rules at the beginning of a relationship and get the submissive following these rules. Once she has gotten these rules down I add a couple more.
So what happens when a submissive meets one of the criteria of punishment? Breaking rules to me happens very rarely and when you have few rules they happen due to bad hair days (not that I consider this an excuse - only an explanation) or just general inattentiveness. Submissive Body Language. Techniques > Using Body Language > Submissive Body Language Body positions | Gestures | See also A significant cluster of body movements is used to signal fear and readiness to submit.
This is common in animals, where fighting (that could terminally harm each animal) is avoided by displays of aggression or submission. Body positions The body in fearful stances is generally closed, and may also include additional aspects. Self-protection Hunching inwards reduces the size of the body, limiting the potential of being hit and protecting vital areas, for example hands covering crotch, or chin pushed down to protect the neck. In a natural setting, being small may also reduce the chance of being seen. Lowering Putting the body in a lower position shows the other person that you are not a physical threat. Even in sitting, a submissive person will choose a lower chair or slump in order to be lower that others. Motionlessness Head Head down Eyes Mouth Gestures Submissive gestures Small gestures See also. Negotiation 101" - by Michael Decker. Slave Positions. For purposes of expedience, not exclusion, this page is written from a Master / female slave perspective.
The slave positions outlined here are common to many different protocols and would be applicable to both male or female slaves alike. Author John Norman did a good job in describing most of these positions in his Gor series of books, and those who practice Gorean protocols will be quick to recognize most of them. However this is not a page about Gorean positions specifically. It is because of the large number of Gorean enthusiasts that have shared information on the Internet about slave positions that the Gorean names for these positions have become well known, and as such, are in common usage outside of less open protocols. Of course, if you don't want to use Gorean terms, you're obviously free to use different names for the various positions as you please. You will notice that in many cases, subtle variations are available that can be used at the Master's discretion. Slave Check List. The process of becoming slave requires several things, including: 1.
Learning complete obedience 2. Accepting being who you are no matter what that is 3. Doing with your life whatever, whoever, whenever you are ordered, forever 4. 5. 6. 7. The person who does the developing has to: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. If any of the above elements is missing, then you are arranging a relationship, not pursuing your destiny as a slave. To decide if you are ready, determine: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10 If you are willing to accept being a non-human creature incapable of committing an immoral act, ever, for the rest of your life. Becoming slave is not a battle of the wills, or of the egos. Before beginning, REVIEW: 1. 2. 3. Only then is it time to arrange the first session.