Worshipping Your Wife. Female Led Relationship: 9. Zusammenfassung. Girl Talk: When (Rape) Fantasy Becomes Reality. Two weeks ago, my gentle and loving boyfriend of three months held me down and forced me to have sex with him against my will, and then told me I had asked for it.
And technically, he was right. Jacob and I had only been dating about a month and a half when I intimated that I had a rape fantasy. Over the years, I’d had my share of experience with role-playing and rough sex. I vividly recall a male friend of mine in college telling me that I had a distinct air of “sexual prey” about me, and me thinking that this was a huge compliment. A Rape Fantasy Gone Horribly Wrong. Please do not read any further if you're offended by discussions of rape, or if they trigger extreme negative memories.
Yesterday, I happened upon this article by way of the following youtube video. Summing it up: Girl discloses her rape fantasies to her loving boyfriend; boyfriend goes through with it; she says it was real rape. Now, I will not participate in the blaming process, which I feel to be rather unproductive, especially since the article was posted over 3 years ago and enough people have done an excellent job of it already (though I admit that it is very tempting). Instead, I would like to point out that virtually all the comments to that article are about assigning 100% of the blame to one side. A Slut's Memoir. Mistress160's Abode. Dreamwalker Sadistic Poet. Bess LaMess.