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The Art of Pickup
It's a complaint I frequently hear from people who set out to become PUAs: "This doesn't work. All that talking is useless. Why should I talk with her for hours, if I don't get laid anyway?" I can see where those guys are coming from - more or less directly from Niceguyland. Hours and hours of talking, and no action whatsoever. You listened to her complaining about that asshole at school for weeks, accumulated quite a phone bill and, by now, you are sick to the stomach from all that negativity that you lapped up... and a few days later, she's blowing the living daylights out of him.
Below is a list of concepts that I picked up (npi) in PU, reframed in a way to actually make them productive and useful: Believe it or not, you are allowed to tease girls. They won't explode, call the police, or otherwise harm you. Instead, they'll like you for your sense of humor. It is fully okay to feel your sexuality as a male, and to behave in such a way as to make it shown. Your gaze is no cause for discomfort.
So, you're desperate for your fair share of action . You don't GET ANY. You want ANSWERS, so you have browsed the web for countless hours . You have AGONIZED over what the heck is wrong with you . And now that you arrived here, at the ONE place where you can find ultimate, absolute, true, final answers, it is time for me to no longer keep you in suspense. It is time to cut TO the chase.
I think that, today, I chased a girl. I knew that I was doing it, and I simply didn't have access to my ability to avoid it. I felt that it made me weaker, and her stronger.
Here’s a nice little collection of the most awesome pickup artist (PUA) forums out there on the internet. If you run a forum would like to be considered for inclusion on this list, or if you want to suggest a forum you think should be included, then email firstname.lastname@example.org with your forum’s address and I’ll take a look. Speak soon, David Black
The Basic Rules The 3 seconds rule - THE most important rule for Pick-up Artists. Look and feel your best - Not rocket science, but a lot of guys need to be reminded. Be the Alpha/Dominant male - Because when you're not, you can only be second best. Do my looks matter?
Average Rating: 5.00 [Total Votes: 4] If a woman tells you she's 26 and looks 26... she's damn near 40." -Chris Rock, "No Sex in the Champagne Room"
Executive summary: NLP is what happens when a few people stick their head together and come up with some inspiring and fun ideas about human psychology, based on their own personal knowledge and experience and the general knowledge of their time - only to then completely fail to test their hypotheses empirically in a methodical way, and instead choose to create a religion, so that the resulting system is completely incapable of adapting and absorbing new scientific findings. Yesterday, an outcry ran through the NLP community. And even though I'm strongly critical of the largest part of that community, I have to admit that, in this case, they are perfectly justified. What happened is that a supposedly(?)
When I first decided to start tackling women and dating as a skill set to methodically improve at the end of 2004, I went into it with three distinct aims: Be a seductive, charming bad boy, Constantly test the limits and push to improve, and Make women feel special. I didn't know exactly what I was doing or how my learning curve would look, but I trusted that as I chipped away at learning the ability to do better with women, I would indeed get it down, as I had a diverse array of other skills. It wasn't until a year later that I found the pick up community. Many parts of it excited me; I couldn't believe there was an entire group of men who'd worked to develop this same skill set too, some much further along than myself.
Click Here To Read This Guide In A More Convenient Format The Following is essentially the stripped-down skeleton of my Outer Game. Later posts in this thread will detail other aspects that will make your game more "solid." I have desgined this to be a practical guide for beginners (or intermediates who seek a simpler, more effective style of pickup) with just the bare essentials in mind. Try to follow this model without overcomplicating it with additional material at first so that nothing will get in the way of you understanding how this is working in the field.
j/k...had to throw in the Fight Club ref.. OK, I am asking for people to CONTRIBUTE. If you are more concerned with your own progress only, and are not interested in giving anything back at this particular time, that is FINE, please discontinue reading this post, as you will be wasting your time to.....READ IT FURTHER....WITH ME (j/k.. Alright, for all newbies and intermediate, (and of course other willing PUAs who happen to be curious): If you would like to be apart of developing a new variation of technique, and not just learning old methods, we will need some FEEDBACK on this ASAP. This will take some level of balls, so if you do not have that mentality then stop reading now.
author: "Mystery" date: Sun, 13 Sep 1998 04:00:00 GMT newsgroup: alt.seduction.fast subject: MISSION for NEWBIES...Now is the time to stop Babe-watching. Get into a fun mood (which I know is hard for the very first girl but you can fake it) and walk up to many girls I undertand that internal challenge many newbies feel. I must deal with many emotions before during and after I go out to meet girls.
As far back as I remember I have been fascinated by Giacomo Casanova and his history of seduction. But what made Casanova so seductive? Let’s find out!