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Fixed vs. Growth: The Two Basic Mindsets That Shape Our Lives. By Maria Popova How to fine-tune the internal monologue that scores every aspect of our lives, from leadership to love.

Fixed vs. Growth: The Two Basic Mindsets That Shape Our Lives

“If you imagine less, less will be what you undoubtedly deserve,” Debbie Millman counseled in one of the best commencement speeches ever given, urging: “Do what you love, and don’t stop until you get what you love. Work as hard as you can, imagine immensities…” Far from Pollyanna platitude, this advice actually reflects what modern psychology knows about how belief systems about our own abilities and potential fuel our behavior and predict our success.

Play Power: How to Turn Around Our Creativity Crisis. The division between work and play is a myth.

Play Power: How to Turn Around Our Creativity Crisis

If America is going to teach its youth to innovate, we need to unite the two. Nearly a decade ago, John Howkins wrote a book called The Creative Economy: How People Make Money From Ideas. Similarly, Richard Florida identified the "creative class" and suggested that innovation would come from a "super creative core. " But somehow, even with this knowledge, we have fallen further behind. According to Newsweek, the United States is in a creativity crisis.

Innovation companies today don't ask and don't care about basic skills, grades, or SAT scores—instead, they want to know if you can brainstorm all the possible uses of bubble wrap. Eighty-five percent of today's companies searching for creative talent can't find it. How Negative Energy Affects Your Life and How to Clear It.

The 'Busy' Trap. Shut Up and Listen. People are talking about empathy more than ever.

Shut Up and Listen

A search of New York Times archives reveals that while the paper mentioned the term in only 18 articles in 1960, the count had risen to 241 by 2000. And in 2013, empathy was referenced 563 times. Last week’s Sunday Review section of The Times even included a piece on empathy and its connection to social status.

9 reasons not having kids is the best decision I ever made. This article originally appeared on AlterNet.

9 reasons not having kids is the best decision I ever made

“What’s your greatest achievement?” That’s such a good question. Does No Kids Equal No Life? Is Sitting a Lethal Activity? Basics - Brain Is a Co-Conspirator in a Vicious Stress Loop. » When Being Who You Are Challenges the Norms. Post written by Leo Babauta.

» When Being Who You Are Challenges the Norms

I believe in shaking up the way things are done. 7 Negative People You Need to Ignore. Email You can’t live a positive life around negative people.

7 Negative People You Need to Ignore

Sadly, some people are so entrenched in seeing the negative side of things that they leave zero room for positive things to grow. Your Lifestyle Has Already Been Designed. Books - One Injury, 10 Countries - A Journey in Health Care - Review. How to Find Your Purpose and Do What You Love. By Maria Popova Why prestige is the enemy of passion, or how to master the balance of setting boundaries and making friends.

How to Find Your Purpose and Do What You Love

“Find something more important than you are,” philosopher Dan Dennett once said in discussing the secret of happiness, “and dedicate your life to it.” Kurt Michael Friese: How to Handle (or Avoid) a Hangover. Chances are you've experienced it at least once -- studies say 75 percent of adults have.

Kurt Michael Friese: How to Handle (or Avoid) a Hangover

One for the Ages: A Prescription That May Extend Life. There's More to Life Than Being Happy - Emily Esfahani Smith. "It is the very pursuit of happiness that thwarts happiness.

There's More to Life Than Being Happy - Emily Esfahani Smith

" In September 1942, Viktor Frankl, a prominent Jewish psychiatrist and neurologist in Vienna, was arrested and transported to a Nazi concentration camp with his wife and parents. Three years later, when his camp was liberated, most of his family, including his pregnant wife, had perished -- but he, prisoner number 119104, had lived.

In his bestselling 1946 book, Man's Search for Meaning, which he wrote in nine days about his experiences in the camps, Frankl concluded that the difference between those who had lived and those who had died came down to one thing: Meaning, an insight he came to early in life. Why Is Flu Common in Winter? The Power of Negative Thinking. Lab-Grown Disks May Cure That Aching Back. Squishy, doughnut-shaped disks can make the difference between a pain-free, active lifestyle or years of back discomfort.

Lab-Grown Disks May Cure That Aching Back

When the disks that normally cushion each vertebra in the spine start to degenerate, due to aging or injury, nerves can be pinched and movement impeded. But degenerating disks may soon be replaceable with bioengineered disk implants grown in the laboratory. A research team has implanted living, biologically based disks into rats' spines and found that they allow for as much movement as native, healthy disks. "This is, in my opinion, in a whole different league than tissues that have been engineered before," says University of Pennsylvania orthopedic bioengineer Robert Mauck, who was not involved in the study. "This is essentially opening the door for replacement of a tissue that's central to humans walking. " The current course of treatment for degenerative disks includes painkillers, physical therapy, and steroid injections to ease inflammation. Basics - Brain Is a Co-Conspirator in a Vicious Stress Loop. Keli Goff: Why Women Shouldn't Want to Have it All.

I knew that Anne-Marie Slaughter's essay "Why Women Still Can't Have it All" had officially become a major cultural touchstone not when it was heralded as the most widely read piece in the history of the Atlantic's website, but when my mother, who still occasionally has trouble finding my own articles via Google, asked for my thoughts on the piece. At that point I didn't have any, since thanks to my travel schedule (and guilt about my own looming writing deadlines), I hadn't had a chance to read it, but at mom's insistence, I have now and here are my thoughts.

My first thought is that Slaughter is to be commended for having the courage to say what many women, particularly feminist women, are afraid to. Namely, that no matter how smart, talented, ambitious or gifted a woman is, there is no such thing as a perfect life, so we should stop aspiring to lead one. Just as important, we should stop perpetuating the illusion that any woman -- or man -- has one. Bruce Feiler: A Father's 10 Lessons for His Daughters.

One of the secrets of parenting is that it's often a very lonely sport. Especially for dads. Our children expect us to be the Answer Man, Mr. Fix It, the Know-it-All. And the truth is we often expect this of ourselves. Maybe our dads played this role for us. Compass Of Pleasure': Why Some Things Feel So Good. 9 Things You Should Stop Doing Right Now. If you want to start living a happy and healthy life, here are nine things that you should stop doing right now: 1. Stop feeling pity or sympathy for yourself because life has become so challenging. 2. Stop allowing yourself to play the “victim” when life doesn’t turn out like you imagined. The 7 vices of highly creative people - Writers and Writing. Newsletter - DO - Back Pain. “As we go about our busy lives we unknowingly put our muscles, joints and bones under strain. This stress can mount up incrementally and result in a serious impact on the body such as a sudden fall or a misalignment of the spine.

Learn to Cope: Even Moderate Stress Can Have Lethal Effects - Alice G. Walton - Life. New research has found that men who have undergone moderate or high levels of stressful life events are at much greater risk of death Most adults have experienced the reality that stressful life events can take a serious toll on health. Not only mental, but physical health can suffer in the wake of major upsets like the death of a spouse, the loss of a job, or divorce. Now, a new study finds that the more stressful life events men weather in middle age or older, the greater the risk of death. Unwind this Weekend! How to (Really!) Recharge. 10 Reasons Why You Should Take A Vacation As Soon As Possible. Are You Living the Life of Your Dreams? An Interview with Author Marilyn Tam. Joe Robinson: The Secret to a Life of No Regrets: Live Before You Die.

Consider a place where people feel guilty if they enjoyed themselves -- because they aren't getting anything done.