Tightlacing 101: 4 Myths About Waist Training with a Corset | The Lingerie Addict. Today’s guest post is by Tristan Risk, aka Little Miss Risk, a burlesque artist for Sweet Soul Burlesque and corsetiere with Lace Embrace Atelier. I had the pleasure of meeting her a few months ago during a weekend jaunt to Vancouver, and I am super excited to publish her guest post about tightlacing and waist training with corsets. If you like what you read here, you can keep up with Tristan Risk on her blog. Little Misk Risk (the author) by Ed Araquel I’ve heard it all: that’s unhealthy, that’s disgusting, why would you do that to yourself, and so on.
At first you may think that people are having an adverse reaction to some kind of crazy surgery or mega tattoo, but the hubbub is actually about a classic piece of lingerie: the corset. As both a corsetiere for Lace Embrace Atelier and a waist trainer, I have had everyone give me their opinion on my lifestyle choices until I thought my ears were set to bleed. 1. I hear this a great deal. The human ribcage has four ‘atypical’ ribs. 2. 3. D/s & BDSM Information- Main. BDSM Play Partner Check List. Main Page - PeterMastersWiki. Kinky Crafts - tribe.net. Diy » ElaineMiller.com. Paw Glove Liners! ∙ Creation by thefelinepunk on Cut Out. Turn your boring glove liners into adorable animal paws! As of today (10.23.10) this project isn't totally finished, but I was so excited I really wanted to share the work in progress. This is especially because I know the final part of this project - actually sewing the felt patches onto the gloves - is going to take a while and be rather annoying and difficult and will result in lots of little needle pokes. :( So basically I'm just modifying a pair of regular old glove liners - like the kind you can buy at Walmart or Target - into cute little animal paws.
Glove liners are actually designed to be worn inside of winter gloves in colder places, but in the Autumn or in milder climates they work fine by themselves. I used Tacky Glue to attach the patches, and once the glue is dry I will attempt to sew them on so they're permanent. When these are done I'll edit this to show how it turned out! Fox Tail...Out Of Yarn? ∙ How To by Kida T. What is Subspace? Subspace is the BDSM term for the special state caused by pain and other strong sensations.
It's not a feeling of great joy or exhilaration, like a roller coaster ride; it isn't even a traditional high. Subspace is a trance: floating, utter calm, peace and tranquility. Hormones, primarily the natural painkillers called endorphins, are thought to induce it. BDSM fiction sometimes confuses subspace with a sub's breathless pleasure of yielding, or the gentle contentment of worship. Those feelings are legit and marvelous, but they aren't subspace. A sub can't get subspace-worthy endorphins from being ordered about by a strong Dominant.
Without pain or physical strain, there's no subspace. There's a good reason for the confusion. There was some hubbub on the Dear Author and teddypig blogs regarding the correct way to write BDSM--subspace included. Her argument is weak. BDSM has universal definitions. For my fictional take on subspace, read My One. Bondage Fetish Store: A-Rider Leather Men's Pants.
Ohio SMART. BDSM Events, Fetish Events, Leather Events, BDSM Groups at The BDSM Events Page. Making Your Own Leather Whip. When I made the decision to make my own leather signal whip, it was some ungodly hour of night, and I had just watched two Youtube videos explaining how to braid 4 to 8 strands in the round. I am sharply reminded of a similar moment, about two years ago, when I was looking up left-handed knitting tutorials on Youtube. These are the patterns that lead to obsessions, which lead to energetic projects in my world. So it was that I could be found one late June night, sitting on my bedroom floor in my pajamas, practicing an eight-strand round braid with some neon pink nylon cord that I had on hand. By the time I woke up the next morning, I was convinced I could braid a leather whip. Days of dedicated research ensued, and I slowly collected the materials I needed: leather scraps generously donated by one of my housemates, #12 lead shot, duct tape, a vise, a utility knife.
Lesson learned. After completing the shotbag, I cut out another tapered piece of leather to wrap around the core. Activity list - PeterMastersWiki. Kinky Sex Link » DIY. Aug 31 Teaching Master Posted by TheSubMission on Friday Aug 31, 2012 Under Uncategorized Teaching Master Tutu! OK, that picture is a little dark, but it was taken at night on Master's iPhone, so it's actually pretty decent.
Anyway, picture aside, Master told me last September (right before we moved) that he wanted me to teach him to sew! He says he was inspired by Project Runway (I used to watch that show a lot, though it's been a while), and he wants to learn. We took the pattern home, I taught him how to cut it out, what all the markings on the pattern meant, etc, and we were both eager to continue. While hanging out with a friend (we'll call her S), she mentioned that she wanted to make tutus.
Jul 22 I recorded myself masturbating for the first time last night. Well, I have been filmed in sexual acts before- but its always been done by other people. However, this changed last night… I had been exchanging text messages with a friend all day in class. May 24 The Cushion May 09 Amazing.. May 07. Baldchick. Sartan's Working With Leather. NOTICE: The pages that follow have relatively large pictures, and lots of them.
This is necessary to communicate on the topic. If you have a slow connection, expect to wait. Also, all images on this site are COPYRIGHTED! I found two of my plan diagrams on someone else's page. Sartan here. As far as I know, Working With Leather is the only site of its kind... a free, comprehensive guide with BDSM leatherworking. If you're planning to do this for the first time, please read the Dear Newbie page, accessible from the link bearing that name above. BDSMWorkshop discussion list on Smartgroups"> Why do people make their own bondage gear, when a whole lot of great stuff is now widely available? This site was initially published on November 2, 1997, with a number of Projects, Tools and Techniques information, and basic Supplies.
The WWL: CDROM Edition is finally done, out, available! I'm also extremely pleased to announce to opening of my new web store, a sister of this site. Bondage. Suspended Bondage Eventually, if you are into bondage, you will decide you want to try standing bondage or especially, suspended bondage. This is a bit more complicated than tying up a prone person. The same safeguards as for general bondage apply. Use rope only if you REALLY know what you are doing. Snap rings are hardware fasteners that will open WITH a weight attached. One danger of suspended bondage centers on the stress that it places on joints when body weight is put on them in unaccustomed way, in inversion positions, or on joints not usually used for weight.
Mostly, as with everything we do, it's a matter of learning HOW to do it correctly and safely, and using common sense. Sparkles33. How to Spank | Sex Toy Playground | Erotica Readers & Writers Association. How to Spank by Good Vibrations Spanking, whether it’s done with a toy or by hand, is something that a lot of people enjoy for many different reasons. Spanking can feel great. The thrill of doing something naughty can be fun. It might be part of a role play or S&M scene. Different Fantasies Before you get started with spanking, it’s a good idea to talk with your partner about what excites you about it. There are plenty of books and DVDs with great information on spanking and we have the best of them on our shelves. Getting Started Before you get started, there are some important safety tips that will make sure that your bedroom fun stays fun. Choose a safeword. If you’re new to spanking, it’s a good idea to focus your attention on the bottom.
Be careful to avoid hitting the tailbone and never hit on the kidneys. Many people find that the sensation of spanking varies along a continuum of sting-thud. You may find that as you get turned on, things start to feel different. Toys or Hands? Safer + Saner Home Page. A BDSM Glossary. Home > Writing > Glossary Age Play -- A role play where one or both partners take personas of people older or younger than they really are. Common examples are Teacher/Schoolgirl, Babysitter/Naughty child. Animal Play – The assumption of the persona of an animal by the submissive, usually in conjunction with some sort of use or training by the dominant. See Pony Play Alternate lifestyle -- An umbrella term for those whose sexuality is not in the common mold. Auction -- An activity that often takes place in BDSM clubs where dominants and submissives are put on auction.
B&D -- Bondage and Discipline. Bastinado -- Striking or whipping the feet with a cane or rod. Bell dancing -- Using temporary piercings as attachment points for bells and other noisemakers and then moving in such a way as to make them ring. Birching -- Striking with single birch rods or bundles of birch twigs. Black snake -- Single tail whip that is flexible throughout its entire length including where the user's hand rests. Ninety Degree Mistake. Home > Writing > Ninety degree mistake Tutorial: 90-Degree Mistake A common misapprehension on the part of many newcomers to the BDSM scene is what I've chosen to call "The Ninety Degree Mistake. " Everyone recognizes that there are continua in almost everything we do in life.
The same is true in the scene. <----------------------------------------------> bad good Naturally, few scenes reach the end points, but most of us try to keep our activities as far to the right as we can manage... occasionally we succeed. A similar continuum lies between mild and intense. <----------------------------------------------> mild intense Some people like to play on the left; some, on the right. However, I become concerned when I hear things like "I'm not a real player; I'm a real wuss" or "Now, he's a great player; you should see how intense his scenes are.
" What the people who say things like this are doing is placing the two continua side by side as if they were related. Family Ties Keynote Address. Home > Writing > Keynote Nonfiction I've been in the scene for quite a while. One of my standing jokes is my first set of nipple clips was made from live trilobites, but in truth, did my first scene in 1964. It's hard for people now to remember what it was like back then. There was no Internet; even its daddy, Arpnet, was only a gleam in the eyes of a few geeks. There were no nonfiction books on how to do this stuff. It didn't help that this was before the days of open stacks in academic libraries.
There were no support groups. The lack of groups and direct contact led to what psychologists call pluralistic ignorance. Still, I was luckier than most. This was my first exposure to what has become known as The Old Guard. Later, I heard about and made a few trips to Hellfire in New York. Much later in the mid-80s, I joined Threshold after encountering the group at The Lifestyles Convention in Las Vegas. Then, the best thing in my life happened. What can you do? Different doesn't mean wrong. Diversified Services: Tutorial: Waxing.
At first, it may sound horrifying. Dripping hot candle wax on bare skin. I assure you it will sound horrifying to a novice submissive. However, properly applied candle wax can be no more stimulating than a brisk spanking and considerably less so than whipping. The secrets are choosing the right candles and letting the wax cool by letting it fall a distance before it hits the skin. Most novices, attempting their first waxing, are likely to go out and buy expensive candles. After all, they think, this is a special occasion; it calls for special candles. Unfortunately, the reason a beeswax candle lasts for a long time is that it generally has has a melting point considerably higher than the cheaper paraffin. Rather than rely on individual accounts of what color, material or brand one should use. My personal choice for the best candles to begin with are the cheapest: the ugly white votive candles sold for chaffing dishes and such or standard Jewish Sabbath candles.
Avoid dripless candles.
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