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How to Find Time For Real Work When You Are Too Busy With Other Things. Feeling Stuck in Life? How To Take Your Life From Stuck to Awesome. It sucks to feel stuck.

Feeling Stuck in Life? How To Take Your Life From Stuck to Awesome

You’re in a rut, and you can’t get unstuck. A Guide to Living Your Unlived Life. Laziness Does Not Exist. Let’s look at a sign of academic “laziness” that I believe is anything but: procrastination.

Laziness Does Not Exist

People love to blame procrastinators for their behavior. Putting off work sure looks lazy, to an untrained eye. Even the people who are actively doing the procrastinating can mistake their behavior for laziness. You’re supposed to be doing something, and you’re not doing it — that’s a moral failure right? That means you’re weak-willed, unmotivated, and lazy, doesn’t it? For decades, psychological research has been able to explain procrastination as a functioning problem, not a consequence of laziness. Watch Your Thoughts for They Become Your Destiny. The Most Important Skill You Forgot - Personal Growth - Medium. 7 Thought Experiments That Might Change Your Life And How to Make More Time Tomorrow [Best Reads] How to Use a Productive Mood Anchor to Start Your Day Right And How to Stay Productive With An Irregular Schedule [Best Reads]

7 Brutal Life Lessons Everyone Has to Learn Multiple Times. Oh boy, such a difficult lesson to learn — and a crucial one to practice through every chapter of your life.

7 Brutal Life Lessons Everyone Has to Learn Multiple Times

The people around you are your mirrors. They are the ones who allow you to see aspects of yourself — and vice versa. How To Wake Up at 5 A.M. Every Day. 30 Life Lessons to Learn Before it’s too Late - Chris Herd - Medium. How To Make A Relationship Last. What to do When You Feel like You’re Wasting Your Life. Give Up These Habits Immediately to Become A High-Achieving Person. Long-term success is much about what you give up as what you gain.

Give Up These Habits Immediately to Become A High-Achieving Person

Every human brain has a built-in capacity to become, over time, what we demand of it. Whatever you want in life, you can become if you want it bad enough. Once you have a WHY, you will find a HOW! People have so much they can offer the world but they are afraid to even try.They feel inadequate. Millions of people are still living in their comfort zones because they think a lot can go wrong. How to Avoid Wasting your 1 Shot at Life - Chris Herd - Medium. Why Life is Haunting Fragile and How to Recognise the Value of Your Time. The Most Important Skill Nobody Taught You. Before dying at the age of 39, Blaise Pascal made huge contributions to both physics and mathematics, notably in fluids, geometry, and probability.

The Most Important Skill Nobody Taught You

This work, however, would influence more than just the realm of the natural sciences. Many fields that we now classify under the heading of social science did, in fact, also grow out of the foundation he helped lay. Interestingly enough, much of this was done in his teen years, with some of it coming in his twenties. As an adult, inspired by a religious experience, he actually started to move towards philosophy and theology. Right before his death, he was hashing out fragments of private thoughts that would later be released as a collection by the name of Pensées.

While the book is mostly a mathematician’s case for choosing a life of faith and belief, the more curious thing about it is its clear and lucid ruminations on what it means to be human. The Problem With Being Happy - Featured Stories - Medium. Trick Yourself Into Creating a Fresh Start. The T-Shaped Approach To Building a 21st Century Career. Confidence: 2 Reasons Most People Don’t Have It. Confidence is a heavily misunderstood concept.

Confidence: 2 Reasons Most People Don’t Have It

Confidence cannot be faked. You can fake and manufacture motivation, excitement, or even passion at the moment. Unlike motivation and other emotional states which are more surface level, confidence is deeper and more subconscious. Accountability Partners Are Great. But “Success” Partners Will Change Your Life. Even though most people avoid it, accountability works.

Accountability Partners Are Great. But “Success” Partners Will Change Your Life.

It really works. Actually, if you do not measure and report your progress, then you’re probably not making much progress at all. According to Pearson’s Law — when performance is measured, it improves; when performance is measured and reported, it improves exponentially. Research studies have shown that publicly committing your goals to someone gives you at least a 65% chance of completing them. How to Decide What to Do With Your Life. With the rise of personal development and a generation of people who want more meaning from life, topics like passion and purpose permeate our thinking.

How to Decide What to Do With Your Life

The question burns in your mind — you want to figure out what to do with your life. You have tons of options — maybe even too many. You want to make a decision, but you don’t want to make the wrong one because, if you do, you’ll feel like you’ve wasted a bunch of time. The 3 Most Important Skills to Learn Now to Thrive in 2019. Compare Yourself to Who You Were Yesterday, Not to Who Someone Else is Today. Jordan Peterson said that.

Compare Yourself to Who You Were Yesterday, Not to Who Someone Else is Today

It’s rule number 4 of his best-selling book, 12 Rules For Life. “No one else is really like you in any deep sense,” Peterson said. “The conditions of your life truly are unique.” You have no idea how much time and effort someone else has put into achieving the results you envy. Channel your envy into purpose. Make Peace With One Thing to Get More Out of Life - Personal Growth - Medium. Are You Stuck in the Shallow of Life? - Personal Growth - Medium. The Forward Momentum Approach to Achieving Anything You Want. Life is too short to waste our motions or lack purposeful forward momentum.

The Forward Momentum Approach to Achieving Anything You Want

“It is never the size of your problem that is the problem. It’s a lack of momentum.” — John Maxwell Forward momentum is a consistent step, it is movement; it is the act of moving forward, making progress and crushing goals. In Physics, Momentum is the resistance of a moving object to come to a stop and is expressed as speed times mass (Velocity x Mass). The greater the momentum, the harder it is to stop the object’s movement. In life, forward momentum is the purposeful movement toward a goal, a vision, or a desired destination.

To Rebuild My Life, I Had to Listen to My Gut. How to Build Lasting Relationships - - Medium. One of the Godfathers of logic and humanism was Aristotle. Two of the quotes attributed to him perfectly articulate the philosophy of meaningful relationships. These quotes are both relevant for deep friendships, as well as romantic relationships: “Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.” The lists, questions, and prompts below can be completed with or without a significant other. How would we feel about losing what we love? This 75-Year Harvard Study Shows How To Have Lifetime Joy. For over 75 years, Harvard’s Grant and Glueck study has tracked the physical and emotional health of two groups: 456 poor people in Boston from 1939 to 2014 (the Grant Study)268 graduates from Harvard’s classes of 1939–1944 (the Glueck study) After following these groups and testing them (e.g., blood samples, brain scans) for several decades, the findings have been compiled.

Here’s the conclusion: “The clearest message that we get from this 75-year study is this: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier. To Rebuild My Life, I Had to Listen to My Gut. This 75-Year Harvard Study Shows How To Have Lifetime Joy. 9 Stoic Practices That Will Help You Thrive In The Madness Of Modernity. When Zeno of Cyprus was shipwrecked and stranded on Athens, he wasn’t expecting any good to happen. Having lost everything and with not much else to do, Zeno wandered into a bookshop and was quickly absorbed by the teachings of Socrates. After studying with the great philosophers of his time, he decided to impart his wisdom to anyone who would care to listen. Thus the philosophy of Stoicism was born.

Zeno’s teachings would quickly spread and would be adopted by both slaves and kings alike. As he would later joke: “I made a prosperous voyage when I suffered shipwreck.” But that’s not where the story of Stoicism ends. 1. “Man is disturbed not by things, but by the views he takes of them.” — Epictetus. How To Start — When You’ve Procrastinated On Your Goals For Too Long. Do These Things After 6 P.M. And Your Life Will Never Be The Same. The time before you go to bed is golden, as it exists every single day, and it’s usually completely yours to schedule. What do you want to do with this time? Read? Why coding and kindness go hand in hand, and how I learned to be kind to myself. Embarking on the #100DaysOfCode challenge, as encouraged by my husband, I’ve learned some unexpected lessons. First, as I explored in my article A Newbie Coding | The Closest I Feel to Being Bipolar, it can be an extraordinarily emotional experience.

Second, and even more unexpectedly, the experience continually highlighted the importance of kindness. The type of kindness that does not detract from the seriousness, commitment, or rigor of the challenge. This is what I found most surprising and disorienting. As a recovering perfectionist (see this article), my daily battle is to maintain an acceptable level of control and personal high standards while remaining sane. This inherently, by the very nature of those suffering with control issues or perfectionism, does not lend itself to great self-love or forgiveness.

For a perfectionist, anything short of military precision is often unacceptable and is an illustration of either waning commitment or incompetence. The Problem With Habits (and Why Most of Them Fail) To Forge Truly Authentic Relationships, be Human to Everyone You Meet. Self-Acceptance is The Antidote to Self-Judgment - Personal Growth - Medium. 6 Subtle Habits That Are Sabotaging Your Happiness. Everybody wants to know what they can do to be happier.

We crave some combination of lessons, tricks, inspiration, goals, strategies, life-hacks, pills, or even apps that will add more happiness and wellbeing to our lives. Your Life Circumstances May Have a Lot Less To Do With Your Happiness. Understanding This One Principle Will Make You a Happier Person. Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle: Some things are within our control, and some things are not. Why You Should Treat Your Life Like a Work of Art - Personal Growth - Medium. 8 Powerful Evening Habits That Will Prepare You For a Better Tomorrow. I am a big fan of routines, systems, and principles. There’s something about order and structure that make everything better. 30 Lessons That Will Improve Your Life Dramatically. Feeling Stuck in Life? How To Take Your Life From Stuck to Awesome. The Secret To Well-Being And Longevity - Thrive Global - Medium.

Research shows that our inclination to be happy is only 50% dependent on our genes. The other 50% is largely dependent on external factors and circumstances. According to the latest CDC stats, the average adult life expectancy in the US is about 78.8 years (a decline since 2014 ), but that number is likely to further plummet due to the rise of chronic diseases — something that could certainly put a damper on our happiness. Embrace Discomfort. Your Long-Term Personal Growth Depends on it. As a long-term strategy, comfort is unsafe. Learn to Manage Your Attention and Managing Time Will Take Care of Itself. A key habit I’ve noticed in successful people repeatedly, is that they are ruthless in managing what they pay attention to. This Simple Note-Taking Method Will Help You Read More (and remember what you’ve read) Warren Buffett is undoubtedly considered one of the greatest investors of all times. His empire, Berkshire Hathaway, is worth $355 billion, an increase of 1,826,163 percent since 1964 when Buffett took over.

He owns (or owns big chunks) of some of the biggest brands in the world including GEICO, Dairy Queen, NetJets, half of Heinz, and significant holdings in companies such as American Express, IBM, and Wells Fargo. But Buffett’s very best investment — responsible for literally billions of dollars in profits over the years — was very cheap. Because it was a book. Why Calendars are More Effective Than To Do Lists. If there’s one pattern I’ve come across in dozens of articles, books I’ve read, and the 100’s of people that I’ve interviewed, it’s that the most prolific, productive and successful ones don’t depend on to-do lists, they depend on a calendar.

It’s a lesson I’ve learned over and over again in my own work. The likelihood of me getting anything done goes up significantly when I put something on the calendar. Marie Curie: How to Use Journaling To Improve Your Life. When Marie Curie and her husband won the Nobel Prize in Physics, they declined to get it.