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Your Brain Has A DELETE Button And Here’s How To Use It! This is the fascinating way that your brain makes space to build new and stronger connections so you can learn more.

Your Brain Has A DELETE Button And Here’s How To Use It!

There’s an old saying in neuroscience: “neurons that fire together wire together.” This means the more you run a neuro-circuit in your brain, the stronger that circuit becomes. This is why, to quote another old saw, “practice makes perfect”. The more you practice piano, or speaking a language, or juggling, the stronger those circuits get. Scientists have known this for years. This Is How It Works: Imagine your brain is a garden, except instead of growing flowers, fruits, and vegetables, you grow synaptic connections between neurons. “Glial cells” are the gardeners of your brain—they act to speed up signals between certain neurons. Researchers are just starting to unravel this mystery, but what they do know is the synaptic connections that get used less get marked by a protein, C1q (as well as others). 5 Things To Remember When Someone Constantly Lets You Down. There are some important things you need to keep in mind when someone continues to let you down.

5 Things To Remember When Someone Constantly Lets You Down

Regardless if it is your parent, spouse, child, friend or even co-worker who can’t keep their end of the bargain, being constantly let down sucks. When someone repeatedly lets you down, it can send all sorts of feelings and questions running through your mind. You may feel angry with them or you might even start to resent their behaviour, or maybe being disappointed so frequently causes you sadness. The point is, it can hurt you and your relationships with others. What Is an Indigo Child and How to Recognize If You or Your Kid Is One.

You may have heard the term Indigo Child being used with growing frequency in recent years, particularly since the 1970s – back when the basic idea was developed by teacher and author Nancy Ann Tappe.

What Is an Indigo Child and How to Recognize If You or Your Kid Is One

Or perhaps, this is the first time you are hearing of it. Indigo Children quite simply refers to gifted children who are believed to naturally possess any kind of special abilities or traits. These can range from the magical to even the supernatural. It is believed that these children serve as a reminder for the rest of humanity, who through time has lost touch with who we truly are – one shared body of consciousness. Soulmate, Love Of Life, The One? - Mind Talk. I guess I cannot wait for the day that I can proudly say that I have found my Soul mate, the Love of my life, my everything, the one who completes me inside and out, The one I have waited and prayed for, the one I know was made for me, He will be THE ONE (and no this is not like Neo in the Matrix).

Soulmate, Love Of Life, The One? - Mind Talk

Everyone seems to be falling in some type of thing, I am not sure if it is love, lust or a mixture of the two, but all I know is, it is some kind of infatuation. So I must admit as much as it nauseates and makes me want to throw up in my mouth a little, it also makes me happy to see that others found love and it just fuels the old romantic that is inside of me. I just get a bit irritated at the word Love being thrown around so loosely, also; soul mate, love of my life, my everything, the one and also again LOVE By Jo-dene Jansen. 7 Things The Buddha Taught Us About Overcoming Suffering. By Luke Miller There are very few certainties in life and there are no guarantees that the life we are living today will be the same for us tomorrow.

7 Things The Buddha Taught Us About Overcoming Suffering

But one thing that will remain consistent through your life is, you will continually have challenges and problems to overcome and while these challenges will differ from person to person, the solution for any problems can be broken down into 7 key areas for development. In a sacred text called the Sabbāsava Sutta the Buddha outlines these 7 areas and my interpretation of this text is below. The original text is available to read here in Pāḷi and English Knowledge/Insight- Your Brain Has A DELETE Button And Here’s How To Use It! 10 Things You Should Never Say To A Depressed Person. My Personal Journey from Victim to Survivor to Thriver - Mind Talk. It happened in a split second and I almost let it negatively change my life forever.

My Personal Journey from Victim to Survivor to Thriver - Mind Talk

But I didn’t and I’m so grateful. I loved him and I trusted him and then he hit me and choked me and sexually assaulted me and cheated on me. I was devastated. My world was crashing down around me and I felt betrayed, powerless, worthless and humiliated. I found a small bit of the feisty me and charged him. What is a soul call? 26 Ways To Take Your Life Back When You’re Broken. There’s an old, outdated assumption that time heals all wounds.

26 Ways To Take Your Life Back When You’re Broken

But I believe this to be untrue. In the words of Dr. Phil, “Time doesn’t change us. Things Narcissists Do. It’s not their fault.

Things Narcissists Do

Not EVER. No Problem is ever solved - You grow out of them - Mind Talk. No problem is ever solved — you grow out of them.

No Problem is ever solved - You grow out of them - Mind Talk

This has to be very very deeply understood. Trying to solve problems is almost futile, because no problem is ever solved. Problems exist because of a particular consciousness. When the consciousness changes, they drop. For example, in the morning a small child cries and weeps because in a dream he had a beautiful toy, and now he has lost it. 26 Ways To Take Your Life Back When You’re Broken. Why Readers, Scientifically, Are The Best People To Fall In Love With. Ever finished a book?

Why Readers, Scientifically, Are The Best People To Fall In Love With

I mean, truly finished one? Signs and Omens: Listening to the Messages of Spirit. With the constant exposure to digital news, ads and social media interaction, we’ve lost the valuable skill that our ancestors had of gathering information firsthand from our surroundings. We’ve lost the ability to perceive the deep interconnection between “us” and the natural world, and the different ways nature is alive and communicates with us. The patterns of birds in flight, the blooming of trees outside of their season, the temperature of the ocean’s water, the invasion of ants or snails … there are so many occurrences in nature that carry valuable information and significance that we don’t pay attention to anymore.

In the modern fast-paced world, signs have been divorced from their significance. Nature is always communicating with us and often this occurs by showing us omens and signs. Indigenous traditions understood this as working and being in harmony with the flow or web of life. Why The Woman You Love Should Want You, Not Need You. There are some people in this world who find people in need of saving, attractive. I understand the concept very well, as it was this idea that initially turned my world upside down. There’s just something attractive about a woman who needs saving — who we believe needs saving. It makes us feel… needed. It gives us a sort of purpose, a reason for falling for and pursuing her. 14 Things Only People Who Suppress Their Feelings Will Understand.

The Difference Between A Mature Relationship And An Immature Relationship. Mature couples don’t “fall in love,” they step into it. Love isn’t something you fall for; it’s something you rise for. Falling denotes lowering oneself, dropping down and being stuck somewhere lower than where you started. You have to get up from falling. Love isn’t like that — at least not with people who are doing it right. Immature couples fall; mature couples coast. 6 Types of Emotional Abuse by Narcissistic Parents. Narcissistic Parents or caregivers who display rejecting behavior toward a child will often [purposefully or unconsciously] let a child know, in a variety of ways, that he or she is unwanted.

Putting down a child’s worth or belittling their needs is one form these types of emotional abuse may take. Other examples can include telling a child to leave or worse, to get out of your face, calling him names or telling the child that he is worthless, making a child the family scapegoat or blaming him for family/sibling problems. Refusing to talk to or holding a young child as he or she grows can also be considered abuse. Adults who have had few of their emotional needs met are often unable to respond to the needs of their children. They may not show attachment to the child or provide positive nurturing. How Souls Choose Their Parents and Families.

Years before my baby girl was born, I had a dream that I had a daughter. She came to me and gave me a hug, told me I was her mother, and told me her name was Evelyn. That dream imprinted on my memory and my heart. No time for patience - Mind Talk. In the Sunday paper I read there was actually a place where you could purchase patience, the ad said supplies were limited so I jumped in my car and sped on my way.

Living From the Heart. It is imperative that we should be aware that at any specific step of our spiritual Journey we accept the aspect of the Mind or that of the Heart. Living From the Ego-dominated Mind The majority of the mankind is characterized by this aspect at this moment. The center of their life is the Ego-dominated Mind, which guides and leads them. Is Negativity All Bad? - Mind Talk. Lighthouses have always fascinated me. To The Girl Who Has Been Through a Lot. THE MAIN TRAITS OF A LOVING, LONG-LASTING RELATIONSHIP. Thinking out loud - Mind Talk.

Hello, I just was thinking out loud again. MEN WHO MARRY SMART WOMEN LIVE LONGER. Critical Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship. Romance can make us blind to all the signs that we’re in a bad relationship. It is difficult to accept the fact that the loves of our lives can also possess awful, sometimes dangerous qualities. How can one person seem so fantastic, yet have such horrible tendencies and habits only moments later?

10 Things Emotionally Intelligent People Do Not Do. Emotional intelligence is probably the most powerful yet undervalued trait in our society. The Art Of Letting Go. Women, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single. 16 Uncomfortable Feelings That Indicate You Are on the Right Track. Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse, Is Slow & Painful ~ Lilly Hope Lucario. All I Really Want From You Is Your Consistency. The Three Phases of A Narcissistic Relationship Cycle: Over-Evaluation, Devaluation, Discard. Finding the right people at the right time - Mind Talk. Introvert In A Relationship: Love me but please don't drain me too much. Why Falling In Love Is So Difficult For A Strong Woman.

Why do we Repeat the Same Mistake in our Lives Again and Again. 7 Laws of Gratitude That Will Change Your Life. The Spiritual Significance of Friday the 13th. Defeating the feeling of not being good enough - Mind Talk. 15 Native American Proverbs That Will Speak To Your Soul. Stop Loving People You Feel You Need To Save. Existential Depression, Sensitivity and Soul Loss. What You Say To A Highly Sensitive Person And What They Hear. 6 Strong Signs You Have Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome. You Have To Experience The Wrong Kind Of Love, In Order To Appreciate It When It’s Right. I Will Never Understand ‘Casual Dating’ Are You Dating an Emotional Predator? - Signs of Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths. Questions To Ask Potential Therapists About Treating Complex Trauma by Lilly Hope Lucario. Who Cares If You Haven’t Found The One Yet.

Why We Meet The Same Souls In Every Incarnation? This Foolish Mind Game is the Biggest Obstacle to Spiritual Awakening. THE 3 PEOPLE YOU NEED TO FIND IN LIFE. 5 SIGNS YOUR LIFE IS ABOUT TO SHIFT DRASTICALLY. Give yourself permission to not be where you want to be - Mind Talk. 10 Things Only A Taurus Will Understand. 10 Signs of Toxic and Narcissistic Friends - by Shahida Arabi. Why Writing Helps Me to Discover My True Self - Mind Talk. 11 Reasons Good Men Won’t Cheat. Twin Flames.

10 Things I Learned While Everyone Else Was Getting Married. “I Am Not Black, You are Not White” - MIND VIDEO. 9 Tips for the Partner With a Higher Sex Drive. 'Selfless Love' - Mind Talk. 11 Weird Benefits Of Stress, Because Sometimes It's Not All That Bad. How Being Too Nice Makes Your Life Miserable. The Other Side of Hope - Mind Talk. Stop Saying “Yes” When You Actually Want to Say “No” 7 Obvious Signs You're Dealing With A Liar.

8 Things You Need To Remember If Your Partner Is A Highly Sensitive Person. 5 Gut Instincts You Shouldn’t Ignore. 5 Gut Instincts You Shouldn’t Ignore. This Is How You Become Unattractive And You’re Not Aware of It. 7 lessons about finding the work you were meant to do. 12 Counterintuitive Traits Of Genuinely Smart People- traits of. WHAT YOU’RE NOT BEING TOLD ABOUT THE LAW OF ATTRACTION. Powerful Life Lessons from The Alchemist. On Being Right and Doing Wrong: A Conversation Between Alice and The Mad Hatter. 7 Reasons Why You Should Have Sex Every Day. Why Don’t The Amish Get Cancer? A Secret To Unlocking Growth Mindsets - Mind Talk. 20 One Tree Hill Quotes to Get You Through Life. 27 Beautiful Bible Verses For Those In Need Of Love, Reassurance And Strength. Ways The Old Soul Loves Differently. Which Enneagram Personality Type Are You? - Mind Game. Who Were You In Your Past Life According To Your Memories? - Mind Game The Minds Journal.

10 Forgotten Spiritual Truths About Raising Children The Minds Journal. 3 REASONS WHY YOU KEEP ATTRACTING THE SAME PROBLEMS IN LIFE The Minds Journal. This Poem Written By A Boy With Autism Will Make You Feel Emotional The Minds Journal. 20 Profound Quotes By Carl Jung That Will Help You To Better Understand Yourself The Minds Journal.