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Psychologist Mental Philosophy BDSM - Soumission - Humiliation

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Être Maitre ou Maitresse c’est, à minima, expérimenter la discipline et l’exigence pour soi même. 2 mensonges vanille. Punishment - Submission, BDSM, Dominance, D/s, Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism. Meditation: A Possible Path To Present Submission – Fearless Press. I decided to meditate before a play session earlier this month.

Meditation: A Possible Path To Present Submission – Fearless Press

I had a busy morning. I had some spiritual meetings to attend before I came back to being present for a play session, and since I was hyper-focused on everything going on, short of what I really should have been focusing on, I decided to become present with myself. The Primal Need Of Devotion. What is Devotional Service? By lunaKM on June 9, 2010 photo by Iqbal Saggu To complete the series on types of service, today I’m going to cover devotional service.

What is Devotional Service?

If you’d like a refresher on the other types of service please see the other posts: In my search for understanding about devotion I looked to religious ideas. In many religions you devote your life and love to a higher power or deity. ROSENBERG Masochisme mortifère et masochisme gardien de la vie. Sports et BDSM - Liens-Secrets Vivre une relation BDSM. Plus je pratique le SM, plus me semble évidente la similitude entre ses pratiques et celles du sport.

Sports et BDSM - Liens-Secrets Vivre une relation BDSM

Soumission et liberté - Liens-Secrets Vivre une relation BDSM. Liberté, Liberté chérie !

Soumission et liberté - Liens-Secrets Vivre une relation BDSM

Voilà bien une notion qui accompagne ma vie depuis toujours. Elle a cependant évolué et revêt aujourd'hui un sens bien différent que celui que je lui donnais naguère. Peut être pensez vous que la liberté est un paradoxe pour une soumise. Je vous affirme que non, qu'au contraire, elle est indispensable à sa construction. Je m'en explique : Il faut d'abord pour cela déterminer ce que l'on entend par liberté. Femsoum - Le site dédié à la soumission féminine érotique. Unhealthy motivations - PeterMastersWiki. One could argue that the common motivations for engaging in BDSM which we see are healthy motivations.

Unhealthy motivations - PeterMastersWiki

Most of these reflect common and respected goals which are also found in the wider community. This isn't always the case. However, because research into BDSM motivations is not common, it can be worthwhile instead to look at what happens with sex to see if there are parallels in BDSM because just as there are good and reasons for having sex, there are good and bad reasons for engaging in BDSM relationships and activities. Meston and Buss[1] surveyed 1,549 people and from them identified 237 reasons why these people had sex. As well as reasons which we might consider to be good and or constructive, they also found less healthy reasons which are just as applicable to BDSM as they are to straight sex:

Journey Into Submission. The following essays, lists and writings are merely guidelines.

Journey Into Submission

They are posted here with the intent to aide you as you discover the varied lifestyle of BDSM. Each article is from the point of view and experiences of the author and is used here with permission from the author. For ease of locating specific submission related topics we have separated the articles into the following sub-categories: Advice For New Submissives Behavior Definitions/Terminology Male Submissives Viewpoints Masochism Personal Experiences Punishment and Discipline Release Rights/Expectations Service Slaves/Slavery (including Gorean Kajirae) Submission Sub-Space Submission Realities Swtich Tasks New categories will be added as this section continues to grow. As always, when it comes to BDSM, read everything you wish to and take from it what applies or appeals to you, then discard the rest. Warm Regards, Raven Shadowborne. Humiliation - PeterMastersWiki.

Standing in the corner after a spanking Humiliation is a BDSM psychological activity which exploits the identity structures of the bottom or submissive.

Humiliation - PeterMastersWiki

It typically involves exploring aspects of the bottom or submissive which have to do with: Areas in which they lack confidence, and Embarrassment. Erotic humiliation. Public humiliation of a woman Terminology and overview[edit] Means of humiliation[edit] Many scenarios may give rise to sexual humiliation.

Erotic humiliation

Some scenarios may be based on verbal abuse and others on physical aspects. Verbal humiliation[edit] Physical humiliation[edit] Some sexual humiliation involves physical inflicting pain, but much of it is far more concerned with ridicule, mocking, degradation, and embarrassment. DomSubFriends: Humiliation Chart. Note: We should not put our BDSM values on anyone in the vanilla world!

DomSubFriends: Humiliation Chart

Please do not humiliate anyone in a Vanilla setting such as a restaurant or supermarket with a possibility of a vanilla person seeing this. HUMILIATION activities/ideas *Act as objects (furniture, etc.) *After orgasm, making sub drink his own cum *Always address you Sir, ma'am, etc. *Anal plugs *Age Play *Baby pacifier tied around neck *Bathroom use control *Bathroom use in front of others *Become a human ashtray *Beg for cigarettes, drinks, etc. Les degrés de soumission. Submissive Guide: novice mentoring, self help and submissive exploration. Punishment - Submission, BDSM, Dominance, D/s, Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism. Grab a cup of tea and join us in the circle... Submissive Guide: novice mentoring, self help and submissive exploration. Classical Conditioning. Les motivations. Subspace, subdrop and aftercare. Le cadre de la soumission. D/s 01 : Qu'est la soumission D/s ? - Maître Dewoitine - Relations D/s.

Préambule : Par facilité J'utiliserai les termes de "dominant" et de "Maître" au masculin et "soumise" au féminin.Il va sans dire que Je n'ai qu'une vision théorique de la relation entre un dominant et un soumis, encore plus évidemment d'une relation entre une dominante et une soumise ou entre une dominante et un soumis. ** Ces mots n'engagent que Moi et appellent à la réflexion et au partage, ils ne sauraient être élevés en dogme.

D/s 01 : Qu'est la soumission D/s ? - Maître Dewoitine - Relations D/s

Aucune relation humaine ne peut être identique à une autre ** 01.01. Qu'est ce que se soumettre dans la relation D/S ? Après avoir réfléchi, clairement, aux formes d'équilibre dans vos relations passées, vous avez conçu que vous n'aviez pas assez de contrôle sur votre vie. ** Se soumettre, c'est accepter de prendre le contrôle de sa vie ** Pour toute femme, le besoin de se soumettre, d'offrir toute sa confiance et toute sa foi à autrui, est un instinct naturel et évident. ** Se soumettre c'est prendre un contrôle sur ses relations ** 01.02. 01.03. 01.04. Suis-je une bonne soumise ? What Makes a Good Submissive? - New to BDSM (Uncensored) Here is something I was directed to about levels of submission. This clarifies things more for me about the limits and freedoms of each situation. I actually have interests in seeing if being a full-time live in consensual slave would be for me at all. It would be bizarre if I actually enjoyed having my free time controlled that much though.

Discovering Your Submissive Nature. Discovering your submissive nature isn’t always a sudden process. For many people it takes some soul searching to see that you may enjoy being a people-pleaser or that when someone asks you to do something you happily do it without a second thought. For others it takes some social reprogramming to allow your full nature to come out. There are two identified forms of submission; natural and learned. Of these two it is more common to be a learned submissive. Natural submission is not just about always wanting to make someone happy, but the inner joy and peace that comes automatically without any training. Soumises vs gros connards, - Aude Dite Orium. Ou, Psychological Surrender. Is Sadomasochism a mental pathology?

From Kraft-Ebing to Carl Jung, through years of research on the ground, Dorothy Hayden express her conclusion about masochism. The proposal for a new Psychological approach to BDSM. By Dorothy C. Hayden, CSW A number of years ago, in connection with my work with sexual addiction, a number of lifestyle submissives started coming to me for treatment. Learning about the world of S&M has been an invaluable experience to me. L’humilité de l’esclave. How Can I Be More Convincing and Get Anything I Want? Humiliation and BDSM or "Why is it "Humiliation" if i *LIKE* it?"

"Humiliation" and BDSM or "Why is it "Humiliation" if i *LIKE* it? " Speakers: BoundLady and ABondager February 15, 1998. En quoi consiste la Soumission ; Branche Issue du BDSM ?