BDSM Events, Fetish Events, Leather Events, BDSM Groups & Travel. ASMR Info. BDSM General Info and Tidbits. Submissive men for MALE DOM. BDSM. The BDSM initialism Fundamentals[edit] A woman is chained to the wall in bondage. A man handcuffed to a bed and blindfolded. BDSM actions can often take place during a specific period of time agreed to by both parties, referred to as "play", "a scene" or "a session".
The fundamental principles for the exercise of BDSM require that it should be performed with the informed consent of all involved parties. In general, BDSM play is usually structured such that it is possible for the consenting partner to withdraw his or her consent during a scene;[8] for example, by using a safeword that was agreed on in advance.[9][10] Use of the agreed safeword (or occasionally a "safe symbol" such as dropping a ball or ringing a bell, especially when speech is restricted) is seen by some as an explicit withdrawal of consent. Safety[edit] Safewords are, by definition, not commonly used words during any kind of play. Aspects[edit] The initialism BDSM includes psychological and physiological facets:
Wikipedia - Top, bottom, switch (BDSM) A BDSM couple, with the top standing and the bottom in handcuffs, at 2002 Europride Cologne event The terms top, bottom and versatile are used to describe roles for the duration of a sexual act, or may be used more broadly as a psychological, social, and sexual identity, as well as indicating one's usual preference. The terms top, bottom and switch are also used in BDSM, with slightly different meanings. While popular media portrays a larger number of submissive males than dominant males, studies have disputed this. [citation needed] Businesses catering to BDSM culture show there is a strong and growing market for submissives and dominants of all genders and orientations and a diversity in BDSM communities, both recreational and professional.
Professional dominants provide stimulatory services (which may or may not include sex) for submissives. In BDSM, top means: In BDSM, bottom means: The terms sadism and masochism, while reflecting a "do" vs. List of sexual positions.
Scene Music. Kodo "Iridori" Master Drummers of the Dagbon (Rounder Records) Kenya & Tanzania: Witchcraft & Ritual Music (Elektra Nonesuch) Delerium "Karma" (Nettwerk 1997) -- gorgeous ethereal music Eric Serra: Soundtrack to La Femme Nikita(Varese Sarabande 1991) Moody instrumental album Lords of Acid"Lust" (Antler Subway, 1991) Rough sex to a techno beat Peter Gabriel "Passion" (Geffen, 1989)Moody instrumentals Sarah McLachlan"Fumbling TowardsEcstacy" Madonna The Enigma Trilogy Nine Inch Nails Dead Can Dance Devo Deep Forest "Bohemia" "Lush Mechanique" by Jami Sieber.
Robin "Adnan" Anders "Blue Buddah" Really incredible trance drumming. "Blink" Soundtrack It lulls you in, then turns evil, just the thing for a sensual sadist. Richard Souther"Illumination" Loreena McKennitt Boiled in Lead. "The Dig" Soundtrack "The Crow" Soundtrack Berlin "Pleasure Victim" Adiemus "Sounds of Sanctuary" Mozart Requiem Yo Yo Ma Bach Cello Suites Wolf Soundtrack Chant Steve Halpern Islands in Time The Mission Balanescu Quartet Angels and Insects. Kinky World » BDSM Advice Series: Nipple Clamps. Why would you use Nipple Clamps? Nipple Clamps are an interesting sensory item. They end up cutting off the blood flow to the nipple which makes the nipples amazingly sensitive. When the nipples are so sensitive, even the slightest movement can cause a mixture of pleasure and pain to the wearer.
Along with this, many people take a bit of submissive pleasure in the act of wearing nipple clamps. After nipple clamps are removed, many people enjoy the sensation of having their nipples played with because the skin is so sensitive. Safety Because Nipple Clamps are effectively just cutting off the circulation to the nipple, you should be careful about how long you use them. Something to consider is that the first application and the final removal will include the most pain. Types of Nipple Clamps There are quite a few types of nipple clamps out there. Image from Wikipedia.com The first type of nipple clamp is the Clothespin. However, Clothespins are also very tight. How To Use Nipple Clamps. The Endorphin Levels in BDSM - a short primer on sending a submissive into hyperspace ~ Frisky Business Boutique. Disclaimer: The author is not a medical doctor, though this information has been checked with a doctor and two nurses who are in the BDSM scene.
Frisky Business Boutique assumes no responsibility for people who use this information or for the effects that may arise from the application of the information presented in this article. Although everyone into the BDSM scene has heard of endorphins, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, what the “endorphin high” is all about, and how one can correctly induce the body to produce them. This short primer will answer those questions, and serve as a guide for anyone topping another so that they may successfully send their bottom into a very deep endorphin stupor (also known as “leaving them in a big puddle of quivering ecstasy”). The endorphin high is caused by a bunch of natural, morphine-like chemicals the body pumps into the brain to reduce a person’s sensitivity to pain and raising the pain threshold.
“Flying” Practical BDSM. Category:BDSM terminology. Safety. BDSM health, safety, and risks - PeterMastersWiki. BDSM is, of course, not risk-free. Nothing is. Just walking along the street, or having missionary-position sex, or even just lying in bed all have some risk associated with them. But just as we watch where we’re going so we don’t step in unexpected holes in the sidewalk, or just as we use a condom during sex, practising BDSM or having relationships with others where BDSM is a component can be engaged in safely as long as we recognise and take steps to minimise the risks.
Beyond some of the obvious risks, such as bruising or cuts from caning and whipping, there are other, less obvious risks for the innocent and the unwary. This article is not intended to be exhaustive, but I will try to touch on many of the areas of BDSM health and safety, particularly those where the risks and hazards may not be obvious to those new to BDSM.
Physical health and well-being The first and most obvious area I want to talk about, is physical well-being. External bruising, weals, cuts, and abrasions Teeth Burns. "S" fetish. Blogs. Leather Cuffs and Silken Bonds Blog: Bondage Hints and Information. Bornslaves. My other CBT and ballbusting profiles.
BDSM Books. D/s and philosophy. BDSM Glossary of Terms. BDSM glossary | Page 1 | The Library (Info) | Guild Forums. BDSM Glossary. This glossary is a guide to many of the terms you might hear in the BDSM community. Not everyone who is involved with BDSM is into everything listed here; many of the practices described in the Glossary are quite rare. If you see something described in here which isn't to your tastes, it doesn't mean that you aren't or can't be interested in BDSM.
The definitions given here reflect the usage I am most familiar with. Some terms contain commentary; anything following the word Commentary indicates my own views on a particular subject, and should not be assumed to be part of the formal definition.Links in the definitions will take you to other definitions on this page unless the links are in »angle quotes«, in which case they will take you off this page. Comments or additions?
24/7: Colloquial Of or related to a total power exchange relationship. ABASIOPHILIA: Psychology Sexual attraction to people in or who use wheelchairs, casts, braces, or other orthopedic fixtures. BIMMY: See sennet whip. BDSM Scenarios. Adding realism to scenariosMany scenarios include the submissive being taken by "force". One fun technique that can make this more fun is to buy cheap clothing from a thrift store that can be torn, sliced, or cut off the submissive. Cheap, disposable clothing can lend a fun air of realism to the scenario. Extended BondageFor people who like bondage, one thing that can be fun is to have the submissive sleep bound. This is most easily done if the submissive's hands and feet are bound together; extended bondage in one position (as, for example, if the submissive were tied to the bed) can become quite uncomfortable.
Note that if you do this, you should not leave the submissive in a room alone, and you should bind the submissive in a way which can be released quickly in case the house catches fire ! There are many techniques involving D/s in a public space, particularly where feelings of vulnerability are created. Distance need not be a barrier to sexuality. Dungeon. A dungeon is a room or cell in which prisoners are held, especially underground. Dungeons are generally associated with medieval castles, though their association with torture probably belongs more to the Renaissance period.
An oubliette is a form of dungeon which is accessible only from a hatch in a high ceiling. Etymology[edit] The word "dungeon" comes from Old French donjon (also spelt dongeon), which in its earliest usage meant a keep, the main tower of a castle. The first recorded instance of the word in English was near the beginning of the 14th century when it held the same meaning as donjon. Though it is uncertain, both dungeon and donjon are thought to derive from the Middle Latin word dominio, meaning "lord" or "master".[1] In French the term donjon still refers to a "keep", and the term oubliette is a more appropriate translation of English "dungeon".
History[edit] Few Norman keeps in English castles originally contained prisons, though they were more common in Scotland. BDSM Relationships. My thoughts on slavery. Below is an article submitted by Master Stuart that was written by his slave about slavery, slave training and bdsm. ‘My thoughts on slavery’ by Master Stuart’s pet Ok first things first. My name is pet and I am a collared slave. I have always known what kind of relationship I wanted. I have always known that I wanted to be owned. What I didn’t have a clue about was how to meet the kind of man, who could give me what I needed.
My Master has been a Dom for a number of years. When I was deciding whether or not to become a sub my Master told me to read everything I could on the subject. One site in particular kinda freaked me out. The conversation with my Master after reading it, however, was to come back to bite me on the bum a couple of months later. “Ha! I was so close to giving myself to him completely, and I didn’t even realise what was happening. At my Masters behest I hit the net again and did a more thorough search. So here I am. Now to the reason I am writing this. You are a slave. Taken In Hand. Submit A Story » Fantasies.
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" How to Raise Your Pain Tolerance « Power Exchange « Relationships. Pain Tolerance vs. Pain Threshold Before getting into some methods of how to raise your pain tolerance, I am going to review the difference between pain tolerance and pain threshold. Your pain tolerance is the most pain you can stand. It is the point where you'd safe word out during a scene. This is what this article is going to help you raise, with the goal of being able to withstand more pain. Ways to Raise Your Pain Tolerance Now, I am going to go on to explore different methods that have been applied successfully in raising individual's pain tolerance. Breathing and Meditation By applying different controlled breathing patterns or meditation, you are able to calm your body down and push the thoughts of pain into the back of your mind.
You know how you see women in labor doing all their short, shallow, controlled repetitive breathing? Positive Self Talk This is another similar method to increase your pain tolerance during a scene. Progressive Exercise, Rest, and a Lack of Stress. Tangents [Archive] - getDare Forums. Riding The Wooden Pony : I Love Bdsm Story. Aly was getting a bit irritating, continually griping that I wasn't giving her enough attention, with Karen being around such a lot.
Karen, on the other hand, seemed to have got the impression that she was Queen of my castle, and was ordering Aly around. I decided that I needed to do something to nip both these rebellions in the bud, as it were, and I had a friend make a special device for me, and when he'd finished it, I hid it in a locked cupboard. When I was ready I instructed Aly to cook a really nice dinner for Karen and I, and when it was all ready I would give her some attention. Just to emphasise the seriousness of my instructions, I gave her a dozen strokes with my thick leather belt on her bare arse. That evening, it was a Saturday, Aly prepared a nice beef casserole with some rice, while I prepared the new device, and had a nice drink with Karen. Once Aly had all the food ready I told her to put it to keep warm then join us in the dining area. "Oh God No!!! " "No! " What’s New? | Modern Dungeon Quarterly.
Theme Update Disaster Really not sure what happened, all I did was update the theme. Hopefully, I can fix this shortly. Sorry, everyone, for the eyesore. Changing Formats and Submission Guidelines Hiya folks, due to several factors, I have decided to change MDQ to an ezine-only format. I have also decided to open up submissions even further, to include the Dungeon Spaces and Creator’s Corner columns. Issue Four Now Online All the articles are now online for Issue Four.
Considering a change for next year, possibly cutting out the print version, and just posting things online. MDQ Issue 4 The cover is finished. Featuring AIS Kink Labs and the AIS Mobile Dungeon. Modern Dungeon Quarterly: Issue Four of Modern Dungeon Quarterly, featuring AIS Kink Labs and Mobile Dungeon. Whips and Chairs Whips & Single Tails by Daydreamweaver Bondage Chair by Victor Pringle It is always pleasant to see a pretty bottom tied helplessly to a chair waiting for their top to do with her as they will.
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Her submission, her giving of herself in love, was to be written on her soul. Debbie was to be Continue reading » The storm clouds, they gather; rolling in with the menace of electric whips and rumbling thunder, prematurely blackening the sky, defiling the morning just as this desire corrupts my mind and debases this body, this woman weakened by the want, the myopic want for you and only you, the craving for your power and domination, Continue reading » Continue reading »
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