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Principles of reinforcement and punishment: How to influence your teenage children’s behaviour.

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Parents are often worried when their children enter into the adolescence phase as it is a stage where young children develop rapidly into young adults.

Every parent would want to cultivate good behaviours and negate any bad behaviours to ensure that their children become the good adults they envisioned. However, the adolescence phase presents various parenting obstacles, and its impact may permeate even in adulthood. Hence, I will focus on how parents can apply reinforcement and punishment principles to influence their teenage children's behaviour. Physical, cognitive, and socioemotional changes. What is adolescence?

Physical, cognitive, and socioemotional changes

Adolescence is the period of transition between childhood and adulthood. Children who are entering adolescence are going through many changes (physical, intellectual, personality and social developmental). How to influence their behaviour? Operant Conditioning. Operant Conditioning. Reinforcement. Difference between Positive and Negative Reinforcement. Punishment. Difference between Positive and Negative Punishment. Summary of Reinforcement and Punishment.

Reinforcement Vs. Punishment. Possible good consequences for your teenage children. Teenagers are young adults who are trying to learn the ways of the world.

Possible good consequences for your teenage children

When they do something great at school or at home or simply make a healthy decision, parents can give them a reward. The reward does not have to be money, but it is a nice way to say "thank you" or "I'm proud of you. " Teens need this positive reinforcement because it shows them that they are on the right track.1 It is also a good life lesson that you can pass on: good things happen to good people. When Do Teenagers Deserve a Reward? Possible bad consequences for your teenage children. When your child becomes a teenager, your parenting role is likely to shift.

Possible bad consequences for your teenage children

You may find yourself becoming more of a guide, rather than an enforcer. That’s not to say your child won’t need you to intervene when there are safety issues or that your teen won’t need consequences. But, by now, it’s OK to let your child make some choices on their own, even when you think it’s a bad choice. Typical Teen Behavior Teens like to test the limits of their independence.1 So don’t be surprised when your teen argues with you when you say no, or when they go behind your back to do as they please. Self Identity & Peer Approval. Applications of Reinforcement. Schedules of Intermittent Reinforcement. Summary of how to administer Reinforcement. Applications of Punishment. Consistency & Swiftness. Limited in duration and intensity, and to situation. Behaviour-centric & Explicit.

Effective Punishment. Conclusion of Understanding Adolescent. Conclusion of Operant Conditioning. Conclusion of Reinforcement. Conclusion of Punishment. Conclusion. Creative ideas for reinforcement. Creative ideas for punishment. Bad behavior doesn't end when your child graduates from diapers -- or even from middle school.

Creative ideas for punishment

In fact, the teen years can bring some of the toughest discipline challenges parents have to face. Sulking, arguing, lying, and rebelling are just a few of the ways teens misbehave. There's a good explanation for these bad behaviors. How to communicate with your teenage children. Fashions come and go.

How to communicate with your teenage children

Technology innovates. New slang words arrive on the scene. But one thing never changes when it comes to high school, year after graduating year: the concerns of teenagers. How to raise your child as a single parent. Single parent?

How to raise your child as a single parent

Tips for raising a child alone Raising a child on your own can be stressful. If you're a single parent, understand how to cope with the pressure, find support and nurture your child. By Mayo Clinic Staff If you're raising a child on your own, you're in good company. How to deal with your teenage children's emotions. Recently there has been an increa sing trend in my practice of parents reaching out to help their adolescents manage their emotions.

How to deal with your teenage children's emotions

Parents often tell me, “My teen goes from zero to sixty, seemingly without any provocation. Nothing I say seems to help. Discipline doesn’t have an impact.”