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More happiness? Better health? Deeper relationships? Increased productivity? 3 Steps to Change Your Inner Narrative: How Neuro-Linguistic Programming Helped Me Talk to Myself Differently. A few years back I used neuro-linguistic programming to change my inner narrative.
I learned a new way to talk to myself. I re-molded my self-talk to be much less demanding and stressful, relieving myself of huge loads of inner tension. Neuro-linguistic programming, NLP for short, is an array of tools for personal development and therapy. Richard Bandler and John Grinder compiled these tools in the 1970s after studying successful therapists such as Virginia Satir and Milton Erickson. Three Key Principles of ‘Future Self’ Thinking. How Not to be Boring.
How Not to be Boring. The 'I Will Teach You To Be Rich' Blog. How to Earn More Money: Go from $25/hour to $75/hour in 2 weeks January 13th, 2017 I've been helping a friend earn more money, and tonight was a breakthrough.
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Everywhere you turn, you hear about the importance of caring for yourself, taking time out of your day for self-care, and prioritizing self-care over others expectations of you (or your expectations of yourself). With this, you may have heard whispers about the importance of developing a mindset practice, complete with abundant confusion about how kale and affirmations will lead you to having a better outlook on life. Here’s the thing: self-care doesn’t have to be a huge endeavor. It doesn’t even have to be an endeavor, period. The idea is that you need to put your own needs, emotionally, physically, and spirituality, above other BS in life. It’s Not Your Job to Tell Yourself “No” Eric Thomas - Secrets to Success Full. LPT: Don't "six months" yourself to death. : LifeProTips. How to be perfectly unhappy. How to find your passion. 7.6k shares Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Too many of us believe in a magical being called ‘passion’.
“If only I could find my passion”, we cry. “Finding my passion would make me happy”. Well, passion is real, and very powerful. But almost everything people believe about finding it is wrong. Rule 1: Passion comes from success. The Best-Kept Secret to Getting Unstuck: Core Feelings. At 34 years old, Garrett is doing well in life.
He has a good job and a girlfriend who he hopes to marry. So Garrett is confused about why, each time he is alone, a sad feeling sneaks up on him. To prevent this from happening, Garrett stays as busy as he possibly can. All Anxiety is Not the Same: 3 Types, 3 Solutions. Maryann was raised by a mother who was both emotionally intense and needy.
All through her childhood, Maryann had to be very caring and supportive toward her mother to try to prevent explosions. Maryann grew up with the tendencies to sooth, give, and placate deeply entrenched in her character. But these character traits, essential survival mechanisms growing up, became a serious problem for her in her adult life. Childhood Emotional Neglect: The Enemy of Assertiveness. Perhaps you’ve seen the many great articles about assertiveness here on Psychcentral over the past few years.
Those articles have explained what assertiveness actually is: — standing up for yourself with a clear, even tone and words that are neither aggressive nor passive — and they’ve given helpful tips for how to be more assertive. The Brains of Anxious People May Perceive the World Differently. A new study shows that people with generalized anxiety disorder unconsciously label harmless things as threats, which may serve to further their anxiety.
These findings were published last week in the journal Current Biology. Psychologists recognize several forms of clinical anxiety. The most common is generalized anxiety disorder, or GAD, in which people frequently feel very worried or anxious even when it seems like there’s nothing to worry about. Some studies have suggested that anxiety disorders may stem from a process called overgeneralization.
Are You Your Friends’ Friend? Poor Perception of Friendship Ties Limits the Ability to Promote Behavioral Change. Introduction Studies of collective action have shown that social influence can greatly facilitate mobilization around collective goods, predict success of the action, and guide its design .
For instance, social influence is found to be a key factor in political uprisings [2, 3], strike movements , and other types of participation . Social influence in networks is also a well-recognized key factor in the diffusion of new behaviors [5–8], new ideas  and new products [10, 11] in society. 7 Essential Books on the Art and Science of Happiness. If you, like me, are fascinated by the human quest to understand the underpinnings of happiness but break out in hives at the mere mention of self-help books, you’re in luck: I’ve sifted through my personal library, a decade’s worth of obsessive reading, to surface seven essential books on the art and science of happiness, rooted in solid science, contemporary philosophy and cross-disciplinary insight.
From psychology and neuroscience to sociology and cultural anthropology to behavioral economics, these essential reads illuminate the most fundamental aspiration of all human existence: How to avoid suffering and foster lasting well-being. The question of what makes us happy is likely as old as human cognition itself and has occupied the minds of philosophers, prophets and scientists for millennia.
Human rationality depends critically on sophisticated emotionality. It is only because our emotional brains work so well that our reasoning can work at all.” The Psychology of Your Future Self and How Your Present Illusions Hinder Your Future Happiness. Philosopher Joshua Knobe recently posed a perplexing question in contemplating the nature of the self: If the person you will be in 30 years — the person for whom you plan your life now by working toward career goals and putting money aside in retirements plans — is invariably different from the person you are today, what makes that future person “you”?
What makes them worthy of your present self’s sacrifices and considerations? That’s precisely what Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert explores in this short and pause-giving TED talk on the psychology of your future self and how to avoid the mistakes you’re likely to make in trying to satisfy that future self with your present choices. Human beings are works in progress that mistakenly think they’re finished. The person you are right now is as transient, as fleeting and as temporary as all the people you’re ever been. The one constant in our lives is change. Jack Kerouac on Kindness, the Self Illusion, and the “Golden Eternity”
In the mid-1950s, literary iconoclast and beat icon Jack Kerouac (March 12, 1922–October 21, 1969) became intensely interested in Buddhism, which began permeating his writing. It was the golden age of Eastern ideas drawing Western minds, from legendary composer John Cage to pioneering philosopher Alan Watts, credited with popularizing Zen thinking in mainstream Western society. Watts, in fact, at one point criticized Kerouac’s writing as being “always a shade too self-conscious, too subjective, and too strident to have the flavor of Zen.” But when stripped of his literary self-consciousness, as he was in his private letters, Kerouac had a special way of articulating the most beautiful and eternal concepts of Zen Buddhism with equal parts expansive awareness and crystalline precision. The Ego and the Universe: Alan Watts on Becoming Who You Really Are. During the 1950s and 1960s, British philosopher and writer Alan Watts began popularizing Eastern philosophy in the West, offering a wholly different perspective on inner wholeness in the age of anxiety and what it really means to live a life of purpose.
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Article. By Garen Amirian for Good Men Project When you fail, is it your fault? When you succeed, is it just dumb luck? The way we explain our successes and failures has a tremendous impact on how we cope with stress. These explanations can help us define how much control we have over our surroundings, ourselves, and our mental health. 5 Signs You've Chosen An Emotionally Healthy Partner. Out of the FOG. Stinkin' Thinkin' - The Ten Forms of Twisted Thinking — Out of the FOG. A popular list of common negative thought patterns from The Feeling Good Handbook, by David D. Intermittent Reinforcement — Out of the FOG. Intermittent Reinforcement - Intermittent Reinforcement is when rules, rewards or personal boundaries are handed out or enforced inconsistently and occasionally.
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