Oslo. Love styles. Love styles are modi operandi of how people love, originally developed by John Lee (1973,[1] 1988[2]).
He identified six basic love styles—also known as "colours" of love—that people use in their interpersonal relationships: Clyde Hendrick and Susan Hendrick of Texas Tech University expanded on this theory in the mid-1980s with their extensive research on what they called "love styles". They have found that men tend to be more ludic, whereas women tend to be storgic and pragmatic. Mania is often the first love style teenagers display. Relationships based on similar love styles were found to last longer. Styles[edit] Eros[edit] Akin to limerence, eros is literally the love of Beauty. Erotic lovers view marriage as an extended honeymoon, and sex as the ultimate aesthetic experience.
The advantage of erotic love is the sentimentality of it. Ludus[edit] Ludic lovers are players. Ludic lovers tend to view marriage as a trap and are the most likely of the love styles to commit infidelity. Love, Actually Ideas. Love Life Gone Sour?? Rekindle Your Friendship! (Guest Blogger - Mariel "Or so she says...") Hello, Love Actually readers!
What a fun blog this is! So fun, in fact that the readers of "Or so she says... " keep telling me about it! Of course, I had to check it out and now I'm a fan too! My name is Mariel, by the way. I am the co-author of "Or so she says... ," a blog I write with my cousin, Jessica. So, today I thought I would stick to the "love" and "relationships" theme of this blog and share one of our previous posts... It's been a long day. You begin to organize the 3 foot stack of papers on the kitchen counter....throw some out, file others, hang some on the fridge, etc.
You clean up the orange juice, wipe away tears, and run the dude to his friends house and run out of gas. You pull out the Hamburger Helper and suddenly, the man responsible for all of this madness walks in the door, drops another foot of papers onto the pile, grabs your butt and asks if you have a minute. He goes and turns on golf, super loud, and falls asleep. Please say this sounds familiar. 1. 2. 3. 4. Love, Actually. Writing -> Papers -> Rant.04. 25 Most Romantic Movie Quotes. It's Valentine's Day, so it seemed appropriate to gather the most romantic movie lines of all time -- from "Casablanca" to "Four Weddings and a Funeral" to, of course, "The Notebook.
" "The Notebook" (2004) "So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. "The Twilight Saga: New Moon" (2009) "I love you. "Dirty Dancing" (1987) "Me? "As Good As It Gets" (1997) "...I might be the only one who appreciates how amazing you are in every single thing that you do, and ... "Four Weddings and a Funeral" (1994) "Ehm, look. "Romeo and Juliet" (1968) "But soft; what light through yonder window breaks?
"On Golden Pond" (1981) "Listen to me, mister. "Love Actually" (2003) "But for now, let me say — without hope or agenda, just because it's Christmas and at Christmas you tell the truth — to me, you are perfect.